Why They Entered The Void And You Haven't

Do people realize that Israel is so unrestrained that it’s now launching attacks in Lebanon and Syria as well. Do people realize how little Arab people mean to these genocidal maniacs that they are now killing people in three Arab countries. Can genocide apologists pause their pure hatred for Arabs to at the very least admit this. Or are we going to pretend that Israel has a reason to be intensifying attacks in Damascus right now

Things I wanna clear up before leaving

1. Shifting:

many ppl who are manifesting a complete life change fear that they would be leaving everything and everyone behind, and they would be shifting to a complete different planet and universe. Which isn't true, see consciousness is the only reality and what you are concious of is reflected in the 3d, other things aren't real unless you give reality to it. Everything exists in imagination only, if you wanna be concious of something else, you shift your awareness to that particular state, and your previous state wouldn't be left in a different planet, it would remain in conciousness only, there is nothing to worry about.

2. Get your knowledge from the source

If you really wanna change then pls read Neville Goddard and Edward Art. They are absolutely free, being on Tumblr would just confuse you more, everyday a new trend would come and ppl will be switching themselves to align with the trend. And you could be stuck in the loop, so that's why I advise you to get your knowledge right from the source.

3. Never worry about the how and when

Worrying about the how and when is conditioning your desire. Fulfill yourself now and persist in that fulfillment. Everything is possible since you can imagine it. Never limit your desire to meet the expectations of 3d.

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Final note: I'm very busy with my studies these days, that's why I'm taking a break again. I hope y'all would get your desires by applying law of assumption correctly. Take care,guys. I have linked resources in my pinned post, y'all can read from there. ++Never depend on someone others success story to motivate you, be your own success story.

Logging out,

Rain <3

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What's in your pheromones?

A tarot reading

Intoxication was her pact, people killed to be in the line. Last thing they saw, white eyes!

Pile 1

She has a charm same as that of a hurricane!

(The Hanged Man Rx, 10 of Pentacles Rx, 2 of Wands, 9 of Pentacles Rx, Temperance, 6 of Pentacles Rx)

Your skin is what appeals to the people around you. It makes them imagine scenarios with you. Wondering what it feels to touch you or be touched by you. That soft, supple look as if using the most hydrating moisturizers ever. They could compare it to a baby's skin, the smoothness like it was made yesterday. Protected from all the external ruggedness.

The same is what they get the vibe from you. Innocence. They think that you are a protected child. Or just the mere look at you, would want them to think about taking care of you, for them you deserve the world. Getting protective over you, letting no harm come forth in your path. They find such a quality rare where they feel as if the purity is what is consuming them and making them want to devour it at the same time. Wanting to be the only one to be able to experience this heaven you make on earth. Would definitely want to touch you, not to taint you but to make sure that they are not in a dream.

When you walk in the streets, you make people stop in their tracks, you get their attention with your presence as that of an elixir which brings the soul, the much needed serenity. You get their mind geared up and their heartbeats erratic. They would then try to get a grip. They need to process the fact that they encountered someone who makes them feel complete and more so, safe. You calm their beast. For years they had been searching for you and finally they found you. They more often than not would be plotting ways to get closer to you anyhow. Because, you may be a bit shy or don't like to meddle with people too much when outside. You may find many people wanting to talk to you, all at once.

Your cheeks, more the skin around the bones which shines a bit can be more appealing to the people you encounter. Wanting to take your pretty face in their hands and admire you for the whole day, just like that. The way your features sit is indescribable, the perfection is too much for them. It makes them feel things. Near feral. You arouse their passion for the most dangerous thing in the world, a person's innocence. They would want to build something with you, romantic, platonic anything that makes them see your angelic face every single day. You might find that the people you encounter online would ask you to meet them, frequently. Your pheromones give you the characteristic presence.

You don't even know many hearts you have broken. How many times you just get imprinted in a stranger's mind. The get surprised too but soon realise why! You give them the feeling that everything is fine or you could be that magical being that could make it happen. People could want a family with you, a proper one where the roles are very much distinguished, where they provide you the things you lay your eyes on. They may want children with you or may have imagined them in picture alongside you. You could give such a vibe where you would care about children a lot. Also, you seldom would hear the word no because people can't, they really can't, to those eyes specially. 'The real fantasy'.

