growing pains
How it feels knowing nothing actually matters when you are a reality shifter
something something father son
Okay, granted, not everyone has this problem - but a lot of people carry around this little assumption and expectation to wake up in their current reality again. No matter what they do. You've got your script ready. Your method is comfy and your chosen subliminal slaps. You feel ready and everything is in place. But deep down? Deep down you prepare yourself for your alarm in the morning. Prepare yourself for the same room, the same body, the same boring reality trot. It's like saying to the universe "Surprise me!", but also slipping in a quiet note saying "Please don't. Just copy yesterday". It's not new knowledge that your subconscious is running the show behind the scenes. But what we sometimes forget is that our subconscious picks its believes from us... from our habits, patterns, the things we repeat over and over again, even the ones we are not fully aware of. And since most of us are raised in a world that values logic, linear thinking, the "you only live once" mentality, it's no surprise some of us struggle with seeing any other reality as "just as real". Not your fault, it's just conditioning doing its work. Shifting goes basically against everything you have been taught to expect, so it can feel hard to rewire that believe on the go. You are a bit like a Roomba - just doing your little routines, bumping into some unexpected furniture on your usual way, programmed by years and years of subconscious patterns and habits. Cute, but kinda confused a lot. Doesn't mean you are broken, just shows you are human. What you can do is trying to catch that thought, the expectation of waking up here, before it starts to settle in again. Don't just say "I hope I shift". Hope is passive. Try something like: "I believe it's possible to shift" "I expect to shift" "My CR isn't the default. My DR can be the default too." You subconscious learns best from repetition, dominant believes and a sense of familiarity. So start feeding it those things, instead of doubt disguised as fickle believe. Once you start treating your DR as absolutely inevitable, it becomes harder for your brain to argue with that over time. You're not failing, just learning. And every single time you turn those pesky little thoughts in more productive ones, you are rewiring your believes. That's not small, that is huge! That is taking your power back from just letting things happen. You are basically standing in the doorway to your DR, you just need to find your way to step into it.
What i have noticed with all the times i have shifted, it was never forced. I simply let it happen.
If you force the shift you create resistance and stress upon yourselves. it enforces that feeling that you have not shifted.
People are obsessed with the 3D when they are trying to shift as they want to feel symptoms when in reality the 3D has no relevance to shifting. You can acknowledge it yes, but learn to ignore it.
Simply trust yourself that you will wake up in your dr. Don’t overthink that decision and stand firm in the belief you will wake up there.
Once you do that you can let your mind wander, day dream etc idk. you’re human and your mind will be wandering and LET IT DO THAT.
1) Decide you have shifted
2) Trust yourself and stand firm
3) Done
+ let mind wander/go to sleep/do anything that helps calm you down
I got a a lot of messages about this topic and here’s a general post talking about and i hope it helps in some way.
GUYSSSS I SHIFTED LAST NIGHT FUCK FUCK FUCK THIS IS NOT A DRILLL I REPEAT STORYTIME INCOMING IN A FEW..... SHIT
ACTUALLY I'M STILL SHAKEN UP
He learned how to play Mary had a little lamb
GOJO SATORU (Front & Back):
YEEUP‼️‼️⁉️⁉️
He's suchhhhh boyfriend material
“I haven’t shifted yet.”
“It’s been 4 years, why haven’t I shifted yet?”
“I can’t shift.”
Stop. Just stop.
Take a deep breath and just stop.
Flip your thoughts right now. Every time you start to think any thought like this I want you to dismiss it and affirm something positive instead.
“I haven’t shifted-“ Actually, you have shifted.
“I can’t shift” Yes you can. You’re a master shifter.
Your assumptions create your reality. Right now you are living in the reality where your negative assumptions are correct. The second you change your negative assumptions and replace them with positive ones, you are living in the reality where the positive assumptions are correct. It is a choice. It’s your choice.
Let’s put it this way. You’re already choosing to persist in the negative thoughts. Is that working out for you? No. So choose to persist in the positive thoughts instead. Just try it. Watch how fast your shifting journey changes for the better. Trust me.
Tonight's the night , happy shift 🍂