Aspec Culture Is CONSTANTLY Confusing Different Types Of Attraction For Each Other

Mmmm. There’s a lot of posts telling ace people that it’s okay to want and have sex and telling aro people that it’s okay to want and be in a relationship, and those are great and important and true but also.

It’s okay to never want to have sex. It’s okay to never be okay with sex, to have a completely sex-free relationship, to never feel comfortable having sex because you’re partner enjoys it, to never find any sort of joy in sex.

And it’s okay to never want a serious relationship. It’s okay to not want to date and it’s okay to want to spend your life single. It’s okay to never be in a serious romantic relationship and it’s okay to never be in a serious platonic relationship and you never have to have a romantic or platonic partner no matter what anyone says.

It’s okay. You’re okay.

not to get political but im begging you guys to stop coming to hawaii. in maui theyre asking to put a 'pause' on flights bc we literally do not have enough room or staff to service you. the roads are so full that its causing a major backup when ppl need to get to work.

on top of this, i heard that by September? theyre expecting to get rid of the mask rule (if 70% of ppl are vaccinated/all goes well) but ill be honest w/ you, i know many locals arent getting the vaccine and i know plenty of tourist arent gonna take the necessary precautions.

once again i’m bitching at you all but basically if ur a white woman joking abt objectifying men ~but in a feminist way~ i’d strongly encourage you to look into the history ww have with LITERALLY objectifying men of color and think long and hard about whether ur actually being funny or if this is maybe inappropriate. yes, it’s a joke. i’m aware. but for some reason ur quirky objectification seems to have a body count in moc and not white men.

in general you white girls on here seem to forget that you are often the most violent tools of white supremacy and use your whiteness to degrade, humiliate, brutalize and objectify (hey look at that) poc INCULUDING moc, especially black men, and idk why u can’t get it through ur thick fucking skulls that u Also hve to watch what u say !!!!!! anyway please be fucking normal Thank You.

you are encouraged to reblog this if ur white and if you have thoughts on this keep it to urself including in the tags. i’m not in the mood for ur bitching and moaning.

Not shaving and not wearing make up are literally nonbehaviors. They’re a complete lack of action. But doing nothing is considered masculine because women are not allowed to just be. this goes double for trans women.

I Am Not Okay With This (2020- ), Titanic (1997), Stranger Things (2016- ), Silver Linings Playbook (2012), Black Panther (2018), The Breakfast Club (1985), Sex Education (2019- ),  The Walking Dead (2010- ), Bring It On (2000), Derry Girls (2018- )

Tone indicators :D

Where do you even find lesbians in the physical world