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This is so accurate. I don’t understand why mainstream Medicine and society still try to claim that it’s not true. Ask any nurse… or white guy that played sports in college… black guys have bigger penises. And it’s not close- on average they are 2.5-3 inches bigger than white guys. Maybe more.

Do Black Men have Bigger Dicks?

White men ask me 6,824 times a day, “Is it true that black men have bigger dicks?”  I guess they need validation because they haven’t looked at interracial porn 6 hours a day, 6 days a week, for the last 6 years.  I’m the ultimate source on all things Black and sexual so of course they come to me, annoying the fuck out of me, trying to make me look at their little dicks in an effort to “disprove the myth.”  What annoys me more than their incessant need to ask me if Black men have bigger dicks is when they send me pictures of their very average 5 inch pricks and claim that they are 8 inches.  No sweetie, that’s centimeters, turn the ruler over.  Black people have bigger noses, bigger lips, bigger asses, why on earth is it so hard to conceive that Black men have bigger dicks?  It’s only okay to acknowledge our features that are larger when those features are considered undesirable.  Overall, more often than not, in general, the answer is yes, black men have bigger dicks.  Of course not every single one is bigger but by and large, yes, brothas pack more.  I’ve seen quite a few dicks that were larger than average, all of which belong to black men.  I’ve seen a few on black men that were obscenely large and scared the hell out of me.  It could be that because I’m 5’10” and most of the men that approach me are well over 6’ tall and they just happen to have larger dicks.  I’m not discounting that as a possibility.  But conversely, that would mean that the white men whom I’ve met in my life should fall in the same category of having larger than average dicks and that’s just not the case.    Most of the white dicks I’ve seen are average or smaller than average.  I’ve never seen a very large white dick in person.  I’ve seen a HELLUVA lot of white men that have little teenie tiny microscopic cocks.  I do think Black men tend to have larger penises, I do think that Black people can dance better overall, and I do think we tend to have naturally more muscular frames.  All that being said, I don’t think that ALL we are capable of is sports and dancing and fucking.  That’s the stereotype, that’s the disgrace: to equate those things with some sort of Negro superpower that doesn’t take into account our intellect, our humanity as people, the totality of our talent, ability and aptitude.  I don’t see anything wrong with saying that black men TEND to have bigger dicks.  So what?  To objectify Black men for their dicks is the offense.  To only see them as savage bucks with big dicks is the crime.  To assert that the Black man is superior and only relegate that to his penis size and sexuality is the sickness that warps the minds of white men. 

Fun! Maybe I’ll do this with some of my kink-aware friends one day… Which one would you pick?

Lecture 9: PE Fetish vs. SPH and penis size

Premature Ejaculation University Winter 2018 curriculum Premature Ejaculation Concepts 101 Professor Maximus vanSnelst

Lecture 9: PE Fetish vs. SPH and penis size

Welcome back, students!

In this lecture we’re going to talk about the apparent correlation between an interest in the Premature Ejaculation fetish and an interest in SPH, which stands for Small Penis Humiliation. And we’ll take about whether the PE fetish/fascination in general is related to small penis size. Perusing posts, captions, and followers of premature ejaculation issues, one cannot help but detect an overlap between the two. Captions often combine premature ejaculation and small dick size. Commentary often does as well. And many SPH enthusiasts also list PE as an interest/fetish, and vice versa. So are the two related?

Is PE a matter of friction?

Let’s start with looking at premature ejaculation in general. As we all know, PE may be caused by a variety of issues. Among them are heredity, age, psychological issues, formative experiences, or biological/medical matters. There is, however, one constant that brings upon the male orgasm, and that is friction. That’s true for masturbation as well as for intercourse. Without friction, orgasm doesn’t happen. Sure, sometimes an orgasm occurs even if you’re totally still. But that’s because some sort of friction got you excited enough to be ready for orgasm.  

Since friction is an essential part of orgasm, one could reasonably expect premature ejaculation to primarily be an issue for the larger penis. Why? Because, given the same size vagina, a larger penis will experience more tightness and thus stronger friction. And the more friction/tightness during intercourse, the more likely is a premature ejaculation. On the other hand, the smaller the penis, the less friction and tightness, and the less likely is PE. That seems logical.

Or is the fetish a matter of (small) size?

So why then the apparent correlation between smaller size, SPH and PE? Since physics, mechanics and friction dynamics strongly suggest that there are more guys with large dicks who are premature ejaculators, why does it appear to be(come) a fetish primarily for those with smaller ones?

