Seems Interesting.

Seems interesting.

A lot of people around me are having kids and every day it becomes more apparent that hitting your children to punish them is insane because literally everything can be a horrible punishment in their eyes if you frame it as such.

Like, one family makes their toddler sit on the stairs for three minutes when he hits his brother or whatever. The stairs are well lit and he can see his family the whole time, he’s just not allowed to get up and leave the stairs or the timer starts over. He fucking hates it just because it’s framed as a punishment.

Another family use a baseball cap. It’s just a plain blue cap with nothing on it. When their toddler needs discipline he gets a timeout on a chair and has to put the cap on. When they’re out and about he just has to wear the cap but it gets the same reaction. Nobody around them can tell he’s being punished because it’s in no way an embarrassing cap, but HE knows and just the threat of having to wear it is enough.

And there isn’t the same contempt afterwards I’ve seen with kids whose parents hit them. One time the kid swung a stick at my dog, his mother immediately made him sit on the stairs, he screamed but stayed put, then he came over to my dog and gently said “Sorry Ellie” and went back to playing like nothing happened, but this time without swinging sticks at the nearby animals.

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3 months ago

I adore this!

NON-SANS CHARACTERS AS SANS AUs / ATs !!

NON-SANS CHARACTERS AS SANS AUs / ATs !!
NON-SANS CHARACTERS AS SANS AUs / ATs !!
NON-SANS CHARACTERS AS SANS AUs / ATs !!
NON-SANS CHARACTERS AS SANS AUs / ATs !!
NON-SANS CHARACTERS AS SANS AUs / ATs !!
NON-SANS CHARACTERS AS SANS AUs / ATs !!
NON-SANS CHARACTERS AS SANS AUs / ATs !!
NON-SANS CHARACTERS AS SANS AUs / ATs !!
NON-SANS CHARACTERS AS SANS AUs / ATs !!

enjoy the feast ;P

9 months ago

LoL! True.

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10 months ago

Just looked at a blog where the header description said 'sometimes I reblog posts I like so I don't forget them'.

And I feel like that, right there, explains so much about how the site has changed in the last few months.

People now think reblogging is an unusual behaviour, rather than a default.

Tumblr newbies, please, for the love of baby Jesus, reblog the posts you like. That is the whole reason the site exists - for you to collect all your shiny fandom objects in a single space. Which you can organize to your heart's content. Or not organize at all, if that's your jam.

Our blogs are intended to be collections of posts, not collections of likes.

8 months ago
9 months ago
Some Emo Girl Or Something. Crying Mascara.

Some emo girl or something. Crying Mascara.

Should I make this available on a shirt or something?


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1 year ago

Hahaha! Love this.

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1 year ago

Relatable.

More Adhd Things

more adhd things

1 year ago
arbie-right-back - Art And Stuff

Thanks for each and every one of you who followed. Sorry for the lazy picture. I might make something better later, if I don’t procrastinate. Thanks, again. :)


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1 year ago
So Much… Booping.

So much… Booping.

So Much… Booping.

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9 months ago

I might cry.

"(blank) hates laios!" WRONG WRONG WRONG. SHUT THE FUCK UP

"(blank) Hates Laios!" WRONG WRONG WRONG. SHUT THE FUCK UP

shuro is just as awkward as laios and it is made So clear he considers him a friend and likes him. he defends him when the canaries start talking shit and actively readies himself to physically fight them so they dont get to him.

"(blank) Hates Laios!" WRONG WRONG WRONG. SHUT THE FUCK UP

namari also likes laios. she respects him as a leader and also defends him and readies to fight the canaries.

"(blank) Hates Laios!" WRONG WRONG WRONG. SHUT THE FUCK UP

ive not actually seen anyone claim izutsumi hates laios, but a lot of ppl Are weird abt them. izutsumi and laios' relationship was rocky at the beginning. he struggled to figure out how to interact with her. but by the end, she actively seeks him out to talk with during the lead up to the feast. she hides behind him when falin wakes up. she has already realized shecan do what she wants and does not need to stick around, yet she does. she sleeps near him on the windowsill, waiting with him and marcille for falin to wake up. she has accepted him as part of her life and wants to keep him in it.

