Agentlemandaddy - A Gentleman Daddy

That’s what I want! Pillow fights in bed, wrestling and tickling and playing until we are kissing and clutching and craving each other! Show me that playfulness, baby girl! Show me what a little smart ass you are, let me see your inner little girl, show me that bratty side! Whack me in the back with your pillow when I’m not looking and dare me to make something of it! I’ll wrestle you and tickle you and pillow fight you until we are both gasping and giggling and laughing! Then I’ll grab your little hands in mine, pin you to the bed and show your squirmy little ass just how much daddy wants and needs you! Kissing you, tasting you, teasing you and fucking you until you are a cumming little mess for me! After we are both spent and gasping we will lie tangled together and start to laugh all over again! That’s what I want!

Hello, first of all I want to tell you that I love what you write, and that has made me curious about the Daddy/littlegirl dynamic. Could you explain to me better what that type of relationship is like?

Thank you 💞

G.

Hi there and thank you for the ask. I’m glad you enjoy my posts and your question is a good one but it will take a bit to explain.

So the short answer is that a daddy (or mommy)/ little dynamic boils down to a daddy that takes care of his little in what ever way they need to feel safe and have their needs met. I use gender neutral because you can have daddy’s or mommy’s, baby girls or baby boys, in most any combination. It’s really about a caregiver taking care of their little. Defining the dynamic is really a whole spectrum that is based on the wants and needs of each partner in the dynamic. Some may be as simple as a daddy who just spoils and takes care of his baby girl in basic ways. Or they could involve age play where the little likes to age regress to their preferred age and the daddy treats them as that age and cares for them while they are in “little space”. They could age play a teen, a young child, toddler, whatever fits their needs to be cared. Please note that age play is and should in no way be sexualized. It is the daddy giving their little a safe space to let go psychologically and behave as they feel they need too. There are also some aspects of a daddy/little dynamic that are very similar to dom / submissive dynamic. I would classify the daddy/little dynamic as a subset of the D/s dynamic or at least adjacent too. Daddy’s would typically be classified as soft doms that can be disciplinary but are typically supportive caregivers that have limited rules and often have d/s play when sharing sex together with their littles. Again it’s all a spectrum that can run from harder to softer play, differing levels of support, levels of play. The most important part is that the daddy is the protector and caregiver of the little. The daddy has to earn the trust of their little for the little to feel safe enough and loved enough to submit or give them self to their daddy. It’s a very vulnerable position and requires a lot of trust and a daddy that is focused on their littles safety and loving them. As long as that is being met and respected then the rest is really wide open to what the partners want the relationship to be. It’s all about trust and love.

As a warning though, just like in d/s relationships you have to super careful of who you choose to be your daddy or mommy. They have to earn the privilege of being your caregiver by showing you that they will protect you, keep you safe and full of love. If you ever find a partner that demands your submission in any way without having earned it then you should run away! That is a huge red flag and can lead to abusive relationships if you’re not careful.

If you do find a partner you want to explore this with don’t be shy about exploring new things, finding the right balance that is fun and supportive for the both of you. It can be a really fulfilling type of relationship as long as you communicate and share and are open with each other.

I hope that helps explain it a little bit. I’d be happy to answer more specific questions if you have them. You’re welcome to ask anonymously or dm me directly.

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Hi!

First of all I would like to apologize if at some point this question bothers you, but I would like to ask for advice.

My partner (M) and I (F) have been together for a year and a half, he is completely vanilla with strong traditional convictions and I have had a past linked to bdsm and the Dom/Sub relationship.

The truth is that when we first started dating I told him about it and he told me that he didn't care, but that he couldn't see himself hurting someone he loved. I didn't bring it up again because I had that part of me asleep, but now I feel like I need that again and I don't know how to introduce it and make him see that it's not pain, but something that goes beyond that.

Could you please give me some advice?

Thanks in advance.

