Honestly so many of my insecurities got solved by realizing who the fuck cares and if someone does care they’re a weirdo for that
See also, "We're in a drought; conserve water!" Meanwhile, bottled water companies and golf courses for rich folk empty the aquifers.
cannot recommend more putting secrets and hints in your creative work that you dont expect anyone to figure out
"This story is a tragedy because it didn't have to end this way."
vs
"This story is a tragedy because it was always going to end this way."
as an aroace person with limited sexual experience, no interest in watching porn, and poor sex ed as a teen, there IS something simultaneously funny and vaguely tragic about being 28 adult years old and realising how extremely tiny your frame of reference is for genitalia and deciding you should expand this to better understand bodies (yours and others). and then you're just there like "okay so what the fuck do I even google right now, anyway"
Finished a new piece. I think it speaks to my state of mind. Notice the fine details. :)
Highlights from the conference room where they nominated contenders for Word of the Year 2023:
• They put Skibidi Toilet on the projector to explain what “skibidi” means.
• Baby Gronk was mentioned.
• We discussed the Rizzler.
• “Cunty” was nominated.
• “Enshittification” was suggested for EVERY category.
• “Blue Check” (like from Twitter) was briefly defined as “Someone who will not Shut The Fuck Up”
• The person writing notes briefly defined babygirl as “referencing [The Speaker]”. He is now being called babygirl in the linguist groupchats.
• MULTIPLE people raised their hand to say “I cannot stress this enough: ‘Babygirl’ refers to a GROWN MAN”
How dare we exist in our disabled bodies as queer people, apparently. How dare we refuse to conform to some bullshit idea of 'desirable'.
We deserve to love ourselves for who we are. Fuck this societal crap about "clear, pale and thin" bodies being the peak of beauty. It's ableist and racist and it needs to stop.