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Shifting Her Respect From Him to You

One of your goals as a Bull should be to get the wife’s respect as a man, indeed as THE man, in her life. For women, attraction and respect go hand in hand.  She must respect you if she is going to be sexually drawn to you.

This is not something you can or will accomplish in one visit. It will take time, accomplished by a process that is not unlike any other relationship. It begins with treating her with total respect, as you would any woman. Of course the biggest difference in this situation is that there is a third person involved, the husband.

It’s actually your relationship with the husband that can offer the best opportunities to improve the wife’s respect for you. As part of the cuckold relationship, the husband must step aside in many respects, offering his wife to you. He must furthermore defer to you in all situations, decisions, etc.

The husband’s subservience is always implied on some level. To some this might mean complete submission, while in other relationships it might simply mean that you go first in a MFM sexual encounter. The exact level of subservience is different in every Bull-cuckold-Hotwife relationship, and you will need to establish that for your situation.

However, regardless of that level, there can only be one Alpha male and that must be the Bull. Women are naturally drawn to the Alpha male. For you, the challenge is that the wife has an existing relationship and emotional attachment with the man she has long considered to be “her” Alpha male. You need to change that.

The first step has already happened, before you even became involved. The couple has agreed to include another male. Bear in mind that there are many reason that the wife may have agreed to this. She may genuinely have a need for more sex. She may have agreed to do this to “spice up” their marriage. But the most common reason most women agree is because the HUSBAND suggested it and he likely talked her into it. She probably agreed to it in order to please him.

Regardless of why the wife agreed, one undeniable fact will be on her mind – her husband was willing to take a backseat to another man, agreeing to offer the woman he loves to another man for sexual gratification. She may love her husband, but the fact that he has offered her to another man will leave her perplexed at best, and possibly disappointed. Her respect for him has already been diminished, even if she doesn’t realize it!

As cruel as it may sound, your job is to further reduce her respect for her husband, and to build her respect you. When dealing with the husband, you need to demonstrate Alpha male behavior. Confidence and demeanor are everything. Most of your attention should focus on the wife, not the husband.

At your first meeting or two, you should engage them both. Over time you should spend less time interacting with the husband. But remember, the wife loves her husband. You don’t want to do anything rude or openly condescending to the husband. You want to come across as the dominant man, focused on the woman he desires, while slowly letting the husband fade into the background. If done properly, she will see you emerge as the Alpha male in the relationship, and become sexually drawn to you.

This same attitude should follow into the bedroom or any sexual setting. When meeting, always be aware to physically place yourself between the wife and husband. Stand and sit between them. Use your presence as a barrier between the husband and his wife. She will unconsciously view this as your herding and protecting your woman from “the competition”.

Once things become physical, don’t be shy, even when the husband is present. The idea of a cuckold relationship is that the wife becomes yours. Treat her as your woman. Sit beside her, kiss her, hold her hand, caress her, etc., as if she were your own wife. When things are ready to become sexual, take charge.

Tip: Don’t EVER ask the husband for permission. If you need confirmation that she is ready to become sexual, get that from her, NOT him. Whether it’s body language, a whisper or discussion, the decision is between you and the wife. Ignore the husband if he is present. Do the same in bed. If the husband is present you should largely ignore him.

However, there are a few exceptions to this, all of which can be used to enhance her respect for you and reduce her respect for him.  Some couples enjoy variations of verbal humiliation. This can include you and/or the wife hurling demeaning insults at the husband, criticizing his manhood (literally and figuratively), his sexual ability and lack thereof, and the fact that he lets another man bed his wife. Common comments and questions might include:

From you: “Do you like watching me fuck your wife?” From you: “Your wife has a great pussy. Too bad you won’t be getting any of it tonight” From you: “She sucks cock like a pro. How could you give this up?”

From her: “He is so much better (or bigger) than you Honey!” From her: “I would rather fuck him than you”. From her: “You may not ever get my pussy again”.

As you say things such as this to the husband his wife will lose more respect for him. You should try to get the wife involved with talking to her husband in this manner. Her insulting him will greatly speed up the process of losing respect for him, and shift that same respect over to the man lying in bed next to her (you!).

The final step in the process involves the sexual union itself. There is a proven physiological response that all women experience when they have an orgasm. It leads to an emotional bonding with the man she is having sex with. Another scientifically proven fact is that women derive a greater level of satisfaction from sex which results in the deposit of semen in their vagina. Semen contains dozens of hormones which are absorbed into a woman’s body, resulting in a deeper sense of calmness and satisfaction after sex.

Use this knowledge to build a stronger physical relationship with the wife. Engage in intercourse with her often, making sure that she has intense, multiple orgasms. If you are engaging in au natural sex be sure to ejaculate inside her at least once every encounter.

Another angle to get her respect is to place limits on the sex that the husband and wife can engage in with one another. This is not uncommon among cuckold couples. The Bull often directs them to refrain from sex. You might demand that they only have oral sex together. Or you may demand that they not have intercourse within two or three days of when you plan to see her next, or you could ban them from having intercourse at all. I once had a couple that was allowed to have intercourse only the day after I had sex with her. If the couple will agree to this it will work to your advantage in many ways.  

First, you’ve taken charge of their sex lives, which she will admire. When you do have sex with her, she will be more receptive (and have better orgasms), because she hasn’t been having sex with her husband.  Time without sex builds passion! She will lose even more respect for her husband if he allows you to have control over his sexual releases.

If you do end up having intercourse with the wife exclusively (limiting her husband to oral only), she will strongly bond with you. If you want to relegate her husband to an even lower level of subservience, and deal another blow to the decline of her respect for her husband, consider having him go down on her after you’re engaged in intercourse and ejaculated inside her.