There is nothing for you to apologize for. I’m happy to do what I can to help and you’re not the only one to have run into this issue before. I’ve even had partners that were very vanilla and I had to adjust to what they were comfortable with. I don’t know that any two (or more) partners ever exactly match their kinks and levels. So you have to find what works for the both of you. It’s a growing process for you both and the key is being able to talk about it. The trouble is that talking is often the hard part for most people. Do you feel you can talk about it with him openly and that he will receive what your saying? That’s going to be key and it will be tough if he can’t meet you that far.

Exploring kinks can be a challenge for the vanilla flavored people and especially if they are the victim of traditional brainwashing. Yes I say brainwashing because that’s what I feel it is. People can be so conditioned by their family, culture, religion, society. It’s hard to shake that. Their brains are so conditioned to think of all kinks as bad and they really can’t process how satisfying those desires can be so freeing and liberating and fulfilling. The key for you to open up his world is going to be doing it by small increments. Think of it as expanding his horizon and comfort zone. You just may have to be a bit patient with him and always check in with each other afterwards.

Most partners really want to please each other. Hopefully yours is the same way. So if you sit him down and explain that this is something you are desiring and that you want to share with him and that it will really turn you on I’d be willing to bet that he will at least listen. Don’t start him out with whips or nipple clamps or anything that will make him feel like he’s hurting you. Start him out with some basic power play maybe. For example tell him that it really turns you on when he tells you to suck him and how, or to manhandle you into what position he wants you to be in. Tell him you love it when he pins you to the bed. Or maybe suggest tying you to the bed. Something soft and easy for him to buy in to. I think once he sees and feels how you react to it that he will be on board to try some more. Then you can gradually introduce more into the equation. Do you guys ever sext? Try sexting with him about a fantasy like that. Seeing if you can get his anticipation up. Guide him towards the things you want because remember that he has no clue about that stuff. His ignorance and lack of openness comes from his conditioning. It’s up to you to break that and guide him. Remember that a d/s relationship also requires the sub to guide the dom in her comfort levels. You’re just unfortunately starting from zero experience.

He’s probably not going to turn into the master dom to your sub but hopefully the two of you can reach a happy middle that gives you some of that d/s experience you crave while opening up his world but still making him feel comfortable. I hope you have some success with it. I’d love to hear how it goes and if the two of you are making progress together. I’ll be sending you both some good d/s vibes!

i’m 18 and your blog makes me so wet

Awwww. Thank you, sweet girl! I’m so glad you like it. 😍

I love that delicious grinding. That exquisite temptation and tease as you guide my shaft through your soft folds. Taking your pleasure as you rub the tip against your clit, as your hips rock back and forth, grinding and rotating, your wetness coating me, dripping from us both. The feel of your luscious body squirming and wishing in my arms making me mad with desire for you. Can you feel how you make me throb and swell for you? My need pulsing in your hand. Precum dripping and mixing with your own nectar. Do I let you guide me into you? Taking that exquisite plunge into your wet folds that I so desperately want. Aching to feel your folds contracting around me, your warmth and wetness engulfing me. Or shall we continue the tease? Letting you edge yourself with my cock as I whisper delicious and dirty things in your ear? Not letting you feel me filling you or giving you that sweet release until you are a desperate mess, pleading and begging with your words and your body. My kisses hot on your neck, my tongue flicking over your ear, teeth gently nibbling and marking your soft flesh. My hands gripping and claiming every inch of you. My growls and words hot and low in your ear as I tell you exactly how I want to take you and fill you and fuck you. Until I feel you explode for me and cumming for me and I have filled you full of mine! Yes, baby girl, I love that delicious grinding.

It’s as simple as that! Be kind! Be caring! Be respectful of everyone! You don’t know the challenges others face! Don’t judge them! They don’t know yours! Don’t accept their judgements! Be you and be true to who you are! Spread the love and just be kind! Make the world a better place!