– Guys, Valentine’s Dates aren’t that complicated, give and you shall receive.
– ❥ YOU GAVE: needless to say, the flowers. But also the black dress, the lingerie, the stockings, the shoes, the French eau the parfum, the earrings …
– ❥ YOU RECEIVED: Your wife asked you if you wanted to watch her get ready for her date, and, of course, you thanked her dearly for allowing you to do it. And, after their date, you craved so much a little bit of intimacy with her that you almost begged, “would you allow me to go down on you;” and she kindly said, “yes, of course, Honey, I was hoping you asked for it; what could make this day more special for us?”
Your wife has mentioned her ex to you a number of times -- and has told you that although they had a bit of a rocky relationship, the sex with him was much better than the sex with you.
"Oh -- and by the way, sweetie" your wife continued, "apparently he will be coming to town every other week, so I think he and I will be able to see each other quite regularly."
This news does not exactly thrill you, but you know that there is nothing you can do to change the situation. You're just going to have to accept that she will be having sex with him a lot more often than she does with you.
[slightly modified from a MsTara original ]