Extra messages- pink barbie like purses, transparent bags, sharpies, french/round nails, small feet, thicker booty I mean body, blue/purple glitter tattoos, bucket hats, journals, aesthetic skincare, watery persona, white cardigan, butterflies, raspberry icecream, vanilla icecream cake, cafe mocha, no I'm not an angel baby, I can handle it all, psst you know nothing, I didn't know!

Zodiacs- 2nd/4th/11th house placements. Cancer/Pisces Moon, Taurus/Pisces Sun/Saturn, Virgo/Libra Venus, Aquarius/Gemini/Sagittarius Mars. Big three having a Taurus/Libra degree. Asteroid Bella (695) in earth/water signs especially Virgo. Aphrodite (1388) in Natal/Persona chart in 4th/12th house, Pisces rising in Venus Persona Chart, Earth Rising in Moon Persona chart. True Lilith (h13) in 4th/11th house. Asteroid Eros (433) on the angles. Could be Water dominant with second being earth. Signature could be Cancer either Western/Vedic astrology.

Pile 2

She had a depth only the sky could measure!

(The Hermit Rx, Devil, 7 of Pentacles, 10 of Cups Rx, The Moon Rx, Page of Pentacles Rx)

Your hair is your thing, periodt. Your head, baby hair, your brows, your lashes! People just get obsessed with one look, one touch. It's silky, super fine quality, flowy, bouncy whatever maybe the type. You harness your pheromone energy in this way. Because they are actually chemicals which bring about ritualistic actions. People would try to get a whiff of your hair to know what it smells like, your hair invades their mind. The brows could be naturally set making you look cute and sexy at the same time.

People on the streets when they gaze upon you can feel a primal reaction within them. Almost animalistic. Stopping themselves from touching you, for it could be too much for you. You would encounter a lot of strange events where people might unconsciously turn towards you even when they are meant to walk in a different direction. If not then, unconsciously would atleast try to lay their fingers on your hair. You are that drug that stimulates their soul. They buzz around you, you awaken the beastial energy. Your essence is super volatile that even a person not looking at you can sense your vibe. The range is far and far beyond.

You bring about their darkest, hidden selves to the forefront. Almost, telling them to look at what they actually are and what they actually want. The intensity that you have. People would do anything to be in your place. They feel as if you know the secrets, know what goes under the table. And this makes them scared and more than that, super attracted to you. You help heal their shadow sides, you make them accept their most neglected side. They become grateful, they want to worship, you are their goddess, their saviour. You could humble even the most arrogant person by just being in your presence. You have slightly different energy than most people, you feel as if different creature like a siren, incarnated to show what it is to be like when we become what we are supposed to be.

This makes for the people being extra nice to you. If they give flowers to others, they would give you exclusively big bouquets. Gucci? Nah, Have a Berkins Bag. People would give you things what they would not even use themselves, they would keep you higher than anyone else. They would boast to people about how they are friends with you or how you in general talk to them. They are more so addicted to the soul satisfaction you bring within, you make their raging stop, only to bring in a different one which revolves around you. The way you flip your hair is the way their heart flips. You trigger them in a good way and they absolutely, madly love every second of it. You could haunt their deepest part and say " Wasn't I always your fantasy".

You make them so emotional sometimes, but that's the contradictory part that they never see you even a slightest bit bothered and it makes them hot. How you bring havoc and have the audacity to keep everything in place. You could have this energy where you know how much to enjoy and when to let yourself free. And, when time comes you retreat back, you almost can have a legacy. Because there is this power within you. You sweep off energies and transmute them into something good, something useful, not only yours but others. People imagine you in romantic terms. They see themselves standing proud and high with you, wanting to come on that level because they know it is not easy, nope, not at all. In a way you flirt but never commit unless you find the one who deserves you.

