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take it.

for requests would u consider drawing rhys 👉👈 love ur expressions btw!!! ur art tasty 🤎

Here he is… the boy disaster™️

Okay, so I was watching the episode 5 of the new season of Beastars on Netflix, were I didn't knew that Melon (the hybrid) would appear after 4 episodes.

So, when he first appeared... I immediately thought he was like the villain PagaMin, from Far Cry 4, and I don't know why. Maybe it's because of the way Melon was acting or his voice???

Like, look at them. They are very similar to me and I can't stop thinking about that.

And this is PagaMin, by the way:

Hi, I'm new to the Spirkverse. I've been around less than two months but I have fallen SO HARD. And I'm always saying that I'm late to this fandom. How could I not be? This ship has been sailing for nearly 60 years.

But HOLY SHIT what a day to be a Spirk fan. I'm not late after all. Turns out I showed up just in time.

Happy Unification Day, everyone.

It's my 1 year anniversary on Tumblr 🥳

It's way too recent, I know

DONT LIKE, REBLOG

so people who do this may see it.

The growing problem of "they" for trans people

Something I've noticed growing more common in my life recently has been people using exclusively "they" when referring to binary trans people who don't use "they"

Why is this a problem?

Using "they" when referring to someone when you don't know is seen as "better" in a lot of spaces now, which I can agree with as you don't know what their actual pronouns are. The problem I've noticed is that when meeting a trans person, a lot of people seem to default to "they" even after being told what pronouns they actually prefer. This can be for a lot of reasons, but the most common ones I hear are "I didn't want to assume" and "its not misgendering, they is neutral!"

Example situation

Person A meets person B, a trans woman. A doesn't know B's pronouns and so refers to B as "they." B corrects A, saying she prefers "she," but A continues to say "they" because its gender neutral. However, A does not do the same to cis women.

Do you see the problem now?

The use of exclusively "they" on trans people but not cis people, no matter your excuse, shows that you don't really see them as what they identify as and is quite transphobic since you're literally ignoring their identity and not seeing them as how they want to be seen.

"Okay, what should I do?"

Simple, just ask them their pronouns and then ACTUALLY USE THEM!! If he says he, DONT USE EXCLUSIVELY THEY! If she says she, DONT USE EXCLUSIVELY THEY! If they say they, well. yeah, use they, obviously. If xe say neopronouns and you don't know how to use those, just ask! If any part of someone's identity confuses you, just fucking ask them instead of assuming, for the love of god, and once they tell you, don't ignore what they said.

That's all. Just please stop calling people who don't use "they" by that.

Edit:

I got this comment and thought I should clarify and add on some MORE things you should avoid doing now that this post has aged a bit, and I've had more time to think!

Please do not attack this person, i dont think they meant it in any bad way

Clarification on the term 'misgendering'

While yes, 'gender' does not directly tell you someones pronouns or what terms they're comfortable with, but misgendering doesn't only mean calling a man a woman or a woman a man. Misgendering is usually thought to only mean using a trans person's assigned sexs' pronouns or deadnaming, but it's actually more than just that, it includes what terms you use for them, how you group them, and what societal expectations you put onto them based on their assigned sex, not just their gender.

Other things you should avoid

* Obviously, these won't apply to every situation. These are just general rules to follow UNTIL YOU KNOW THE PERSON. Once they tell you what they're comfortable with, then do what they ask, not what some random tumblr post says

Calling gender non-conforming people 'it'

Deadnaming, obviously

Using gendered pronouns for a non-conforming person

Arguing with someone over the validity of their identity

Automatically introducing someone as trans

Assuming someone is out to other family or friends

Using incorrectly gendered terms, including when referring to a group

Exclusively using gender neutral terms/compliments

Our daily struggle to find a piece of bread 🍞

It is well known now that the people of Gaza in the south part are struggling and experiencing the hunger again due to lack of wheat flour 🌾 , which is necessary to make bread 🥖 🍞

Yesterday i have made my journey to bring bread from one of the bakery in Nuserirat area, after waiting for more than 5 hrs, unfortunately I was not able to bring eatable bread to my small family.

The price of 20 small bread is 20 nis (about 5,5$), and from the black market it is more 10-15$.

Here is a documention for my journey to survive and wait in a long queue for a piece of bread

Hope this war will end soon, to back to our normal lives

Stop 🛑 the war

stand with us if you can, via gofund me link:

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Donate to Stand with Hatem’s family in Gaza, organized by W SALEM

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Regards

Kirk comforting the evil version of himself is so weird and so sweet, and honestly let’s all try to be that gentle with ourselves.

5000 likes!

JUST BECAUSE I LIKED A LOT OF STAR TREK FANART, INCLUDING SPIRK ONES, I'M DEFINITELY NORMAL ABOUT THAT AAAAAAA