Idk If I've Talked About This Before, But I Saw Someone Post About Why People Who Have Been Trying To

Idk if I've talked about this before, but I saw someone post about why people who have been trying to shift for so long might not be shifting (this might not apply to everyone, but it really clicked with me). They only explained why, so I'm gonna talk about the solution I came up with.

They specifically said that it was not tough love, but psychological facts: it's possible that your mind registers shifting as a goal in THIS reality.

Think about that for a second. This is the part that really got me when I started to think about it. When you are here, in your CR, your goal is to shift, right? So what if our minds interprets that as a goal IN THIS REALITY, as simple as going to bed thinking "oh, I'm going to unload the dishwasher in the morning." Because shifting is just aligning with your DR self, and guess what?? Your goal in your DR is not to shift! That blew up my brain a little bit.

"But i want to shift" you know how everyone keeps saying "you are already in your DR"? I interpreted that for so long as motivation. It's not. It's the process. To align with your DR self, just like aligning with another person in your CR you have to have the same goals.

So your goal is no longer to shift. Stop thinking like that. Your goal IS NOT TO SHIFT. Waking up where you are meant to has never been a goal, but an expectation. Your goal is to wake up and go downstairs to have breakfast with your DR friends or family. Your goal is to wake up and get to class on time to ace that Defence Against The Dark Arts quiz you totally forgot to study for until the night before. Your goal is to wake up and win that Oscar, to break that curse, destroy the One Ring, you fucking name it babes.

I don't know if this is really dumb and obvious, but it wasn't for me before, so I really hope this post helps someone else too.

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8 months ago

What are some things you learned by shifting?

a year and a half ago i learned how to drive. i was already a decent driver but wasn’t super confident. so when i first shifted, i shifted to a parallel reality where i could practice my driving skills.

getting better at speaking languages. my korean and mandarin back then was okay..not the best! but it was alright. i used shifting to talk to more native speakers in that language so i could expand my vocab and be more confident.

for this one i didn’t learn anything in particular but whenever i wanted to change my hair color and needed to be sure if it would look good on me i would literally shift to a parallel reality with the hair color i wanted to try.

happy shifting !!

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If this is not a sign for you to shift today then idk

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if i catch you delaying shifting again tonight while trying to find an excuse like "my script isnt finished yet!" well to bad hoe the night has arrived and u said u were gonna shift so hurry

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7 months ago

How does anyone not believe in shifting? like THIS universe exists, why would there not be anymore? Theres infinite amount of universes for you and you are gonna sit here and be close minded thinking that theres only one?? do you not realize how stupid you sound thinking theres only one universe.

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i don't get where people got the idea that you shouldn't get attached to your drs, that somehow they won't be as 'real' as your cr... baby bare your teeth and gnash. love until skin turns to bone, then become one with earth itself. mark your place, claw your way through dimensions. don't be afraid to hang onto something that is as real as your breath.

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