A LOT Of Kink Content On Tumblr Is Fantasy And Does Not Reflect What Kink Should Actually Be Like. It

when was the last time you had a full STI panel? how many partners have you been with in that time? do you request to see your partner's paperwork before you're intimate with them? how often do you engage in unprotected sex? if it has been more than 3 months and/or you have been with someone unprotected when do you plan to go for your next test?

In rope negotiations, talk about how long it will take to untie and make sure you’re both aware of how you’ll communicate when you want to untie! A red/yellow/green stoplight checkin system can be great. A nonverbal method of communicating this is an important backup.

Your safety shears should always be nearby too. Being in rope for any longer than you want can be scary and dangerous. Untie as soon as the limit is approaching, and never be scared to cut rope if you need to!

Riggers, make sure your bunny knows they can indicate when they’re wearing out, instead of waiting until they reach a limit.

Rope bunnies, get comfortable identifying that feeling and communicating it! A trustworthy rope top will never pressure you to stay in rope for more time than you are comfortable. (Even if they can’t finish the tie. Even if they’re taking pictures and are interrupted. Even if you’re in a scene). You deserve to have pleasant experiences in rope!

Play safely :-)

Years on the internet and somehow i still click on comments sections with the insanely optimistic idea that I'll learn something new instead of being subjected to the dumbest motherfuckers online typing like their sole purpose in life is to make me want to end mine

I need so bad to have a sub with their hands tied behind their back, knelt down on the bed while I sit next to them, one hand around their waist while I tease their cock with the other. Rubbing it slowly and meticulously until they're whining and squirming, until they're so pent up for release that they start actively humping my fist to try to get off, only for me to pull my hand away and wrap it around their throat - growling in their ear to be good and stay still while I have my fun with them. "If you want to cum you have to sit still for me baby. Be a good toy and stay quiet" knowing full well they won't be able to properly follow any of those instructions while I continue edging them.

fun fact: the best way to get a top to completely fucking obliterate you is by clearly expressing what you want and what your boundaries are. get your back blown out with this one weird trick

"For women, only one standard of female beauty is sanctioned: the girl. The great advantage men have is that our culture allows two standards of male beauty: the boy and the man. The beauty of a boy resembles the beauty of a girl. In both sexes it is a fragile kind of beauty and flourishes naturally only in the early part of the life-cycle. Happily, men are able to accept themselves under another standard of good looks — heavier, rougher, more thickly built. A man does not grieve when he loses the smooth, unlined, hairless skin of a boy. For he has only exchanged one form of attractiveness for another: the darker skin of a man’s face, roughened by daily shaving, showing the marks of emotion and the normal lines of age. There is no equivalent of this second standard for women. The single standard of beauty for women dictates that they must go on having clear skin. Every wrinkle, every line, every gray hair, is a defeat. No wonder that no boy minds becoming a man, while even the passage from girlhood to early womanhood is experienced by many women as their downfall, for all women are trained to want to continue looking like girls." — Excerpt from Susan Sontag's 1978 essay The Double Standard of Aging

ultimately all i really want is to make out with people with weird fucked up genders

yknow I really don't understand why monster dicks are allowed to be weird and animalistic and fucked up looking but god forbid pussy look like anything other than a small hairless smooth hole justice for weird pussy shapes

It recently came to my attention that a lot of people, even those who frequently use condoms, don't know that you need to pinch the tip when you put one on or don't know why!

Leaving air in the tip will cause it to expand (and maybe break) when ejaculation happens. Also, air in the condom makes it more likely for the ejaculation to push the air down the condom and make it slip off.

Share to save someone from a condom breakage!