Don’t let someone treat you badly just because you care about them.
It doesn’t matter if they are a friend, family member, or partner.
It doesn’t matter how long you’ve known them or how kind they’ve been in the past.
You have the right to call out their harmful behavior.
Set clear limits on what is and isn’t okay for you.
You can speak up about how their actions make you feel, and you’re allowed to share your experiences with others.
If needed, you also have the right to step back and create distance.
You have every right to say:
“I love you and I want you in my life, but I can’t keep allowing you to treat me this way. I won’t sacrifice my well-being to keep this relationship going.
If things don’t get better, I will have to end this relationship, not because I don’t care about you, but because I care about myself and deserve respect.”
#Abdullah
Every relationship will get “Boring” after you've been together for years.
Love isn't just a feelings. It's a commitment to love every day, physically and emotionally.
It's difficult, it's not always laughs, smiles and fun.
People tend to quit when it's stop being fun, and they go look for someone else, because “the spark is gone”. No, that's not how it works.
You want somebody to never give up on you and love unconditionally then do the same.
Be the change.
Love someone when you don't want to. When they aren't the easiest to deal with. When they are hard to love.
🤍 #Abdullah.
A story doesn't exist unless it's Told.
This is your life. You may not be able to control all the things people do to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them. You can decide not to let their actions and opinions invade your heart and mind. And above all, you can decide whom to walk beside into tomorrow, and whom to leave behind today.
‿ℒℴνℯ⁀💕 Abdullah
This is Palestine our Homeland.
‿ℒℴνℯ⁀💕 A͓̽b͓̽d͓̽u͓̽l͓̽l͓̽a͓̽h͓̽
"The Untold Stories."
One of the hardest pills to swallow as an adult is that not everyone can afford to sacrifice.
Not everyone can drop everything all at once and go on a great venture towards the uncertain roads―just to feel something new or just to restart life. Some find it easy to risk because they still have something to return to. But what about the others? What about me? What I have now is all that I got. If I stumble, it’ll take me years to get back to my feet again.
All the steps I take are counted one by one, and I feel like I was always unlucky when it comes to finding my place in this world. I am a coward, but I am extra careful. I am hesitant, but I am always protective of what I have earned.
Maybe, making mistakes is a privilege. Everyone can move forward with questions left untouched in the morning, but for someone like me who doesn’t have lifelines, I fear the cruel answers and rejections that would come up with the sun.
All my life, I have been mending the damage of my wrong decisions. And so, I pray this time, that even if I am granted nothing else but just a mediocre life―let it be gentler. Safer. I hope I am content. I just don’t want the world to once again take me at an unfair advantage just because I don’t have enough support systems.
I have no other options but to be my own safety net.
𝐖𝐇𝐄𝐍 𝐀 𝐖𝐎𝐌𝐀𝐍 𝐇𝐀𝐒 𝐇𝐀𝐃 𝐄𝐍𝐎𝐔𝐆𝐇, 𝐘𝐎𝐔’𝐑𝐄 𝐉𝐔𝐒𝐓 𝐀𝐍𝐎𝐓𝐇𝐄𝐑 𝐌𝐄𝐌𝐎𝐑𝐘.
You can shower her with gifts, offer endless apologies, and promise to change, but when a woman’s heart has had enough, when the pain outweighs the love, there’s no going back.
She might have stayed through the lies, the neglect, and the countless times you didn’t appreciate her. She might have fought for the relationship, hoping you’d see her worth. But every time you hurt her, a piece of her heart faded, until one day, she woke up and realized she deserved better.
And when that happens, you’re no longer the man she once loved. You’re just a memory, a chapter she’s ready to close. You’ll find yourself erased from her life, her thoughts, and her plans for the future.
Because when a woman finally chooses herself over the relationship, no amount of effort can bring her back. She’s done. And you’ll realize too late that all the things you could’ve done to make her happy won’t matter anymore.
A woman’s love is deep, but so is her strength. And when she decides to move on, she moves forward with no regrets.
Abdullah.
A story doesn't exist unless it's Told.
I swear I only want to hear about you, to know what you've been doing. Its a hundred years since we've met - it may be another hundred years before we meet again.
#Abdullah.
A story doesn't exist unless it's Told.
"Perhaps, somewhere, someday, at a less miserable time, we may see each other again" - Abdullah.
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