Extra messages- black pants, pumps, stilettos, grunge/dark/square nails, blue shirts, pink hoodie, vintage makeup, dramatic eyeliner, belly button piercing, biker boots, brownies/fudge, iced brew vanilla latte, butterscotch flavour, pain au chocolat, face wipes, red lips, hoops, mirrors, I'm not anyone's anyone, you sure wanna cross me? Well, I can do this!

Zodiacs- 1st/5th/8th house placements. Scorpio/Leo Sun. Fire risings, Capricorn/Aquarius Moon. Gemini/Pisces Venus. Gemini/Sagittarius Mars. Saturn in air signs. Aphrodite (1388) in 5th/8th/10th house in Natal/Persona chart. Asteroid Bella (695) in fire/air signs. Fire rising in Venus Persona chart especially Leo, Air rising in Moon Persona chart. True Lilith (h13) in 1st/7th/10th house. Asteroid Eros (433) in water signs. Can be Air dominant with water as second. Signature can be Leo in Western/Vedic astrology.

Pile 3

Nothing got the souls like her sizzle would!

(The Sun Rx, 4 of Swords, The Chariot Rx, 9 of Cups, Justice, 3 of Wands Rx)

Your smile can be the death of someone, someday. The curves of it, the way it spreads on your face slowly, can glue people's eyes to your face. They would just be looking at the way you light up their world with just a sweet giggle. Some of you even have a tilted smile which is a cherry on top. As if you are smirking all the time, knowing who you actually are. Your pearly white teeth has gotten into notice by EVERYONE. You have the sparkle.

This attribute of you makes people look at you. They could be doing their thing, then they feel you, hear you and they swerve their heads, snap from what they were focused on and look at you. You direct everyone's attention on you. Natural charisma within. People around you might never be able to resist looking at you, admiring you as soon as they know you are there. You activate people's senses. They get heightened, they can even feel the palpitations of the air. How the room temperature rises up as soon as you decide it's time for yourself to shine, to glow. Where others just burn in the mesmerizing beauty of yours. And they gladly accept it. After all you are their nectar in the times of hunger.

You bring happiness with you. Real genuine happiness. When someone is in your company, they can never be sad. You lighten up the mood. People approach you when they have a slight inconvenience, knowing you would help them, ease their problem. You would make someone go from 'sitting all alone to dancin' with their hearts'. Your laugh is deep, rich, something you don't encounter everyday. Some of the people would want to record it or just anything you say and play it on loop. When you speak, everyone's listening. You got all ears. You make people drool and their mouth hang with your presence. They way you interpret things is life is what amazes people. You are a keeper and have some extensive qualities within you.

You stir justice wherever you walk, wherever you go. Making lives so so much better. The hypothetical situation where flowers grow with your footsteps. Who wouldn't fall for such a person. You can bring back the charms in things that lost it a long time back. That is, you put value in things, you make them worthy. People assume that you are a magician otherwise it's impossible. You make friends instantly, you get connections super quick, all with just a 'wink'. Lot of focus on the way you sit or stand, maybe you have a tilted pose or just put your leg on top of another. People may like to impersonate you here.

Apart from heavy physical attraction, people love your rich inner world. Your actions drop slight hints to it. The energy here is cosmic. Too many things going on all at once yet there is the perfect amount of everything. This sums up your characteristic presence. Further, the mental play is what has a grip on people, so much that they find it stupendous. You even make people blush. Everything Gourmet. Others might fantasize a getaway with you to places where only you two exist, no one would then disturb from taking in everything you do. And they are always ready to come your way, even though you talk to everyone, but giving a piece of your world only to the ones who deserve. Never gonna stop trying. You strut past, knowing all of the things they imagine about you, smiling!

Extra messages- palettes, paintbrushes, abstract, prints, skirts, fuzzy socks, sneakers, ankle highs, rings, nail art, pretty, roll cakes, espresso shots, dark chocolate, Cookies n' cream, denim jacket, Coke, who's she? Let's be friends, where have you been, no way that's true, 5:00 pm, it's time, twilight, coming right there, could you help me?

