Please Remember That...

Please remember that...

- A Dominant or submissive can be any gender

- A Dominant or submissive can be any body type

- A Dominant or submissive can be any age above legal age

- Male identifying submissives are not, by default, ‘sissies’

- Female identifying submissives are not, by default, ‘little girls’

- Just because you’re not a submissive doesn’t make you a Dominant

- Just because you’re not a Dominant doesn’t make you a submissive

- Switches exist, and they’re amazing.

- BDSM is full of nuance: there isn’t only one way to do it

- D/S does not have to be a 24/7, 365 day thing

- A D/s relationship does not necessarily have to include bondage, humiliation, impact play, water sports, lactation training, forced orgasms, or ANYTHING YOU DON’T WANT IT TO.

- Be the Dominant or submissive that is right for you, and find someone who thinks along the same vein. Never let someone make you feel you have to do something you’re not comfortable with.