-> Communicate with your caregiver about reassurance that you may need, and what ways they can support you best. Also make sure you’re expressing your feelings clearly, and how your needs can be met best.
-> Establish healthy boundaries from both sides! Sometimes attachment issues can cause excess anxiety and worries, and while that is normal, it’s important to make sure you’re still being healthy and respectful.
-> Make time for each other, or establish a routine. This can be particularly helpful if you or your caregiver are busy, and want to make sure you can still get in quality time together.
-> Use self soothing strategies when you find yourself getting anxious or overwhelmed. Go for a walk, hug a stuffie, find a new cartoon to watch, take several deep breathes- try to distract yourself.
-> Most importantly, be gentle and kind to yourself. Remind yourself that it’s okay to have that anxieties and fears, and that you’re lovable. You’re a worthwhile person, and you deserve secure connections. ♡︎
normalize wearing ur cg’s hoodie even tho it fits like a ball gown
🖤 Sasuke is suchhh a trauma regressor
♥︎ Whenever he felt unsafe or a bit too scared, he would regress almost instantaneously
🖤 Sauke’s a real sweetheart when he’s regressed
♥︎ He’s still a bit of a grumpy baby but he’s so much nicer when he’s little
🖤 Baby regressor!!!
♥︎ He regresses pretty young about 0-3
🖤 Sasuke rarely gets past 3 when he regresses
♥︎ He would never admit it but he actually really likes regressing
🖤 It makes him feel safe and he doesn’t have to worry about his brother or avenging his clan or closing himself off in fear of being abandoned again
♥︎ Sasuke’s almost always nonverbal when he regresses
🖤 He’s a bit of a crybaby when he regresses
♥︎ He’s such an emotionally sensitive little
🖤 The smallest thing could send him into a fit of tears or just teary-eyed pouting if you're not careful with your words
♥︎ Don’t even think about bringing up his brother or the clan, he would be absolutely Inconsolable
🖤 Aside from that he’s a pretty happy little
♥︎ He actually lets himself smile and laugh and acts really similar to his baby/younger self before the massacre
🖤 He really likes to go outside and play in the grass or just sit out there and stare at nothing with his favorite stuffies
♥︎ He likes to enjoy the silence of his mind when he’s regressed
🖤Surprisingly, Sasuke lets his defences down and lets himself feel his emotions when he’s regressed
♥︎ Not that he has much of a choice because his regressions brings the emotions out of him whether he likes it or not
🖤 Sasuke is really selective on who he allows near him when he regresses and who can know about it
♥︎ He’s really embarrassed about his regression, no matter how many times he’s told it's nothing to be embarrassed about and that a lot of ninjas use it as a coping mechanism
🖤 The only people who know about his regression are team seven and even then he was really hesitant to tell anyone
♥︎ Especially Naruto he didn't want him to try to make fun of him for it
🖤 Thankfully Naruto didn’t he surprisingly just didn't care
♥︎ He only really cared about having Sasuke as a rival still
🖤 Sasuke mostly only trusted one person to be his caregiver
♥︎ He definitely didn’t trust Naruto take care of him while regressed
🖤 Sasuke thought Naruto might try and feed him spoiled cup noodles on accident
♥︎ Sakura was still way too much of a fan girl and a bit annoying to Sasuke so he took her out of the equation and the only semi-competent person left on the team was Kakashi
🖤 Kakashi didn’t mind looking after regressed Sasuke even if he had initially not really known what to do
♥︎ Eventually he got better at the caregiving stuff and he really cared about Sasuke
🖤 In a way he saw himself in Sasuke that feeling of yearning to be cared for, the wish to not be abandoned anymore
♥︎ Sasuke is definitely a baby with abandonment issues
🖤 He never wants to let his caregivers or babysitters out of his line of sight
♥︎ If his caregiver is gone for a bit too long he will absolutely start to cry thinking he’s been left alone again
🖤 Even though he complains when he’s big about Naruto always being around him when he’s little, if he comes around while Sasuke is little he will not be able to leave
♥︎ If Naruto tries to go after he’s shown up already, Sasuke will cry and make sad faces at him while doing grabby hands until he stays
🖤 His being so young when regressed means he’s very caregiver and babysitter dependent
♥︎ He might act like he minds but deep down he likes being able to rely on others for a change
🖤 Sasuke nearly refuses to eat anything without tomatoes in it or isn't a tomato when he’s little
♥︎ Kakashi had no choice but to try to get creative with food options for Sasuke
🖤 Trying to fit in tomatoes in a lot of dishes with limited knowledge in cooking isn't easy but Kakashi makes it work
♥︎ However he does convince Sasuke to eat a few other things besides tomatoes when he’s little
🖤 He also likes to eat rice cakes, pretzels, string cheese or apple sauce
♥︎ Anything that's not super sweet and things that are kinda savory
🖤 These things may not be meals but it's a start
♥︎ Kakashi my favorite single mother ♡
Looooves to decorate for Halloween. Any holiday really, but the fall and winter ones are his favorite. Will celebrate any holiday you celebrate with gusto!