Zodiacs- 3rd/5th/9th/10th house placements. Aries/Leo Sun. Capricorn/Gemini Moon. Pisces/Virgo rising. Capricorn/Aries/Taurus Venus. Libra/Sagittarius Mars. Cancer/Aries/Sag degree in the big three. Aphrodite (1388) in 5th/7th/9th house in Natal/Persona chart. Air rising in Venus Persona chart, Fire rising in Moon Persona chart. Asteroid Bella (695) in fire signs. Asteroid Eros (433) in air signs. Could be a fire dominant with air as the second. May have Sag/Libra signature in the Western/Vedic chart.

This is a card+intuition reading. Take what resonates and let the rest slide. For entertainment purposes only. It is a metaphorical reading what the general effect you have on people. Self-worth can never be decided by Readings. It is decided by what you are inside. Also, it depends on aspects, orbs, strength and the whole chart. Different people have different results. Will wary. Nothing above is meant to hurt anyone's sentiments.

The above pictures don't belong to me, credit to the respective owners.

valentine’s day {elena/stefan/katherine fic pt. 2}

Link to Pt. 1: https://zalrb.tumblr.com/post/707929608286240768/toxic-elenastefankatherine-fic

[The ending is purposefully abrupt]

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𝐣𝐚𝐧𝐢’𝐬 𝐥𝐚𝐰 𝐨𝐟 𝐚𝐬𝐬𝐮𝐦𝐩𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐠𝐮𝐢𝐝𝐞

this is how to actually apply the law & this is how i personally manifest. it includes main points that i always try to share on all social media platforms. this guide will contain five steps for how to manifest. enjoy!

🎀 𝐭𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬

𝐈. know the 3d is neutral

𝐈𝐈. identify as the inner self

𝐈𝐈𝐈. be the desired version of you in imagination

𝐈𝐕. fulfill

𝐕. its done

🎀 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐟𝐞𝐬𝐭

once you've decided what it is you want...

𝐈. know the 3d is neutral: everything in the 3d has no original meaning, it is always you who assigns it meaning; this is why you are the operant power. you always choose what everything means so stop labeling things as ‘circumstances’ when theres nothing against you, until you give it power by assigning it w meaning. everything in the 3d includes circumstances, thoughts, emotions, doubts, time, everything. all of it has no original meaning. knowing this means that theres nothing to fear and absolutely everything is under your control. as the only source of power, why would you worry about “will this thought manifest?” or “how can i get over this hard circumstance?” when you decide everything’s meaning? no circumstance has power over you, no anxiety has power over you, and this can help you feel more free to make it easier to accept that you really do already have what you want. you cannot be a victim in a reality that has no original meaning. its your choice to identify with any thought or feeling, meaning you have control.

𝐈𝐈. identify as the inner self: yes the human body experiences this 3d. but this human body and five senses are very limited. think about it: if you want to manifest an sp, you cant see your sp's thoughts or if you want to be rich, you cant see money getting transferred into your account, or fat cells burning to give you your desired body. you are also imagination playing the role of this human body and life. so you yourself is limitless, imagining what we label as "limits". imagination = the inner self. you are the inner self who is always present because you are always manifesting and its the inner self (imagination) who manifests. you are always the inner self but when you identify with your human limits you give power to those imaginary limits such as ‘negative thoughts’ and ‘circumstances’ while on the other hand, identifying as the inner self means knowing those limits dont exist. thats why its important to identify as the inner self (you can call it god) who is simply experiencing a human life and has the power to change any aspect of that life. to identify as the inner self, just know you are the inner self and you should never be limited to the human self. if you find yourself searching for shit in the 3d, thats a sign of identifying as the human self. experience what you want as the inner self in imagination to be free. to the inner self everything is instant: when you imagine something it is happening in the now, not past or future. everything is in the present. as the inner self, you remove the idea of a 3d. there is no human self or 3d now, just focus on limitless imagination.

𝐈𝐈𝐈. be the desired version of you in imagination: now that you know you are the inner self, be the desired version of you in imagination. this means imagine using any techniques you want. if you want to be rich, you visualize, affirm, script. use inner convos or sats (and other techniques) to imagine already being the rich version of you. once you imagine it you have already experienced it so it really is done. you also dont have to use a technique, you can simply decide you already have what you want but i personally recommend using a technique at least once. let me give you an example: nelly wants to manifest being rich so she chooses to visualize a scene where she is taking lots of money from the bank to imply that shes rich.

