We All Say Be Brave, Be Proud, Be Assertive. But We Have To Understand Too That Merely Words Don't Heal

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A little PSA about ASL for ‘Thank you’! I’ve had all of these signed to me accidentally hahaha. And whenever I sign thank you to non signers, sometimes they thought I was blowing a kiss to them. T_T ✩ Twitter ✩ Tapastic ✩ Facebook ✩ Patreon ✩

1, 2: study situation at midnight

3: beau’s delivery yesterday. a thoughtful gift.

4, 5: brunch at brewing point!! it was expensive but lovely. I love that other than one noisy group, most of us were brunching wearing home clothes.

6: the view while I wait with the beau at a vulcanizing shop because my tire got nails on it ☹️ it’s all better though! I’m safe!

This is entirely reasonable as an argument. U see sparring and pranking( if a regular custom) in terms of physically harming action is not that bothersome because it technically was something u wanted to recieve and then then willingly counter knowing the limits of how far both u and ur partner could take it all so as to not actually initiate any traumatic experience. Despite it being a physical fight ( inclusive of pain) it would feel safe because of the consistent awareness of how ur partner won't intentionally harm you. But the case mentioned above where a physical injury is inflicted out of extreme and uncontrollable 'love' is ABUSE.

The fact that it was done out of too much overwhelming emotions on parts of the abuser does not excuse the fact that it was abuse. See, Percy might 'laugh' after it- but a normal human who just suffered that much shit won't come back to a loved one to accept more affection in form of abuse. They wouldn't prefer to be back flipped rather than hugged warmly by someone who they too ,love too much to express. It's not okay to be an asshole because u can't find the right act of affection because of your overflowing love for someone- no matter what gender such sentiments belong to. Being kind matters, and talking is always an option.

Percabeth shippers will act like being abusive is a flex and get away with it

A little from my weekdays....

Currently I'm studying HTML, watching interview with the vampire and reading the book at the same time, having fun comparing the differences between the masterpiece written and the adaptation for this century!

A good thread on whether “queer” is a slur and if it should be used or not.

Weekend things.....

My new bodywash is fucking horny y'all 😭😭

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What do you do when you don't feel like a person anymore? When all you feel like is an extension to everybody else's life? I like being needed most of the times, but I absolutely hate it in moments when I stop feeling like a fucking valid person anymore, when being needed absolutely fucks up with my personal progress, be it academic, psychological, physical or emotional. When people who need my help feel entitled to it and I feel too exhausted to even defend myself on that stand, when all I want to do is cry about it.