~ Do you value the love you so willingly give? ~ . Our generation glorifies givers. Being a hardcore one myself, I think that while the act of giving is beautiful, it has to be valued. . Do I value my giving? Do I value the quality of love I am offering? Or do I pour it in people, places, things without being aware of its worth, its sanctity? . We will always meet people who aren't ready to receive what we have to give. At times like these, if we truly value our giving, we will learn to redirect that love to a vessel, a heart, that's more ready to hold it, cherish it and nourish it. . Giving is beautiful, giving is a gift. May we learn to deeply value it and tax it up a bit.
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~ notes from everyday ~
~ When the Camellia Blooms ~
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Images: Netflix | Doodle App
~ I will take it slow today and reset my heart and mind. On the days when time feels too hard to catch hold off, a mindful breath, a few hours at my desk, writing my thoughts, making things with paper, all of these are like little gifts to myself 🌸 ~
~ 'quiet enjoyment' ~ ~ the art of deriving deep joy from life's moments tenderly, without feeling the need to talk about it.~ . e.g: a small, steady smile as you breathe in the fresh morning air, humming softly as you prepare coffee, feeling content while you create, sitting down with a loved one in shared silence. 🌼 . . Picture: Jaehee Cho, Behance
Sometime last year, a post of @galadarling said, "You are not stuck. You are choosing not to choose." . This hit home. . I was in a rut, in regards to a lot of aspects of my life. I kept telling myself "I don't know what to do" and I kept chanting that "I was stuck". . Slowly, on reflecting upon Gala's words, I realised, I wasn't stuck, I was choosing not to make a choice because I was afraid I would make the wrong ones. . But, I learnt that if you don't choose, you don't move forward and as hence, you stop yourself from growing. . So this year, I started to choose to choose. I am learning to become "unstuck" one choice at a time. . For anyone who needs to hear this today: make a choice. Even if it turns out to be a terrible one. Because despite the bad result, you are at least moving, you are at least learning and you are at least willing to choose a direction. Sometimes, that's all it takes to come unstuck.🌼
“serious transformations begin with two commitments:
the courage to try new things and act in new ways
the honesty needed to no longer hide from or lie to ourselves.”
~ @yungpueblo
~ I made coffee for myself this morning and it tasted perfect-- bitter, nutty. slightly sweet. It was filled with a thick cover of bubbles and was piping hot.
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Today I finally begin a passion project here --- sharing my Zen moments with paper.
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Thank you for being with me. I hope you have a lovely day ahead. 🌼
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Illustration: https://www.instagram.com/wiwadd/?hl=en
~ Over the last few months, I’ve been enjoying more minimal spreads. A funny connection that I’ve observed: the more I declutter my space (clothes, books, stationery, etc.), the more cleaner and simpler my journal pages turn out. I love how content they make me feel. And here’s to the tiny sushi stickers to whom my heart belongs. ~
I discovered a YouTube video from the creator Takasu Tile named ‘[Country Life in Japan] An Amazing Trip to Kyoto with My Best Friend in the Fall’.
It was peaceful, lovely, and reminded me of all the beautiful little things life offers.
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🌸 A retro Japanese train with a retro driver’s cabin.
🌸 Fall colors with trees and mountains as far as the eye can see.
🌸 The ‘best friend’ (Oku-chan) of this video’s creator enjoying a bowl of Udon.
🌸 A noodle-bowl appreciation moment which was so nice to read.
🌸 The hues of orange-yellow that only Fall has copyrights to.
🌸 Two best friends who enjoy walking.
🌸 The kind of red you don’t want to stop looking at.
🌸 Staying at an inn and watching a canopy of golden sunlight.
🌸 Back home, making Matcha tea for the grandmother.
🌸 Holding a warm cup of tea on a cold night.
" 'It seems to me that you're getting anxious, thinking that you have to discover quickly what you enjoy or do well.' 'Is it so? Hmm... that's true.' Mincheol averted his gaze as he mumbled. He turned back to Seungwoo. 'It feels like I have to find it quickly.'
'Why are you in a rush? You don't have to hurry. If coming here isn't boring, just come over more often. Be who you are right now, and you will be fine.'"
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~ Page 221, Welcome to the Hyunam-dong Bookshop, Hwang Bo-Reum~
Image Credits: @spongecake on Tumblr
v. (verb) ~ to talk about the big & small things with someone you love, over a slice of cake and a cup of warm coffee. ~
I have sorely missed writing over the past couple of months. God only knows when it became a part of my being, but writing this is already making me smile.
I was telling my friend today morning that one of my favorite things to do was head to a quiet coffee shop, with a friend or a lover, settle ourselves with our respective cups of coffee and a slice of cake to share (always a good idea), talk for hours as we watch time slowly slip by, and people come and go. Those are my most, most favorite kind of dates.
So I was wondering, why not pair little notes of love, light and all the good feelings with pictures of coffee mugs and cake? :) The thought made me so happy that I had to write it down. :)
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Photo by: Masaki (IG)