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Friendships as a teenager: we used to talk 5 hours every night now it’s down to 3… are we still friends 🤔? I wonder if they don’t like me anymore

Friendships as an adult: omg I’ve finally cleared up 20 minutes of my schedule to talk to my friend I haven’t spoken to in 4 months #bffs #we will find eachother in every life

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ADHD at night: I could write a book. I could get my Master’s Degree. I could go to the club and come home with 12 new friends. I could get a job at that club and meet the mother of my children. I could cure every disease and use my wealth to bring world peace.

ADHD during the day: Fold laundry too hard :( Come back next week

I need so bad to have a sub with their hands tied behind their back, knelt down on the bed while I sit next to them, one hand around their waist while I tease their cock with the other. Rubbing it slowly and meticulously until they're whining and squirming, until they're so pent up for release that they start actively humping my fist to try to get off, only for me to pull my hand away and wrap it around their throat - growling in their ear to be good and stay still while I have my fun with them. "If you want to cum you have to sit still for me baby. Be a good toy and stay quiet" knowing full well they won't be able to properly follow any of those instructions while I continue edging them.

when was the last time you had a full STI panel? how many partners have you been with in that time? do you request to see your partner's paperwork before you're intimate with them? how often do you engage in unprotected sex? if it has been more than 3 months and/or you have been with someone unprotected when do you plan to go for your next test?

can’t stop thinking about my friend’s cishet partner who said last night that he doesn’t think anyone is the same gender. god-tier take.

okay but what about:

"come here baby"

"it's okay, i've got you"

"there you go, just like that, perfect"

"you're doing so well sweetheart"

"shhh, it's okay"

"look at you, so pretty"

"god, love"

"so good for me"

this is your gentle reminder to stop fighting against your adhd and instead structure your life around it

buy a pack of chapsticks and put one in the pocket of all of your coats and jackets because you always forget to bring one and chapped lips is sensory hell

leave important things where you can see them. if they go in a box or a drawer you will forget they exist

put any appointments or deadlines in your phone calendar As Soon As you get them. set a reminder for a week before, a day before, an hour before, as many as you need as often as you need them.

when that little voice in your head says "i dont need to write that down, ill remember it" that is the devil talking!!! write it down anyway!!

plan for down time. have a few hours at the end of every day to just do fun stuff like engage in your hyperfixations. even if you didnt get all of your work done that day, have the rest anyway. you probably spent the whole day beating yourself up for not doing what you Should be doing, so you still need the break.

if you never eat vegetables because its too much effort to chop and cook them, get the frozen or canned shit. it doesnt go off for ages and you just have to microwave it. theres no point buying fresh vegetables if they just keep going off and being left to rot in the bottom of your fridge

if you struggle to decide what to have for dinner every day, take the decision out of it. choose a set of meals and eat those on rotation until you get sick of them, then choose some new ones and do it again.

its not stupid if it works! our brains literally have a chemical deficiency. you are allowed to accommodate yourself. go forth and stop making your life more difficult than it has to be because "this shouldn't be this hard". it is hard, so make it easier.