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Lecture 9: PE Fetish vs. SPH and penis size

Premature Ejaculation University Winter 2018 curriculum Premature Ejaculation Concepts 101 Professor Maximus vanSnelst

Lecture 9: PE Fetish vs. SPH and penis size

Welcome back, students!

In this lecture we’re going to talk about the apparent correlation between an interest in the Premature Ejaculation fetish and an interest in SPH, which stands for Small Penis Humiliation. And we’ll take about whether the PE fetish/fascination in general is related to small penis size. Perusing posts, captions, and followers of premature ejaculation issues, one cannot help but detect an overlap between the two. Captions often combine premature ejaculation and small dick size. Commentary often does as well. And many SPH enthusiasts also list PE as an interest/fetish, and vice versa. So are the two related?

Is PE a matter of friction?

Let’s start with looking at premature ejaculation in general. As we all know, PE may be caused by a variety of issues. Among them are heredity, age, psychological issues, formative experiences, or biological/medical matters. There is, however, one constant that brings upon the male orgasm, and that is friction. That’s true for masturbation as well as for intercourse. Without friction, orgasm doesn’t happen. Sure, sometimes an orgasm occurs even if you’re totally still. But that’s because some sort of friction got you excited enough to be ready for orgasm.  

Since friction is an essential part of orgasm, one could reasonably expect premature ejaculation to primarily be an issue for the larger penis. Why? Because, given the same size vagina, a larger penis will experience more tightness and thus stronger friction. And the more friction/tightness during intercourse, the more likely is a premature ejaculation. On the other hand, the smaller the penis, the less friction and tightness, and the less likely is PE. That seems logical.

Or is the fetish a matter of (small) size?

So why then the apparent correlation between smaller size, SPH and PE? Since physics, mechanics and friction dynamics strongly suggest that there are more guys with large dicks who are premature ejaculators, why does it appear to be(come) a fetish primarily for those with smaller ones?

Is perhaps the thrill with humiliation the common factor? Some consider it deliciously embarrassing and humiliating to have (or pretend to have) a small penis and it’s also embarrassing and humiliating to be a premature ejaculator. Then again, there are other humiliating things that are fetishized, yet one doesn’t see them combined with PE.

Here at PEU we have interviewed numerous students for their opinions and theories on the matter. Here are some examples of how respondents answered:

“They’re both a fetish for being humiliated for having an inadequate penis. Whether the penis is too small to please a woman, or just doesn’t last long enough to please her, it’s a cock that serves no purpose.”

“Humiliation and inadequacy seem to be a common theme among many of my blog followers. I see more likes when my captions emphasize these views. You can add cuckolding and interracial themes to small dick fantasies. I would say there is certainly enough evidence to support the connection of all of these to the PE fetish.”

“My evidence is only antidotal, but I have found no correlation between penis size and PE, with roughly equal numbers for large and small.”

“PE is stress/adrenaline-related. But if you looked only at the physical aspect, a smaller penis has the same number of nerve endings over a smaller surface area which should result in more sensitivity and therefore more PE.

“I have spoken to lots of guys over the years about PE. And there is a link between small penis and lack of staminia.”

“3” penis and a 8" penis have the same amount of nerve endings. Obviously more spread out over an 8" penis than the 3" penis. So the smaller condensed area for those nerve ending do result in more chance of PE.”

This is just a small sample of answers. And just to make matters even more complex, let’s not forget that having PE is by no means the same as having a PE fetish. Millions of men suffer from PE and hate the conditions, whereas a small minority like being PE, and some who are not PE at all desire to become so.  

Where does SPH come into play?

Penis size is a given. You are what you are. That’s one thing you really cannot change (without resorting to drastic measures). Penis size is on a bell curve just like height and weight, bell curve meaning most people are average, increasingly fewer are on the far left (small) and far right (large) size of the size distribution curve. So most males never give penis size much thought because they are average. It is only those who are very large (will she freak? will I fit without hurting her?) or very small (can I get in? will she laugh at me? will I disappoint her?) who think a lot about penis size.  

SPH – Small Penis Humiliation — is defined as a syndrome where a male gets a sexual thrill over having, or pretending/wishing to have, a small penis. The sexual thrill is based on the humiliation factor, and the humiliation can take many forms.

It can be self-erotic, as in getting excited over the very thought of having a small penis, contemplating what it means, feeling sexually stimulated over the humiliation of not measuring up, imagining sexual encounters where the lack of size becomes an issue, and just generally not being quite a full male.