𝐈𝐕. fulfill: whatever you imagine doesnt matter. what matters is how it makes you feel. for example, it doesnt matter if nelly visualized the bank scene or if she affirmed shes rich because techniques dont do anything besides bring you to a fulfilled state. so when to fulfill yourself, imagine whatever you want that provides you a feeling of satisfaction by using whatever techniques you are comfortable with. keep repeating the scene or affirmation or technique until you successfully feel satisfied. you may be able to feel this fulfillment while doing it once or multiple times. you may be able to feel fulfillment in a few days or in one hour. the point is to generally feel good about embodying that ideal version of you. fulfillment = the feeling of knowing you are already that desired version. you reach this state of satisfaction therefore accepting that you already have what you want 100%. the more you continue to get into this fulfilled state, the more natural it becomes so its okay if you dont feel completely satisfied the first time. thats why i said repeat that scene or technique.

𝐕. its done: congratulations, you are what you desired. you are the one with the sp, the one with $100,000, the one living their desired life. continue being/identifying as that person in imagination aka persisting. persisting means continuously choosing to identify with the ideal version of you whenever you think about it. see the world through the eyes of the one who has to their desire already. move thro the 3d knowing it is done in imagination. this means you could continue enjoying your techniques by visualizing or thinking as the desired version of you. but also: thoughts come from your state so if you are in the state of being fulfilled with what you desire then your thoughts should naturally match that. if it doesnt, dont stress, just continue satisfying yourself in imagination. being in the state of the wish fulfilled aka feeling fulfillment helps make it easier to stick with your desired state/assumption. whenever you feel lack, fulfill yourself again and remind yourself that its already done. its already yours. theres literally nothing else to do since you experienced it in imagination, youve fulfilled yourself and feel satisfied in imagination and continue sticking with that regardless of the 3d. regardless of the 3d means you are indifferent to the 3d because you know you are the one in power above the dead 3d. you dont care about what the 3d is showing and you stay true to self because that is how you apply the law.

🎀 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐟𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐬𝐮𝐦𝐦𝐚𝐫𝐲

know the 3d is always neutral so theres no such thing as something working against you, only you give thoughts and circumstances meaning and power. know this because that proves the only source of power that exist is always you so you control everything and nothing in the 3d can tell you no

identify as the inner self, not the human self because the human self is limited while the inner self is forever free and limitless and experiences everything instantly

be the desired version of you in imagination by using any techniques you want

fulfill yourself by satisfying yourself in imagination with whatever techniques or simple decision. return to this fulfilled state / repeat using your techniques to make it natural and give you that knowing feeling

its done meaning theres nothing else to do but persist. no depending on the 3d when everything is already within you. just experience it in imagination and its done instsntly.

🎀 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐨𝐧 𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 + 𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐰𝐞𝐫𝐬

“what do i do if there are negative circumstances in the 3d?”

- remember that everything in the 3d is always neutral. you can claim they are negative but dont identify with these ‘circumstances’ by making and dwelling in imaginary negative stories and thoughts. you can say and do whatever you want in the 3d because it never matters (since its all neutral) so theres no need to ignore circumstances. just dont accept them as final. let the discouraged emotions and thoughts out but know you dont have to accept them as true or identify w them. there are negative circumstances. okay and? if circumstances were so hard to get past how is it possible that people still manifest while experiencing the complete opposite of their desire in the 3d? because the 3d and circumstances never matter. you are imagination which always molds the 3d so why worry about the 3d when it will change either way? remember your only job is accepting you have your desire in imagination only. you can accept you dont have shit in the 3d and continue living your normal (shitty) 3d life while still being the version of you who already has your desires in imagination. you can accept the 3d circumstances and move on. im telling you: if you were really fulfilled, you wouldnt care about 'circumstances.' gently get back into the fulfilled state when youre ready. also: you deadass have the choice to identify w the 3d or identify w already having your desire. so its all up to you.

“what should i do if i feel anxiety?”

