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Puy du Fou, France 2024๐ซ๐ท Thatโs how I spent my birthday ๐
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Allow yourself to be a beginner. Allow yourself to be imperfect, because all that striving to look like the person whoโs five years deep in their dream is going to keep you stuck. Comparing yourself to someone who has already done the work, someone who has already grown past the beginner stage. You have to allow yourself to be terrible. Give yourself six months of starting and being terrible. Because if thereโs one thing I know about 2025, itโs the year of action. Itโs the year of saying enough is enough. Itโs time to quit dreaming. Itโs time to push through the fear of being seen, being heard, being a failure. Push through the discomfort. Itโs okay to have 5 views on your first YouTube video. Itโs okay to have only 2 sales from family and friends. The point is youโve started and itโs only up from there. Let go of this idea of being a perfect beginner. Youโll stay wishing and dreaming year in year out with this mindset.ย Consistency and acceptance of imperfection is how you start and win in 2025.
- self love is so, so important. love yourself and the rest will follow.
- comparing yourself to others is never a good idea. donโt compare your story to any one elseโs. your journey is special, and your journey is yours.
- stick to your morals and values, always.
- stand up for yourself more.
- you are incredibly strong, powerful, and fierce. donโt allow for anyone to dim your light.
- donโt fear your alone time, you will find great strength within it.
- embarrassing moments are just that โ moments. let them pass.
- you will lose friends over the years, and thatโs okay. you will find better ones in your future.
- itโs okay to not be okay. you wonโt get it right every single day. and thatโs okay too.
- love what makes you special. indulge in your quirks and talents, even if that talent is small.
- take each day one at a time. and donโt forget to breathe. everything is going to be okay.
- that thing youโre scared of doing? do it. overcome your fears, one step at a time.
- donโt allow for anyone to rob you of your happiness.
- keep your heart open and at peace with yourself and others. donโt allow for their actions to turn you cold.
- if you love a certain tv show, band, etc. love it fully and completely! donโt be ashamed of what you like. donโt be afraid of the judgement from others.
- while others are receiving their blessings, donโt worry. yours are coming too.
- you wonโt always know who you are and what you want to do in life. everyone feels this way too. youโre not alone.
- love your pets more. cherish them. kiss them. hug them. theyโre only here for a short while. say i love you more to your family. spend as much time with them as you can.
- listen to 80s and 90s music more often.
- sometimes itโs better to be alone than to be surrounded by people who donโt truly care about you.
- accept the differences you have with others. theyโre not wrong. youโre not wrong. your experiences and differences are beautiful.
- your mental health is more important than a grade or toxic a relationship. take care of yourself.
- donโt worry about the people who have hurt you. karma always takes care of them.
- self care includes dancing around in your underwear to your favorite songsโฆdo it more often.
- time heals all. you will bloom again.