Will let you play while he does yard work, or you can help, if you want. You may get to use the leaf blower. With supervision. If you're good
Always makes sure to have a cozy drink at the ready after you play outside.
Similarly, he always has a thermos with tea for outdoor outings. He has a separate one for you with your drink of choice (tea, cocoa, cider, whatever)
Makes sure you're warm 100% of the time. Inside? Blankets. Outside? Coat and mittens. All the time? Sweaters.
If you do get cold, he'll give you his coat, his scarf, his hat, anything. With only a little bit of nagging that he told you so. If you prefer to burrow into his coat while he's wearing it, he's not opposed.
He knits, but he's bad at it. He's much better at sewing. He still tries to make hats, scarves, and mittens, but he's a little embaressed when you wear them. Seeing you smile makes it worth it though :•)
Kind of an Instagram mom but for his own scrap books. Wants to take his little ones to all the fall spots, pumpkin patches, fairs, football games, all of it. Takes lots of pictures and makes pretty pages for them.
Insists he doesn't like American football but he's invested. He doesn't yell at the TV because it makes little ones anxious when he raises his voice, but he will swear in a very British way that makes you giggle.
Buys so much candy for October. Makes a lot of special spooky treats, too.
Goes very hard on making costumes. Nary a store bought costume in the house. He will make anything you ask in exquisite detail, and take so many pictures
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ᯓᡣ𐭩 Playing dress up, you can do this via a roblox game, finding things in your closet, or picrew!
⭑.ᐟ Playing pretend, have your stuffies met your cg/ friend's stuffies? Video calls and playing with stuffies is so fun, put on stuffie talent shows, concerts, or have your stuffies play "house", "school", or "doctor" together!
⋆𐙚. ݁ Color together, do a worksheet with a friend & compare interests, parallel play! (Check my page for some worksheets!)
୭ ˚. Pinterest, (you can make this into sort of an online age-re journal, I have one!) Age-re imagery + sorting = so fun!
༘⋆ Make a little playlist, this is so fun & will help you feel more immersed in your regression! A few songs from mine are "My Love Mine All Mine" by Mitski, "Love" by Nancy Adams, & "J's lullaby" by Delaney Bailey!
ᯓ★ Build a pillow fort, hang a blanket off the side of a bookshelf, chair, the end of your bed, it doesn't matter! It's always nice to have a secluded small safe space<3
˚꩜˙⋆ Make a little friendly snack! This could be cereal, fruit & veggies, oatmeal, or warm up some milk!
✶⋆. Bubble baths or little self care! Be silly, brush your teeth with a kids toothbrush/ toothpaste, use bubbles in your bath, do a unicorn face mask! Make self care fun, you can take care of yourself!
✎ᝰ Make / find yourself a sticker chart! (I also make these if you want to request one lmk). Even if you don't have a caregiver it is productive to find good value in your behavior for yourself too! Give yourself that sticker for doing a chore/ hw/ whatever, you deserve it!
open chocolate advent calendar each day :0
go to see the holiday lights
Ice skating with friends
decorate room with pretty lights
make a letter to Santa / wishlist to Santa
(if you celebrate !! ^)
make fake snow
watch holiday movies
make holiday cards
pretend to be a polar bear and make a blanket / pillow fort as your igloo >:3
bake cookies / brownies SAFELY with someone who can supervise
Dark Souls DNI banners! Free to use, just reblog. The art isn't mine 🖤
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