- whenever i feel anxiety i observe it and let the feeling pass because i know it is always neutral therefore anxiety has no power over me. i would do meditation just to calm myself down but i would not try to force myself to feel fulfilled or do techniques. mental health comes first so relax and calm down, then you gently get back into the state of the wish fulfilled. i dont identify w negative emotions and thoughts. and if i find myself dwelling in it and imagining negative stories, i just stop myself and decide it didnt effect me (or my manifestation in any way). returning to the fulfilled state is always the answer.

“ive been persisting for a long time but it still hasnt reflected”

- stop trying to get shit in the 3d and start being satisfied with already having it. these links might help: 1, 2, 3.

"i feel fulfilled but the next day i fall out the state"

just return to the state whenever your ready. thats all that matters. it doesnt matter what happens but how you react: are you accepting/assuming that you "ruined your manifestation" or do you just move on because you know you are still human who experiences demotivation? read these: 1, 2.

if theres anymore questions, check my masterlists for answers: tumblr, twitter.

🎀 𝐦𝐲 𝐭𝐢𝐩𝐬

- actually apply the fucking law. a lot of you just ask questions and then “try” to apply and when one thing seems wrong, you go back to asking questions and wasting both your time and mine. persist. apply the fucking law and stop looking for outside validation.

- get tf off your phone. this is my favorite tip ever because the internet and people can rly demotivate you. delete social apps like tumblr and twitter and insta etc. you already know about the law after reading this so give up on search for more info. being independent from the media and your phone rly provides freeness and calmness. you know when you tell your mom your sick and she says something like “its that damn phone”? well lemme be your mother real quick and tell you “its that damn phone” when you complain about “the law not working”. the law is always working. you just arent applying correctly to get what you want. get off the phone and find some other hobbies instead of overconsuming.

- dont use your past “failures” to validate your current experience. you can do it! i know you can! its too easy but you think its hard.

- you always hold all the power so dont identify with negative thoughts and if you do, you can just decide it doesnt affect you (either way it wont unless you identify with the thought/emotion). you always have a say in every second of your life. be the god of your reality.

- remember, your only goal is changing self: you change who you are being in imagination and stick with it. if this post was not clear enough, i have a law of assumption cheat sheet on twitter for clearer info. but after this, its time to delete your apps and actually apply. im not playing.

- for the links that are from twitter: some of them are threads and you could only see it thro the twitter app to see the full thread

thank you so much for reading. i rly hope this helps people and clears things up. now delete your apps and apply! it all comes down to YOU.

kisses, jani ☆

(Katherine Pierce X Jess Mariano) Pt. 3

“I wouldn’t let you break my heart.” Jess stated mellowly.

“You sure?”

She dragged her fingernails across his chest ( where his heart would’ve been ) and made an x. That’s when he knew that he’d gotten in too deep. The adrenaline had started to pump through his veins and he wasn’t going to stop it. This was definitely not what he expected to find in Stars Hollow. If only, Rory could see what her “sister” was up to. Jess was suddenly hyper aware of the fact he was in Stars Hollow for a reason, and that reason wasn’t Luke. Looked like fate wasn’t a myth and karma wasn’t such a bitch. He’d been wrong on both counts.

“We were too close to the stars

I never knew somebody like you “

Advice that’s meant for you based on your Neptune

this post is mainly inspired by @/sagistarbb on twitter.

1H: you could be a lazy person or you find yourself feeling depressed often. you usually have no motivation for many things and that’s what makes you feel hatred towards yourself. you hate that you’re so lazy even though you want to do more for yourself. you need to become more, achieve more and experience better. isolating yourself from reality and running from your problems will always haunt you negatively until you decide to bring some changes into your life

2H: growing up you might’ve had to become mature at a young age or you just had a rough childhood in general. some people with their neptune sitting in their 2H even experienced being broke at some point in their lives. you always felt like or you were the second choice in many situations for many people which made you become possessive and selfish. you want to be understood and you possibly self pity a lot, but your neptune being in your second house suggests you to not let ANY situation that has happened to you shape your personality and your way of thinking. you were born a good person and there’s no need to change that because of anyone or anything. you need to give more in order to receive more, wether that be love, money or affection.

