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iâm sad -> i look at images of my ~40 year old man of choice -> i twirl my hair and kick my legs -> i think crazy thoughts -> i feel okay -> rinse repeat
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Abu al-Faraj al-Isfahaniâs Kitab al-Aghani records the lives of a number of individuals including one named Tuways who lived during the last years of Muhammad and the reigns of the early Muslim dynasties. Tuways was mukhannathun: those who were born as men, but who presented as female. They are described by al-Isfahani as wearing bangles, decorating their hands with henna, and wearing feminine clothing. One mukhannathun, Hit, was even in the household of the Prophet Muhammad. Tuways earned a reputation as a musician, performing for clients and even for Muslim rulers. When Yahya ibn al-Hakam was appointed as governor, Tuways joined in the celebration wearing ostentatious garb and cosmetics. When asked by the governor if he were Muslim Tuways affirmed his belief, proclaiming the declaration of faith and saying that he observes the fast of Ramadan and the five daily prayers. In other words, al-Isfahani, who recorded the life of a number of mukhannathun like Tuways, saw no contradiction between his gender expression and his Muslimness. From al-Isfahani we read of al-Dalal, ibn Surayj, and al-Gharidâall mukhannathunâwho lived rich lives in early Muslim societies. Notably absent from al-Isfahaniâs records is any state-sanctioned persecution. Instead, the mukhannathun are an accepted part of society.
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Far from isolated cases, across Islamic historyâfrom North Africa to South Asiaâwe see widespread acceptance of gender nonconforming and queer individuals. - Later in the Ottoman Empire, there were the kÜçek who were men who wore womenâs clothing and performed at festivals. Formally trained in dance and percussion instruments, the kÜçek were an important part of social functions. A similar practice was found in Egypt. The khawal were male dancers who presented as female, wearing dresses, make up, and henna. Like their Ottoman counterparts, they performed at social events.
- In South Asia, the hijra were and are third-sex individuals. The term is used for intersex people as well as transgender women. Hijra are attested to among the earliest Muslim societies of South Asia where, according to Nalini Iyer, they were often guardians of the household and even held office as advisors.
- In Iraq, the mustarjil are born female, but present as men. In Wilfred Thesigerâs The Marsh Arabs the guide, Amara explains, âA mustarjil is born a woman. She cannot help that; but she has the heart of a man, so she lives like a man.â When asked if the mustarjil are accepted, Amara replies âCertainly. We eat with her and she may sit in the mudhif.â Amara goes on to describe how mustarjil have sex with women.
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Historian Indira Gesink analyzed 41 medical and juristic sources between the 8th and 18th centuries and discovered that the discourse of a âbinary sexâ was an anachronistic projection backwards. Gesink points out in one of the earliest lexicography by the 8th century al-Khalil ibn Ahmad that he suggests addressing a male-presenting intersex person as ya khunathu and a female-presenting intersex person as ya khanathi while addressing an effeminate man as ya khunathatu. This suggests a clear recognition of a spectrum of sex and gender expression and a desire to address someone respectfully based on how they presented.
Tolerance of gender ambiguity and non-conformity in Islamic cultures went hand-in-hand with broader acceptance of homoeroticism. Texts like Ali ibn Nasir al-Katibâs Jawami al-Ladhdha, Abu al-Faraj al-Isfahaniâs Kitab al-Aghani, and the Tunisian, Ahmad al-Tifashiâs Nuzâha al-âAlbab attest to the widespread acceptance of same-sex desire as natural. Homoeroticism is a common element in much of Persian and Arabic poetry where youthful males are often the object of desire. From Abu Nuwas to Rumi, from ibn Ammar to Amir Khusraw, some of the Islamic worldâs greatest poets were composing verses for their male lovers. Queer love was openly vaunted by poets. One, Ibn Nasr, immortalizes the love between two Arab lesbians Hind al Nuâman and al-Zarqa by writing:
âOh Hind, you are truer to your word than men. Oh, the differences between your loyalty and theirs.â
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Acceptance of same-sex desire and gender non-conformity was the hallmark of Islamic societies to such a degree that European travelers consistently remarked derisively on it. In the 19th century, Edward Lane wrote of the khawal: âThey are Muslims and natives of Egypt. As they personate women, their dances are exactly of the same description as those of the ghawazee; and are, in like manner, accompanied by the sound of castanets.â
A similarly scandalized CS Sonnini writes of Muslim homoerotic culture:
âThe inconceivable appetite which dishonored the Greeks and the Persians of antiquity, constitute the delight, or to use a juster term, the infamy of the Egyptians. It is not for women that their ditties are composed: it is not on them that tender caresses are lavished; far different objects inflame them.â
In his travels in the 19th century, James Silk Buckingham encounters an Afghan dervish shedding tears for parting with his male lover. The dervish, Ismael, is astonished to find how rare same-sex love was in Europe. Buckingham reports the deep love between Ismael and his lover quoting, âthough they were still two bodies, they became one soul.â
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Today, vocal Muslim critics of LGBTQ+ rights often accuse gay and queer people of imposing a âWesternâ concept or forcing Islam to adjust to âWestern valuesâ failing to grasp the irony of the claim: the shift in the 19th and 20th century was precisely an alignment with colonial values over older Islamic ones, all of which led to legal criminalization. In fact, the common feature among nations with anti-LGBTQ+ legislation isnât Islam, but rather colonial law.
Don't talk to me I'm weeping. I'm not Muslim, but the grief of colonization runs in the blood of every Global South person. Dicovering these is like finding our lost treasures among plundered ruins.
Queer folk have always, always been here; we have always been inextricable, shining golden threads in the tapestry of human history. To erase and condemn us is to continue using the scalpel of colonizers in the mutilation and betrayal of our own heritage.
shhh let my husband sleep he's tired <3
imma be SO inappropriate rn
You can trust him, he's a good guy...
sneak peek of my personal revision poster !!! I'm memorizing the Silicate subclasses!!!
Sidenote: Did yall know that Emeralds and Aquamarines are basically variations of Beryl?
(sawry im a nerd)
If oscar hit me with this open-mouthed goldfish kiss, I'd be bricked in two seconds.
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