I’ve hd several conversations with locked boiz over the past couple weeks where we discussed how to truly become a locked bottom bitch.
Now, you may ask, “But isn’t having your cocklette permantently riveted in a cage enough?”
The answer is “No.”
I believe that the point where you no longer focus on your cocklette as a source of pleasure, that it’s simply the thing you piss from, AND when your holes have become your only sources of sexual release - when you learn to have anal orgasms ans squirt cum from your soft cocklette from receiving a man’s cock (or dildo) - then and only then have you truly become a locked bottom bitch, a true servant of real men, an acolyte of cock, a disciple of sexual energy.
I’ve been asked how to get to that state of mind, to that place where we want to be. Now, I haven’t quite gotten there myself; though in truth, I no longer think of my locked cocklette as anything other than something to piss from. I no longer get erections (though sometimes a bit of swelling) and I haven’t had a real, honest-to-goodness orgasm in 623 days (as of 4/12/15). But I haven’t gotten to the point of being able to have an anal orgasm while being penetrated every time. It HAS happened but I would love to have one every time my hole gets used.
So here’s my theory on how to move from a cock-focused life to a hole-focused life.
1. Get that cock caged!
2. Stay locked’n’deniedlonger each session. Start at 2 weeks, then 3, then 4 … and just keep going.
3. Now the real trick, of course is to shift your sexual NEED from that locked cocklette to your hole. So, they way I’ve done it is simply by fucking a dildo EVERY TIME I GET HORNY.
Its that simple. Back when I was a top with a free cock, when I cruised porn I’d take my hard cock in my hand and wank one out. Or, when I mad my bottom bitch, Carlos, would kneel under the desk with a plug in his ass and suck my cock until I told him I was ready to blow. Then I’d put him over the desk and fuck my load into his El Salvadoran ass.
Remember when your cock was free? I bet you stroked that sucker every time you got the slightest bit horny.
Well, now, instead of thinking about your useless cock … go jump on a dildo - the bigger, the longer, the better. NEVER cruise pron without being ready to fuck a dildo the second you get horny.
You will train yourself to equate “horny” with “penetration.” That’s the key.
4. When you watch porn stop thinking about that real man’s cock, look at that bottom bitch taking it. Hear him moan. Think about your hole and how wonderful and amazing it feels when it is being penetrated. My God! Writing this now I have the urge to grab my Kevin Dean dildo and fuck it into me!
4. Once you’ve gone 6 months locked’n’denied you are ready to go permanent … invest in that stainless steel cage that fits perfectly and rivet the fucker on!
5. NEVER stop training. When you’re horny … fuck a dildo, fuck your man … fuck a stranger. Watch porn? Fuck a dildo. Each and every time!
The chastity cages we all so love to use just tackle part of the “problem” of being a submissive bottom. We have to change our physical, mental and emaotional states.
If you have additional suggestions on how you have learned to become a true bottom bitch … please share!