3H: your past trauma affected many parts of your life but mainly your view on life itself. you developed trust issues which leads you to having a hard time being social and especially because you feel like it won’t last anyways. wanting to be alone can feel great but feeling alone won’t feel anything near great. you need to go out with people and socialize, you need to experience life no matter your age. don’t think of yourself as someone who’s not worthy enough because you are, talk to yourself and tell yourself you’re the best, you love yourself, you’re beautiful. no matter how happy you can feel you never will be as happy as you can ever be until you develop more self love.

4H: you’re a very sensitive person who depends on how other people feel about you but you don’t want to admit it. you put this careless act on and you’d do whatever to protect your own emotions/feelings. this is a good personality trait from one side - but from the other it’s not. acting so cold and nonchalant hurts the ones who care for you the most more than it hurts you knowing what type of person you’ve become. you have to care more and deep down you know that too.

5H: as much as you care so much for certain people, let it go. in life it is important to learn and to know that forgiveness can actually be the right answer to a situation sometimes but not always. you have to stop putting other people’s feelings before your own. stop being a people pleaser because you don’t look like a good person in other people’s eyes, instead you look very weak. stand up for yourself and protect your own name, let someone treat you like royalty because you deserve love too. let yourself feel and be loved by somebody who won’t judge you for your uniqueness and who will love you for you!

6H: you could already know or feel like you don’t or never had good luck on your side - and that’s only because you never tried putting effort into your daily life, your daily routine. you can’t live with your head in the clouds and expect money to randomly grow on a tree so you can pick it up. if you’re still in school put effort into it, work more, study more, be ambitious and follow your dreams. be your own provider and stop depending on other people. so if someone else can’t eat you can’t because you’re waiting on their salary to come by? no. that’s not the life path for you, in this lifetime everything that happens to you and that you try making happen to you has to be caused by you and by hard work and not your friends, parents or anyone.

7H: as much as you want to live with the motto go with the flow it’s not for you. you can’t be the person ignoring your problems, you can’t expect forgiveness from everyone and you especially can’t and should stop acting immature in serious situations. you could be a loving person who tries to see the good in everyone - even your own enemies, but you can’t let things happen in YOUR life based on what other people decide for you. you need to have your own life in your hands and not give it to anyone else. no one will love you like you want to be loved until you love yourself first the most. avoid getting involved with toxic people and focus on your life path, not the past.

8H: you’re the person that’s able to move on from literally anything as time passes by but you for sure won’t forget anything, in fact you might just remember everything into detail. trauma and the hurt you have been through shapes you into a stronger person who learns how to be less sentimental day by day, you’re the only one that’s there for yourself when you’re going through it, through depression, through isolation and so on. people could perceive you as someone self centered, conceited or unapproachable. you need to learn how to not hold grudges and how to forgive but if you can’t seem to do that then you need to let things go because you remembering everything into detail manifests into having intrusive thoughts very often that constantly haunt you

9H: you HAVE to stop trusting people so easily. not everyone is your friend, not all of your family members wish you the best and not every new partner you get into a relationship with is meant for you! you have probably been lied to a lot in your life but you decide to ignore it just because you hate not being at peace with the people you care for. don’t ignore red flags, don’t ignore toxicity and don’t ignore advice. being a good person is good but enough is enough.. you can’t believe everything, trust everyone as mentioned and you can’t keep trying to see the good in people that you deep down know aren’t good people at all. when someone gives you advice that you don’t trust listen to it especially if your intuition is saying so.

10H: stop doubting yourself and stop believing certain things are impossible to ever happen because nothing is impossible. you deserve love, affection, success, money and so much more. do what makes you happy and go after your goals. don’t let anything stop you. people might’ve tried controlling you a lot in your life or during your childhood but you have to become independent and okay with being on your own. you don’t need anyone but yourself because at the end of the day no one will care for you and think about you more than you think about yourself.

