im so grateful for bugs 🐞🐛🐜🦟🪲🪳🕷️🦋🦗🐝🐌🪰🪱
it's important to have bits that aren't good and also nobody likes and also aren't funny
christmas is coming so heres a reminder:
if ur stuck with abusive or shitty family...
u are always allowed to step away. i opt to go for a walk because "the fresh air is nice and its a little crowded in here right now" [using a light happy tone is key here, so hopefully theyre less likely to take it negatively]. u have autonomy over urself even if u dont feel like it
u can go to ur room and say ur just "grabbing something" [say its ur phone or a phone charger, something like that] and take a quick breather
u dont have to listen to the conversations. if theyre being bigotted u dont have to listen or say anything. loads of ppl have started a "if u dont say anything about ur familys bigotry ur part of the problem". u arent. ur keeping urself safe. u can zone out, tune it out, etc [u can even hide an earbud in ur ear for music if that helps]
keep a comfort item on u. i keep fidgets in my pockets.
u dont have to drink. no matter the pressure put on u.
if presents are involved and u feel overwhelmed by ppl trying to force u to give a positive reaction i usually say "wow thank u all so much! im putting these in my room real quick to keep them safe, thank u theyre lovely" [i struggle with this one a lot given im autistic as well so forcing the reaction is hard. i always use a script]
I hate opening TikTok comments, they always say things so definitively. Like idk man! Can you cite your sources
"it's all in your head" correct! unfortunately I am also in there
Being gentle with her because I know she never deserved her past, and she genuinely deserves pure, nontoxic, sweet & kind love.
i really do go insane three to four times a day
i died like 5 years ago my body just kept going
what if I just started UNDERthinking things
☆ he/they - minor - queer ☆☆ just a silly guy doing silly things ☆
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