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Things to Say to Someone in Top Drop/Dom Drop

I’m okay

I love you

Thank you

It’s alright

I’m not hurt

I’m not hurt too badly

You’re lovely/wonderful/kind

I enjoyed it

It was worth it

Take your time

Do you need anything?

Do you want a cuddle?

Do you want me to get dressed/take the collar off/put the crop away?

Do you want to talk about it?

I’m here

You’re not a bad person

Top drop/dom drop usually comes from shock, guilt or insecurity about the way you have just treated someone whose well-being you care about very much. Like sub drop, it is usually accompanied by a fall in endorphins and general energy levels. Especially for aces (who I find have a greater need to be in the right mindset/’zone’ for play and intimacy), a ‘snap’ moment where you break out of play mode can throw you emotionally, and the end of play causes a similar reassessment or double-take at what happened during the scene.

Dominants in drop require the same kind of care as subs, but a different kind of reassurance.

Clingy Doms

Sure clingy subs are adorable and nice and all but consider this:

-Doms that dont wanna let you go and hug you tightly

-Doms that are addicted to your scent and constantly bury their noses on you

-Doms that whine and pull you closer when you have to wake up early

-Doms that spam you with text till they have your full attention

-Doms that always have their eyes on you and admiring you

Clingy doms in general <3

"I came to the thought of you"

Good do it again.