11H: you have to let people connect with you. you’re so afraid of failure, of wasting your time on the wrong people but look at it from the brighter side - it’s life. you’re living life, you’re meant to experience new experiences every now and then. let people love you and let people feel loved by you! you will meet many new people (if you let yourself) and through all those new people you can meet the love of your life, your platonic soulmate and your happy place. you can’t be alone forever even if you feel like that’s the right thing to do, because there’s truly people out there that want to be there for you and love you

12H: you could’ve been screamed at a lot which now you fear, you could’ve been verbally abused, cheated on, lied to constantly but you always find reasons to still stay around those people. you go through many illusions in life that make the environment you’re around more negative and toxic the more you entertain it. get out of your comfort zone and ignore any sort of negativity. don’t wonder why you feel sudden mood swings or headaches, it’s because you let other people control you telepathically. you have to be your own person, your own boss.

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Pushya is considered as auspicious nakshatra but it makes the native go through some really tough battles, it's ruled by saturn after all .

Also I have seen that this nakshatra in big 3 gives a strained relationship with your father.

Do ya'll have this placement, if yes do you resonate with this🪷🪷🪷

How to ask a provider for money and gifts: feminine tips

this advice is only applicable for provider men and provider men only

your 25 year old boyfriend who’s fresh out of college with a student debt on his back will probably not do these for you

your crush earning 10$ per hour working as a cashier will also not be the correct target for these

this advice works on 

1. men who really, really, REAALLLY like you and want to impress you because they view you as the prize

2. men who have the means to spend on you

first tip on asking men for money is this:

men are your mirror, 

they will mirror back the energy you give off

so if you come to a man all nervous with shifty eyes, hands clasped tightly together saying “oh i don’t know if this is asking too much but i would really like it if you got me xyz” 👉🏽👈🏽

this is a huge ick for a provider man

and he will mirror that energy right back, if you’re not confident asking for money he doesn’t feel good giving it to you

imagine you’re at a job and want to ask for a raise, will you say

“hey guys, not sure if we have the budget for this but it would be really great if i can get a 10% increase” 👉🏽👈🏽

that’s not the energy that you bring when asking for money, 

you have to be confident, straightforward, and ask for money as if it’s the most natural thing, as if you’re asking a waiter for water at a restaurant

here’s a few examples

“babe i’td make me so happy if you bought me these shoes”==> straightforward, you are talking bout your feelings and how HIS action would directly impact your happiness 

“i’d love to wear this dress for you, do you think you can get it for me” ==> you’re making this about him, you want to wear the dress FOR him, you want to represent him well and show off how good he treats you, this is an immediate ego boost for the man, 

+ asking “do you think you can get it for me” is only appropriate if you are in the early dating stage, this is being polite and not entitled but also slightly condescending because you’re questioning if he can do it/afford it, masculine men will want to prove it to you, but as you get comfortable in the relationship you should ask using the method in the  first example

remember, provider men WANT to spend money on you, it makes them feel good, masculine and capable, the only thing they expect back from you is a smile and feminine gratitude, 

“your receiving is your giving!”, aka men get a kick from taking care of their object of affection

so if you act all shy and victim-y or like you’re apologetic that he has to spend money on you, it’s a turn off for him and makes the spending not fun !

gratitude should look like this:

“thank you baby, i love how much you spoil me and take care of me”

 “i love how you show me you love me” 

this makes the man equate spending on you to an act and display of love!

“ you know me so well, you always pick exactly the thing that i want” = praising his attention to details and his dedication to pleasing you

“you’re the only man/ the only one who can do xyz”

men looove when you place them above other men, telling him he’s the only one who can do certain things for you really gets into their head, use this one carefully you don’t want him thinking that he’s the first man that spent money on you or treats you right, you strategically use this one for exceptional occasions. finally, 

how to act when a man doesn’t want to spend on you

never get mad, angry or entitled, 

that man just showed you his true colors and his intentions with you, in true “Elle Woods” fashion, tell him with the sweetest most innocent voice you can muster

“oh i’m sorry i didn’t know you were in a financial difficulty”

this line works like a charm to repel broke men, and to offend stingy men with money, 

if you have the means and you’re not spending then that equals to broke 😉  

my ask is open if you have questions on this specific topic ✨

Kinda getting bored of those webtoons where the woman is naive and helpless and has a boyfriend that is supposed to be the stereotypical bad mafia fighter guy