This reminds me of people who give me compliments on my appearance and quickly add something like “well it´s easy for you - you are genetically blessed” or “I only have to look at food and gain weight.”.. something along those lines. You can explain your workout regime, strict diet, skincare routine or general lifestyle choices all you want - they just keep talking about genetics or they will start to look down on you for the effort you put into your looks. The truth is that they want all those things (being in good shape, having better skin, etc.) but they want it to be easy. These people don´t want to hear how much discipline it takes, how much time, energy and money you have to invest in order to maintain a certain look. Talking about how some people have it easier, because of money or genetics or whatever won´t get you anywhere.
Not to be a total rude bitch tho… but I work out almost everyday, I limit if not abstain from junk food, I drink plenty of water, I only drink certain types of alcohol and absolutely no soda. I get my lips injected, I see a dermatologist, I’m planning on getting lipo + non invasion nose job + Botox jaw contouring soon. I have hair extensions, I get my lashes and eyebrows dyed and maintained every two weeks… I get my nails all jacked up every three. I go tanning. I literally spend thousands of dollars a year on hair, skin, nails and makeup. Not to mention the dancer wardrobe I’ve accumulated… and anyone who thinks I shouldn’t make more money after all this effort can literally suck my ass!
The only good thing about growing up in a patriarchal society that forces the male gaze on everyone is that we are taught how to act, how to look and how to speak in a way that men find desiarble and therefore we learn how to manipulate men without even realizing it.
You really just gotta be obsessed with yourselves ladies, thats the only secret
there is no shame in this game
me and my future husband
Vogue Paris 2008 February “Just Married”
"Money speaks only one language - if you save me today, I'll save you tomorrow." - Unknown author
My cast got removed a couple of days ago and even though everything is still swollen I am very happy with my nose. I know that it will take time for the swelling to be completely gone but I can already see that the result is going to be amazing.
Last week I had a rhinoplasty consultation with the best surgeon in my area and it went amazing. He made me feel so comfortable and fully understood what I want. The surgery will be in the beginning of December and I can’t even describe how excited I am.
use men - never let them use you
I had an ex “SD” aka client when I was a sugar baby that tried to plan a date with me recently, he canceled the day prior so I told him I’ll need a cancellation fee and future deposit in the form of a gift card if he’d like to see me again and he was shook
Absolutely embarrassing the things I used to put up with from a man. SA was POISON
How do you follow with the "no excuses no days off" mood and rhythm ? what are your advice on self motivation vs laziness ?
Laziness doesn’t get you abs or paid