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Neurotypical: You should help me put more it's the nice thing to do.
Autistic: Okay, I'll do whatever you need me to do. Just tell me what to do.
Neurotypical: I shouldn't have to tell you what to do, just help.
Autistic: How can I help????
Neurotypical: You're so inconsiderate for not helping even when I don't ask directly for help.
This is a personal experience of mine and I can't describe how frustrating it feels!
I will literally do what you tell me to if you just say it!
I can't understand when you might want my help, so all you have to do is ASK DIRECTLY!
Don't do shit like "oh I wish someone could help me." Because I won't know if that'd a joke or not!
Just say, "Hey can you help me clean this?" Or "Hey do you kind getting the mail for me?"
It's not that hard.
I'm not inconsiderate for not helping you when you didn't ask.
anyone else have ocd that is so up and down like one moment i’ll feel so confident and happy in my relationship, positive that i love him so much and that i want to be with him forever. and then 4 min later i’m questioning everything and wondering if i’d be happier single. fuck this!
i hate casual ableism cause if i try to defend myself i just sound like jughead
them: "omg stop [insert nd trait], just act normal"
me: "bitch i cant, im literally not normal. the synapses in my brain are physically different. im weird ok?? im a weirdo. have you ever seen me make eye contact? no, you fucking havent. THATS WEIRD."
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Blue Lagoon Iceland from my recent trip to Reykjavik 🏔️
Specify if: With good or fair insight: The individual recognizes that obsessive-compulsive dis- order beliefs are definitely or probably not true or that they may or may not be true. With poor insight: The individual thinks obsessive-compulsive disorder beliefs are probably true. With absent insight/delusional beliefs: The individual is completely convinced that obsessive-compulsive disorder beliefs are true.