If you think the Theoi are abusive: shut up.
Because I have found nothing but love, kindness, help, and joy in my gods, and if you think, even for a second, that those gods are abusive, take a step back and ask yourself why you worship them. Because you shouldn’t be staying in an “abusive” relationship, I don’t care of you think they’re going to smite you. They don’t deserve your crap.
Stop saying that the gods of my religion are abusive, because they’re not. The same gods of hospitality, help, averting harm, and protection don’t care enough to be abusive towards you or anyone else.
They are all powerful, and above human spite and hatefulness. They get angry, sure, maybe ignore your offerings or stop helping you for a while, but they don’t abuse you, and the only way to get them mad at you is if you really mess up.
And if you think pushing you to do your best is abusive, (in a nonharmful manner) then I’m sorry, but you can leave.
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Greek Deities.
Don’t… treat them as tools. Deities aren’t obligated to help you, even if you do everything “correctly” to ask. They’re not vending machines, or a list of correspondences that only gets value from how they best serve you. They’re gods! Instead… treat them like people. (Really high-status people.) Build a relationship before asking big favors. Compensate them for their time. Respect they have their own autonomy. Respect that your will is not the center of their universe.
Don’t… reduce them into archetypes. Putting Frejya or Aphrodite into just “love goddess” takes out so much of their depth. (Example, both of these goddesses also have warlike aspects.) Putting them into narrow categories and treating all deities that fit as the same can be reductive at best and insensitive to the root cultures at worst. Instead… address who you’re really talking to. Do your research. See how a god either lines up with or defies your assumptions. See what makes them different from a deity with a similar domain. If you wish to speak to the Horned God, speak to the Horned God, and if you want to speak to Cernunnos or Pan, call them Cernunnos or Pan. Don’t… ignore the lore. UPG Can certainly exist and add depth, but the lore has survived and is what all these gods are largely founded on. It’s important for us to recognize it and know who we’re approaching. Instead… do your research beforehand. Did you know Aphrodite is widely considered to HATE pigs and be offended with offerings of pork or images of pigs on the altar? Might be a good thing to know before you accidentally offer some fresh bacon. (But if you recognize the lore and find a way to spin it so it works, more power to you~) Don’t… insult other people’s gods. If those gods don’t resonate with you, they have a lot of meaning for other good people. I’m tempted to say don’t insult your own, either. Playful banter is one thing, but there’s a line between affectionate jabs and straight up disrespect. Find where that line is for you. Instead… talk to other people. If something about a god you don’t worship feels problematic, talk to their followers and devotees and see what they have to say about it. They probably have an approach you haven’t been exposed to. Analyze your own relationships with deities. And if the way you speak about a deity makes someone else uncomfortable or upset, respect their right to feel that way, apologize, and learn from it. Remember that each deity has changed someone’s life for the better.
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Symbols: Cerberus (his three-headed-dog), drinking horn, sceptor, key, the helm of darkness, pentacles
Sacred Animals: The screech owl, serpents, black rams
Plants: Cypress tree, asphodel, mint, white poplar, narcissus
Scents: Frankincense, patchouli
Gems and Metals: Onyx, jet, black tourmaline, black obsidian, hematite, coal, all metals and stones (especially black ones)
Colours: Black
Time: Midnight
Offerings to Hades:
Water, wine, honey, milk, or oil (best poured into a hole in the earth)
Pomegranates
Bones
Caring acts towards the dying
Caring acts towards dogs
Coins, gemstones, and metals
Leaving flowers on graves, cleaning up graveyards
Pictures of deceased loved ones
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So for colors, I like to mix both pastels/vibrant pieces, as well as dark, bleaker bits.
Persephone’s the goddess of Springtime, so flowers are nice, but she’s also the Queen of the Underworld. She’s a ruler, a goddess of darkness. Hades is the king of this realm of the dead, so both have those aspects of the afterlife.
Adorn their altar with bouquets as well as skulls. Recognize both of them and all of their traits :)
Here are some good things to decorate your altar with:
Flowers
Waterfalls/small fountains
Wreath of flowers (like a circlet)
Rams/Bulls
Birds (especially parrots, ravens, etc)
Bats
Seeds
Images of springtime or meadows
Anything to do with her being Queen of the Underworld,
such as a throne, etc.
Pictures of Cerberus
Coins/gems/valuables are all related to Hades
Pomegranates are good for Persephone
Bones/etc are neat decor pieces
Black cloth could go underneath everything to serve as an altar cloth
Shadowy artwork is something that I connect with Hades/Persephone
Black cups or bowls can be good for leaving offerings in
Candles
Things that you associate with the Underworld
Black Sheep
Screech Owls
These were (possibly) the flowers Persephone was gathering when abducted by Hades (good for shrine decor and offerings):
roses
irises
pansies
violets
hyacinth
crocuses
lilies
narcissus
Things to avoid:
Mint
Poplar
Offering Ideas:
Poetry or dark prose (H & P)
Gems/Coins/Crystals/Valuable Things (H)
Tea (Ideas below)
Earl Grey (H)
Hibiscus/Red Fruit Teas (H &P)
Harney & Sons Paris Tea (H & P) (Can’t remember who told me this was a good tea to use as an offering, but it’s a great for Hades when Persephone is away)
Pomegranate Tea (P)
Flowers (P)
Bones (H &P)
Candles (H &P)
Incense (H &P)
Wine (H &P)
Bread (I find that flavorful bread is something they like) (H &P)
Time spent reading to them (H &P)
Money (H)
Honey (P, sometimes H)
Artwork (H & P)
Figurines representing their sacred animals (H & P)
Living plants grown in their honor (H &P)
Informational books and articles written about death and funeral rituals from other culture (H, sometimes P)
Take care of sick/elderly people
volunteer at animal shelters or walk your dog
Read up on rituals other cultures do when someone dies
Spend time cleaning up cemeteries and honoring the dead
Be fair and avoid doing things you know aren’t right
Spend time alone and reflect on yourself and what you think is important
Collect things from the Earth, like crystals or gems
Read up on Hades and his stories/myths/etc
Find out about who came before you in your family if possible, and figure out where they’re buried (if they are buried). Leave something like a flower or another offering there if you can
Garden and grow flowers that will thrive in your climate. dedicate them to Persephone
Press flowers and use them as decorations/bookmarks/etc
Read and learn about the different uses for herbs and flowers
Read and learn about poisonous herbs and flowers
Be cheesy and eat Pomegranates
Write poetry or prose about Persephone’s grace, and also her power
Honor her as the Queen of the Underworld and also the goddess of spring
Grow Persephone’s sacred trees/plants or take care of the ones you see
Treat yourself to frolics on the meadow, but also to powerful activities in which you exercise your intelligence and persuasion
How to introduce yourself to them is linked here :)
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