There are few ways to better demonstrate your role as the dominant male, than to ejaculate inside the wife and then demand that her husband crawl between her outstretched legs and immerse himself in the juices of your union. Tasting and smelling the essence of his wife’s pussy after you completed yourself inside her reinforces his position as a subservient male, relegated to deriving his sexual satisfaction solely from your “leftovers”.

For the wife, she will be unable to deny the obvious ramifications from seeing her husband submit in this manner. Consider her viewpoint. Who would she have more respect for? The man who mounted and pounded her, leaving her satisfied and filled. Or the man who sat in the corner until summoned to lap the cum out of her used, gaping pussy, emptying it of the very essence she found so pleasing? The answer is obvious.

You’re the Bull. Take your time, play it smart and reap your rewards.

I Dare You

“I dare you to say it’s okay for me to make out with your wife,” my friend said half-jokingly. My wife giggled at this outrageous suggestion. Knowing that she would never agree to be kissed by anyone but me, I called his bluff.

“Yeah, sure - it’s fine by me. If you can get her to go along, have at it,” I said with a confident chuckle.

He went in to make his move with my wife offering zero resistance. After a minute of deep, sensual tongue kissing, he cupped her chin and she started to moan. Several more minutes passed and that’s when it hit me: Their rhythm is too perfect for this to have been their first kiss.

Role Playing:  Part V (the final chapter)

Part 1

https://emotionally-cuckolded.tumblr.com/post/677195092457635840/roles-part-1

Part 2

https://emotionally-cuckolded.tumblr.com/post/677197795652993024/roles-part-ii

Part 3

https://emotionally-cuckolded.tumblr.com/post/677287941707644928/role-play-part-iii

Part IV

https://emotionally-cuckolded.tumblr.com/post/677404741351915520/role-playing-part-iv

Role Playing [Part V – the final chapter]

As more and more days passed since Steve and Kate and Brad had begun their role playing game, the roles they were no win seemed to be becoming more and more real even to Steve, to the degree that he now often forget that – legally at least – HE was the one married to Kate.  It had now been a couple of weeks since Steve had seen Kate and Brad, and his old life as her husband seemed almost foreign to him.  He had run into some old friends a few times, in stores or on the street, but they had obviously felt uncomfortable talking with him, which made his previous life seem even more distant and different from the role he was “playing” now.

After missing two Friday evening get togethers, Steve was expecting to visit Kate and Brad this coming Friday, and was desperately hoping that when he did, they could all agree that the game had gone on long enough.  Steve was certainly willing to say that he was fine with whatever had taken place between Kate and Brad during the game – having sex together, sharing the bedroom, socializing as a couple – but he was ready to go back to how things were before the game began.  But then, early that week, Steve got an email from Kate telling him that Friday was off for them because they were taking a five-day long weekend together in Vegas.  Going to Vegas for long weekend “flings” had been one of Kate and Steven’s special treats with each other, so it pained Steve to think that even that was now something where he was being replaced by Brad. But the, FINALLY, the following week, Kate sent Steve and email inviting him to visit on Friday.  She even said in the email that she and Brad would have something special to say on Friday – which, to Steve, obviously meant that they were ready to end the role playing and everything would then get back to “normal”.

When Steve arrived and what had been his and Kate’s house – but which now had basically become Kate and Brad’s house – he was surprised to see a lot of cars already there.  When he went inside, the place was full with all the people who had been Steve and Kate’s friends – but who had, for the past month, been friends with Kate and Brad – along with Kate’s parents and Brad’s sisters and parents.  Everyone got a little quiet when they saw the Steve had arrived, and mostly just whispered after that, without anyone seeming to want to talk with Steve, who stood awkwardly and anxiously by himself.  He was grateful, therefore, when just a few minutes after he arrived, Kate and Brad called everyone into the living and asked them to stand around them in circle.  Then, with Kate and Brad holding hands and looking into each others’ eyes with looks of intense love, Kate told the assembled that while they were in Vegas she had gotten a divorce, and then – almost before Steve had really processed the meaning of what she had said – Brad got down on one knee in front of Kate, took out a ring, and took her hand and put the ring on her finger and asked her to marry him.  Kate immediately said yes …yes …YES – and everyone there (except for Steve) broke out in spontaneous applause.

As people gathered round to congratulate the happy couple, Brad then said that there was MORE.  After giving Kate a huge hug and long loving kiss, he again got on one knee in front of her and gave her a kiss on the belly, and Kate said – “AND I’m pregnant”.  Once again, everyone there (except for Steve) cheered and applauded, and Steve noticed that Kate’s mom and Brad’s mom were standing together and both had tears of happiness in their eyes. 

Steve now realized that his continued presence there would not be appreciated, so he quietly started to leave.  But Kate noticed him, and called out to him to stop – saying that there was something she wanted to say to him.  What flashed through Steve’s mind at that point was that she was going to say something kind to him – perhaps an apology.  He was wrong.  “Steve” she said when she reached him.  “I just want you to know that I have always loved Brad, even from before when you and I got married.  For me, he always has been "the one”.“  That news didn’t exactly make Steve feel better, and in fact, a tear or two started to go down his face as he turned away from Kate and started to leave again.  "Wait, Steve” Kate then said.  “Before you go – one more thing.   Brad is selling his house, so we need you to move out by tomorrow."  Now Steve felt completely overwhelmed and he started to really cry.  "B..but Kate.  Where can I go?  Can I come back here – to, uh, to our house.  Since, well, since it really is half mine, isn’t it?”.   Kate’s answer was basically the final blow.  “No, Steve, it’s not.  During the past few weeks I’ve been putting everything in my name and in Brad’s name, and according to the divorce decree, you get nothing.  Good bye."  And with that, Steve left, never to see Kate again.

The End