Is perhaps the thrill with humiliation the common factor? Some consider it deliciously embarrassing and humiliating to have (or pretend to have) a small penis and it’s also embarrassing and humiliating to be a premature ejaculator. Then again, there are other humiliating things that are fetishized, yet one doesn’t see them combined with PE.

Here at PEU we have interviewed numerous students for their opinions and theories on the matter. Here are some examples of how respondents answered:

“They’re both a fetish for being humiliated for having an inadequate penis. Whether the penis is too small to please a woman, or just doesn’t last long enough to please her, it’s a cock that serves no purpose.”

“Humiliation and inadequacy seem to be a common theme among many of my blog followers. I see more likes when my captions emphasize these views. You can add cuckolding and interracial themes to small dick fantasies. I would say there is certainly enough evidence to support the connection of all of these to the PE fetish.”

“My evidence is only antidotal, but I have found no correlation between penis size and PE, with roughly equal numbers for large and small.”

“PE is stress/adrenaline-related. But if you looked only at the physical aspect, a smaller penis has the same number of nerve endings over a smaller surface area which should result in more sensitivity and therefore more PE.

“I have spoken to lots of guys over the years about PE. And there is a link between small penis and lack of staminia.”

“3” penis and a 8" penis have the same amount of nerve endings. Obviously more spread out over an 8" penis than the 3" penis. So the smaller condensed area for those nerve ending do result in more chance of PE.”

This is just a small sample of answers. And just to make matters even more complex, let’s not forget that having PE is by no means the same as having a PE fetish. Millions of men suffer from PE and hate the conditions, whereas a small minority like being PE, and some who are not PE at all desire to become so.  

Where does SPH come into play?

Penis size is a given. You are what you are. That’s one thing you really cannot change (without resorting to drastic measures). Penis size is on a bell curve just like height and weight, bell curve meaning most people are average, increasingly fewer are on the far left (small) and far right (large) size of the size distribution curve. So most males never give penis size much thought because they are average. It is only those who are very large (will she freak? will I fit without hurting her?) or very small (can I get in? will she laugh at me? will I disappoint her?) who think a lot about penis size.  

SPH – Small Penis Humiliation — is defined as a syndrome where a male gets a sexual thrill over having, or pretending/wishing to have, a small penis. The sexual thrill is based on the humiliation factor, and the humiliation can take many forms.

It can be self-erotic, as in getting excited over the very thought of having a small penis, contemplating what it means, feeling sexually stimulated over the humiliation of not measuring up, imagining sexual encounters where the lack of size becomes an issue, and just generally not being quite a full male.

It can be interactive, as in actively seeking contact with others over penis size. This can be discussing the syndrome with other males who feel the same, getting aroused simply by the conversation. Or it can take the form of seeking actual reaction from females via chat, vidcam session, sex lines, etc.

Or it can be other thrills, like having to struggle entering a pussy, or being unable to do so in the first place.

Why is the thought of not measuring up sexually stimulating to some men? And why is SPH quite common while there is no female equivalent? Small Breast Humiliation? Loose Pussy Humiliation? Those don’t exist, even though there are many women who are into erotic degrading and humiliation. 

So what makes SPH so unique? What is the thrill over not measuring up? What could it possibly be? Why should there be a thrill over coming up short, no pun intended, in something that is a primary pleasure in life, and a primary source of not only good feelings, but also self-confidence and self-esteem?

And why is it that many males who are into SPH are not actually small?

These are all interesting questions. However, one thing is becoming somewhat clear. Both PE and small penis size can be considered sexual inadequacies. Both can be experienced as being humiliating or embarrassing. So if an individual finds sexual humiliation arousing, and that applies to a surprisingly number of males, then finding excitement in both PE and small penis size becomes much more understandable. More humiliation is better for some males, and for them the one-two punch of having a small dick AND PE is like having a shot of Tequila with a beer chaser.

Bottom line here, dear students? It doesn’t matter. Fetishes are not rational. They just are. They can bring us great pleasure. Physical realities are almost secondary. A man who is not small can get great pleasure out of the concept of small penis humiliation. Just as a male who does not have PE can get great pleasure over desiring to be PE. And it seems pretty clear that humiliation seems related both to PE and SPH.

It’s all about humiliation

Why are some people turned on by humiliation in the first place? Another good question. Almost no one likes to be humiliated in any part of life other than sex. So that’s something to think about. However, domination and submission themselves are deeply ingrained in the human experience. Both are driving forces of civilization. Conquest and yielding yielding and conquest; two sides of the same coin.

I’d love to hear your views on all this! – Professor Maximus vanSnelst

This is great. Anyone have stories of casual penis exposure? Male or female. Medical stories are great but I'd love to hear them all!! Message me to discuss.