The Kinda Girl That You Can Dream Of

Ehem, trend from tik tok😔😔😔

(Pls, someone kill me)

Being a pro censorship ao3 user is so insanely cringe. Either use the (incredibly effective and well designed) filtering system to avoid seeing the shit you don't like or stop complaining. Leave the pro censorship rhetoric to Wattpad or smth

"UM OP DON'T YOU REALIZE THAT THIS INNOCUOUS VIDEO/IMAGE/POST IS ACTUALLY FETISH CONTENT"

might not be true at all and might be puritan panic you bought into but ok

even if it IS true, ok?? and?? based

it’s unfortunate that (some) people in fandom spaces are starting to get too comfortable complaining and being rude to writers and artists who create contents they personally don’t like (“why are you making this character a top when he’s obviously a bottom? omg do you even understand his character?” “I’m so sick of seeing fan art and fanfic where this character is portrayed as a sadist when he’s actually misunderstood in my opinions, therefore anyone who disagrees with me is wrong and should be shamed” just to name a few I’ve seen) instead of curating their own fandom experiences by engaging only with contents they do like.

you want more fics where (x) is written in this specific way? either write one yourself or politely expressing your opinion about how you hope there will be more fics where (x) is written in this specific way instead of making fandom a toxic place by being rude to writers and artists who dare make contents that are not to your Personal Liking.

if the universe does not revolve around you, strangers and fandom spaces don’t have to cater exclusively to your personal preferences either.

to all my beloved writers and artists, write whatever you want, draw whatever you want. portray that character in whichever way you want to portray. I hope you have fun doing what you love. don’t let anybody tell you what you can or can’t do with the blorbo. go wild. I will always support you

btw you are not a "bad" or "deadbeat" mutual for not actively interacting with people or reblogging their posts. it doesn't matter if you don't manage to catch up on everything or if you don't reblog everything with numerous tags. it's okay! we all have lives outside of here and we get busy. and even if you just don't have the energy or don't feel like it, that's perfectly okay, too. please don't guilt yourself or put yourself down because you feel you aren't being supportive enough / not doing enough. the only thing that matters is that you feel comfortable and safe here. i could care less if you didn't reblog things. don't set yourself on fire to keep others warm

OKAY. formally informal announcement that ppl that ordered tlb plushys should be getting shipment emails from bigcartel soon hi it's just me making the shipping labels and giving the tracking numbers when i mark orders as shipped