It can be interactive, as in actively seeking contact with others over penis size. This can be discussing the syndrome with other males who feel the same, getting aroused simply by the conversation. Or it can take the form of seeking actual reaction from females via chat, vidcam session, sex lines, etc.

Or it can be other thrills, like having to struggle entering a pussy, or being unable to do so in the first place.

Why is the thought of not measuring up sexually stimulating to some men? And why is SPH quite common while there is no female equivalent? Small Breast Humiliation? Loose Pussy Humiliation? Those don’t exist, even though there are many women who are into erotic degrading and humiliation. 

So what makes SPH so unique? What is the thrill over not measuring up? What could it possibly be? Why should there be a thrill over coming up short, no pun intended, in something that is a primary pleasure in life, and a primary source of not only good feelings, but also self-confidence and self-esteem?

And why is it that many males who are into SPH are not actually small?

These are all interesting questions. However, one thing is becoming somewhat clear. Both PE and small penis size can be considered sexual inadequacies. Both can be experienced as being humiliating or embarrassing. So if an individual finds sexual humiliation arousing, and that applies to a surprisingly number of males, then finding excitement in both PE and small penis size becomes much more understandable. More humiliation is better for some males, and for them the one-two punch of having a small dick AND PE is like having a shot of Tequila with a beer chaser.

Bottom line here, dear students? It doesn’t matter. Fetishes are not rational. They just are. They can bring us great pleasure. Physical realities are almost secondary. A man who is not small can get great pleasure out of the concept of small penis humiliation. Just as a male who does not have PE can get great pleasure over desiring to be PE. And it seems pretty clear that humiliation seems related both to PE and SPH.

It’s all about humiliation

Why are some people turned on by humiliation in the first place? Another good question. Almost no one likes to be humiliated in any part of life other than sex. So that’s something to think about. However, domination and submission themselves are deeply ingrained in the human experience. Both are driving forces of civilization. Conquest and yielding yielding and conquest; two sides of the same coin.

I’d love to hear your views on all this! – Professor Maximus vanSnelst

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Global Africanization

anonymous asked:

I was reading your post about both European and Asian countries being Africanized last night, and I was wonder if you wanted to see the *entire* world become Africanized in the future.

I get a lot of “will [country x] be Africanized?” questions in my inbox. The answer to all of these questions is “yes”, but perhaps this query will provide a good opportunity to explain why I am so confident in making these predictions.

Let’s start with some facts of life. When a black person and a non-black person have a child, that child will often inherit more features from the black parent than the non-black parent. 70/30 is probably a realistic split. So when interracial relationships become more popular, that means black features become more widespread in society and more so with each passing generation.

Procreation is generally the privilege of the young. In terms of global society, the young are mostly African and Asian, but only because there are already so many Asians that even a dwindling birth rate will lead to high total birth numbers. The only group that is still rapidly increasing in size are Africans.

Long-distance travel and migration are becoming more affordable and common each year. That means the racial composition of global society is quickly becoming a more relevant predictor for your own society’s future than whatever its current demographic state may be.

Just these three pieces of information should make it easy for you to imagine what any country will look like in due time.

Now if Africans only had the numbers advantage, which they certainly do, then maybe this development would not be inevitable. Fortunately, they also have the sex appeal advantage going for them. This is especially true for black men, but with our shifting female beauty standards, it’s becoming a reality for black women as well.

Because black men embody the ideal male type better than anyone, interracial porn has become so popular. Because interracial porn is so popular, interracial imagery has made its way into your everyday life as well. Advertising, entertainment–even your sex ed materials now have it. It’s hard to escape and it is absolutely spawning curious new ideas in both black and non-black minds.

More people than you realize are fantasizing about it and given the chance to live the fantasy, many of them would. Some would be deterred by whatever lingering stigma there still is, but it’s obvious that this stigma has an expiration date. Interracial coupling isn’t just a random consequence of an increased African presence; it is one of the key reasons why many people will support an increased African presence in their countries.

Obviously this will take longer in some places and cultures due to all kinds of reasons. But the fundamental reality (that humanity is increasingly African and that non-Africans find them alluring and desirable) will penetrate these societies eventually.

I hope that the Africanization of Europe will be a major catalyst for this. Once Eurafrikans with Swedish or French incomes and passports make use of their newfound privileges and explore the world, this exposure should speed up the desire to mix even in societies that have few ties to Africa or blacked Western culture.

It would be a fitting finale for European whiteness that a sexually enchanted Europa should not just open her legs, but also her vast bank accounts for the African cause. Make sure that the dark hands that are gently, but firmly guiding her into her new role will have the reach to repeat that process in all corners of the planet. We should be so lucky!