How I Shift Realities

you're making shifting hard

shifting is not hard. you're making it seem that way.

i used to struggle with this so much. like, i knew the law of assumption. i knew that shifting and manifesting were the same thing. i knew that reality is just my assumptions reflected back to me.

but for some reason, every time i tried to just decide i was in my DR, it felt... different.

i could easily say, "i have blue eyes," and it felt normal, even if my eyes were brown. but the second i tried to say, "i'm in my DR," my brain would go: "hmm... but are you really?" and suddenly, i'd be analyzing everything, waiting for proof, wondering if i was doing it right.

and that's where i messed up.

i was placing shifting on a pedestal

i thought shifting was bigger than other manifestations. i thought it was different. but the truth? there is no such thing as a "big" or "small" manifestation. that's literally just a label. it's an assumption.

if i assume it's "harder" to shift than to change my eye color, then guess what? that assumption becomes my reality. but if i assume they're both the same, just decisions, then shifting becomes just as easy as saying, "i have blue eyes."

checking for proof was my biggest block

the second i decided i was in my DR, i'd immediately start checking, even subconsciously.

do i feel different?

did something change?

am i there yet?

and by doing that, i was literally affirming that i wasn't there. because if i truly believed i was in my DR, why would i be checking?

like, when i wake up in the morning, i don't sit there and check if i'm still in my reality. i don't look around thinking, "is this my bed? is this my house?" i just assume it is. and because i assume it, that's what i experience.

that's exactly how shifting works.

deciding = reality

at some point, i realized i was overcomplicating everything. i was acting like shifting was some grand process, when in reality, it's literally just deciding. and once i decide, that's it. i don't need to do anything else.

when i say, "i have blue eyes," i don't sit there waiting for them to change. it just accept it as true.

when i say, "i am already in my DR," i should do the exact same thing. just accept it and move on.

no forcing. no waiting. no "trying." just knowing.

the secret? stop making it a big deal

shifting is not this rare, complicated thing.

it's not "bigger" than any other manifestation. it's not something you have to work toward. it's just a decision. and the only reason it feels different is because you assume it is.

so i stopped treating it like a big deal. i stopped looking for proof. i stopped acting like it was something separate from normal manifesting. and the moment i did that? everything clicked.

so if you're struggling...

stop checking if it's working.

stop waiting for proof and validation.

stop placing shifting on a pedestal.

just decide. accept. move on.

you're already there. that's it. no doubts, no second-guessing. just be.

dividers by: @cafekitsune

gojo satoru

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i mean-damn😭

I’ll trade you🫵 my first born and a limb for the version where the reader d!es in your “You know I love you, right?” SMAU? Deal??

PRETTYPLEASEPLEASEPLEASEPLEASE

gee, i feel like dr. facilier from princess and the frog with all of these trades and deals lmao

JJK Smau: "I'm sorry I couldn't save you." 💔💔

- the jjk guys texting your number to process their grief after you died

alternate ending to this smau

shiu, nanami, choso, sukuna, toji, geto, and gojo

contains: angst, grief, reader dies, mentions of violence

I can see the sun, but even if I cannot see the sun, I know that it exists. And to know that the sun is there—that is living.

- fyodor dostoevsky, the brothers karamazov

i saw this quote a few days ago and couldn't stop thinking about it.

perception vs reality

we can see the sun, we live under its light, we know it's there. even when night falls and we can no longer see the brightness of this giant star floating in space, we still know it's there, we know that when morning comes, the sun will be right where it was the day prior.

—shifting isn't always instant, for some of us, shifting takes more than one try, saying one affirmation and going to sleep doesn't always work for everyone.

perception; you wake up from shifting and you're disappointed that you can't see your dr and think that means you haven't "failed"

reality; you're always "there", (for me) shifting is just refocusing back to your dr. there's many layers to reality, and personally how i see the universe/shifting is just multiple realities existing simultaneously next to one another, you know when you unfocus your eyes and the object in front of you becomes two or more, it's a difficult concept to explain, it's beyond human comprehension (or at least it's beyond my lack of explaining abilities)—that's why your 3d hasn't caught on, shifting takes patience and discipline. i wouldn't say you need motivation to do it, but passion(?) and desire for a better life, desire to know your dr family and passion to know more and live life far beyond this one universe.

(apologies for rambling, i couldn't stop thinking about this quote and wanted to write about it. i tried to articulate my thoughts as best i could, feel free to ask questions)

SOCIAL MEDIA IS THE REASON WHY YOU CANT SHIFT

You have doubts, guess what, you can still shift

You don’t have a script? , you can still shift

You don’t have motivation? You can still shift

Whatever you have, you CAN STILL shift

DONT LET SOCIAL MEDIA INFLUENCE YOU

YOU DONT NEED ANYTHING TO SHIFT!

this man is so FUCKING PRETTY GUYS. OH MY GOD. I NEED TO PSYCHICALLY SEE HIM.

also it's 6:16 am I'm gonna shift. BYE. SEE YOU TOMORROW😻🫶

They deactivated their acc, they do think rationally tho. I thought it might help some of you.

Your DR is your CR.