As long as it’s safe, and we don’t hurt each others’ feelings, or fuck up our family & kids… I’m good with it. I love you and trust you and want us to have fun!
She’s also been posting a lot of ‘seize the day’ themed material, about not wasting your life or looking back on a boring life.
Done
Wifey says she wants this
Love split roasting my sexy hotwife
31 Female here.. I absolutely adore your blog! Love it love it! Question: was it tough for you to get through any jealousy issues? If so, how did you get through them?
Yes! The first time we played I was insanely jealous and insecure and a mess. But I think that’s what drew me back in. Call it insanity but there’s a rush of adrenaline that comes with it too. I think for me, winning back my husband affections is what helped me through it. I knew I had some work to do. I had to own him, reclaim him, make him remember why he chose ME. That worked paired with openly talking to him about it. I know in our regular life, he would never do anything to hurt me or harm me. He would never cheat on me or lie to me. So with that rock solid foundation paired with open communication and all around great sex, we get through it together. It sounds crazy. You just need to find what works for you :)
Hey my lady and I are interesting in this type of lifestyle but she's nervous and we don't know where to start. Any advice?
Best advice? Take it really really slow. If she’s nervous or apprehensive at all, she’s not ready. Some butterflies are going to be normal because it’s uncharted territory, but it’s hard to say what’s best because I don’t know you or your partner and each situation is unique. Is it actual cuckqueening she’s into? Or just FFM play? Because they’re similar but different… Start with role playing or dirty fantasy talk? You could pretend she’s the other woman while you’re getting it on? Have her describe to you her fantasy, what turns her on and just go with it. That’s how hubs and I got started. I always knew I liked the idea of him with other women. After a few drinks and getting a little loose lipped, I’d describe to him in full detail what I liked, what I wanted to see, what I fantasized about while we got it on. It’s really what started all of this. Let her take the lead and go at a pace that’s comfortable for her. If you’re past all of that and she seems comfortable and interested then go on a date together and check out women while you’re out. Don’t actually pick anybody up yet, just make it a fun game. Where you both look for, talk about and fantasize about a female together and see where it leads? It took Hubs and I a long LONG time to actually bring someone into our bed because we wanted to be SURE it didn’t negatively affect our relationship. We were very cautious because you can’t go back in time and undo something that happened. All too often people jump in with two feet without thinking about the consequences or repercussions. We took it really slow, made sure both parties were comfortable. It was a natural progression to where we are today. I totally just rambled on and on here. But it’s hard for me to answer these asks with so little information. I hope this helps somebody somehow! 💋
Tonight, while we're at dinner together: “I can’t help it–every girl I look at I’m like, would she suck my husband’s dick with me…”
Omfg. Blessed.
-------------18+ adults only----------Our slow journey into playtime. Happily married 15+ years, stable couple w kids, and starting to explore FFM and swapping.
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