"(blank) Hates Laios!" WRONG WRONG WRONG. SHUT THE FUCK UP

marcille does not hate laios. let me say this again.

Marcille Donato Does Not Hate Laios Touden.

"(blank) Hates Laios!" WRONG WRONG WRONG. SHUT THE FUCK UP

marcille Loves him. in a platonic, familial sense. laios returns this just as readily. she yells at him. she whacks him. she tells him whats on her mind. she uses healing magic to ease his pain during the parasite fiasco. she reattaches his leg when he loses it. she teaches him magic. she lays her head on his corpse and cries before reviving him. she launches herself at him two times, when the canaries interrogate them and when he talks her down in the tower. he is a comforting presence to her. she trusts him, she cares about him, she worries about him, she imagines him as a big fluffy dog that loves and protects her. laios is her rock when falin is taken from them time and time again. and she tries to be his as well. she whole-heartedly, unconditionally, loves and trusts laios.

"(blank) Hates Laios!" WRONG WRONG WRONG. SHUT THE FUCK UP
"(blank) Hates Laios!" WRONG WRONG WRONG. SHUT THE FUCK UP

chilchuck does not hate laios. laios pays him his rates, no questions asked. laios trusts and respects chilchuck's job as a lockpick. laios does not see him as a child (at least, i cant think of an instance where he does so). chilchuck states, outright, he sees him as a friend and doesnt want to see him hurt. he actively worries about him as the falin situation gets worse. chilchuck respects laios. he shows almost 0 hesitation in helping get falin back, nor eating her by the end. he does not think of leaving him once, until he realizes he could lose him. chilchuck is cowardly with emotions and prefers to bottle things, so his first instinct was to bolt. he was angry because he was scared of watching someone he cares about destroy himself. laios is his Friend.

"(blank) Hates Laios!" WRONG WRONG WRONG. SHUT THE FUCK UP

and holy shit. holy Fucking shit. kabru DOES NOT hate laios. kabru has the rockiest start known to man with him, and he Still helps him by occupying the canaries. he warns him about them. he hides the black magic from them just as shuro does. his whole Thing is trusting laios despite himself. kabru has his own baggage regarding other people, just like laios, yet he tries so hard to believe and trust this man. he Wants to. kabru is not very hopeful, but laios makes him Want to be. he states like 3 times he wants to be close to him and sees him as a friend. he stays through the entire feast!! the man who hates monsters, whose biggest trigger is monsters, actively, consciously, Willingly stayed through the entire monster meat feast. all to help his friend get his sister back. he could've left!! the feast was like an entire week!! yet he was there for every single day. he was one of the closest people to the door when falin awoke!! after reuniting with her brother, her friends, the people who knew her the most (plus senshi and izutsumi), the first person she greets is kabru!! he wants to be close to laios, he likes laios, laios is his friend and he cares for him, he wants to meet his sister!!! kabru fucking stays on the island with him as one of his closest, most trusted advisors when he becomes king!!!!! he wants to help him succeed!!!! he wants him to be happy!!!! laios is his friend!!!!!!!!

"(blank) Hates Laios!" WRONG WRONG WRONG. SHUT THE FUCK UP

im just. people like laios!! laios is a nice guy! he is friendly and cares about people! he is weird, he doesn't understand most social cues, he oversteps boundaries, but they stay beside him, because they like him and he is their friend. he is their friend!!!!! friendship is not all sunshine and rainbows, relationships in general are not sunshine and rainbows. you will upset people, people will upset you, you will get into arguments, things will happen, but at the end of the day, the people close to you like you! they love you! they care for you! they want to work it out and get through it because they love you, but they will feel those emotions first! human relationships are complex and messy and life is complicated. even shows for toddlers know this.

if you truly believe any of these characters hate laios you are worse than a toddler. watch some fucking oobi or something. god. fuck.

take this

"(blank) Hates Laios!" WRONG WRONG WRONG. SHUT THE FUCK UP

thanks

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