The regressor feeling of "man i wish they made that but in adult sizes"
splashing in puddles, putting worms back on the grass, the raindrops on the window having a race, gray skies, wind whipping your dampening hair, flowers poking out of the wet grass, warm humid air, leaving the window open to fall asleep to the rain, the sun poking out of the clouds and giving the world a warm glow at the end of a gray day, taking a bath at the end of the day to wash off the rainwater and mud, cuddling under warm soft blankets and listening to the gentle pitter patter of the rain as you fall asleep in your caregivers arms as they rub your back
Coloring!
Day 1: Favorite animal
Day 8: Your Ideal Playroom
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This community needs to be better at not demonizing kink communities. Boundaries are one thing but referring to kink communities as “icky” is hurtful.
Agere and kink must be separate and boundaries are very important but that in no way requires hating on kink communities and the people in them. Unfortunately, I think a lot of this hate just comes from being misinformed. I used to hate on kink too but when I educated myself I realized that age play and abdl aren’t pedophillia or gross or anything like that. Many age players engage in such for the same reasons we do: childhood trauma and the comfort and safety of being kid again (there are other reasons too, I just didn’t mention them). They just do it in a different way than we do which is 100% valid.
You also have to acknowledge that just because someone is a sfw regressor, that doesn’t mean their entire existence is sfw. That shouldn’t be mind blowing. A lot of us are adults that like adult things. When you demonize kink communities, you are probably hurting people in your own community too. Sex is normal and should NOT be shameful. Feelings don’t make anyone bad or evil and I went through way too much purity culture related trauma to say otherwise.
Anyways, thanks for listening to my ramble. This isn’t what I normally post about but I wanted to talk about it. Have a great day and thanks for listening. <3
tips to caring for littles who suffer from:
emotional dysregulation, hyper empathy,
and harsh moodswings !!
• develop grounding techniques to bring your little back to earth when they spiral. (breathing exercises, hand squeezing, observation games, etc.)
• remind them that what they're feeling is only big right now, and will pass.
• offer reassurance and spend time with them. Do not get angry if your little is easily upset or agitated.
• if the source of the moodswing or dysregulation is removable, try to get your little or the cause away from the other.
• find distractions to help your baby cope. (tv, games, toys, coloring, etc.)
• offer to talk with them about their big feelings and / or listen.
• if they're comfortable with it, take over bigger tasks and set down rules to prevent harm. (Ex: earlier bedtimes, no exceptions.)
• show love towards your little, and communicate your feelings aswell.
• encourage your little to be open about their moodswings the moment they have them. Preventing further damage or fear for both parties.
• if your little is experiencing hyper empathy towards another party, assure them they're a good person for feeling on the other's behalf, but remind them that they're their own person.
• if your little is neglecting themselves for others, step in and stop them from doing so if safe.
As someone who experiences big emotions very quickly, and has symptoms of hyper empathy as well as bpd. I have a hard time distinguishing my emotions, I hope this post helps others like me ^^ feel free to add your own tips on!
Border Collie petre moodboard :0 teehee, for @barktholomoth :3 (hiii)
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