Society..!
· I need feminism because phrases like “like a girl”, “grow a pair” and “don’t be a pussy” are used as insults.
· I need feminism because boys get high fived when they have sex and girls get called sluts and whores.
·I need feminism because men are seen as weak and not manly if they show their emotions.
· I need feminism because I’m supposed to take being objectified as a compliment.
· I need feminism because I refuse to live in a world where women are seen as inferior.
· I need feminism because I’ve been brought to tears because an older man thinks it’s okay to shout things about my body in the street.
· I need feminism because I feel that I can either have a successful career or a family.
· I need feminism because women are being killed for having sex outside of marriage where as its acceptable for men.
· I need feminism because there are women younger than me who are forced to stop their education and get married.
· I need feminism because my generation see “feminism” as a dirty word.
· I need feminism because women base their beauty off of men’s expectations.
· I need feminism because capitalism thrives off women’s insecurities.
· I need feminism because a guy in my class said “if it’s his wife, then it doesn’t count as rape.”
· I need feminism because girls around the world are getting genital mutations to prevent them from making their own decisions.
· I need feminism because I’m sick of being told its gross if I don’t shave my legs or armpits
· I need feminism because when we’re harassed we’re told “boys will be boys.”
· I need feminism because people think jokes about rape and domestic violence are funny.
· I need feminism because its acceptable for one of my male teachers to make jokes about girls being stupid in front of a whole class.
· I need feminism because men are praised for having sex and women are shamed and judged.
· I need feminism because I’m sick of my strong opinions being dismissed by people suggesting that I’m on my period.
· I need feminism because when a grown man was accused of raping a young girl someone commented “it takes two to tango.”
· I need feminism because we’re not taught about boundaries so at 11/12 it was normal for guys at school to touch me even though it made me uncomfortable and I thought I was silly for telling them to stop.
· I need feminism because people think there are only two genders and three sexualities.
·I need feminism because I should be able to walk alone at night without feeling scared.
· I need feminism because I was born into a culture that says my main focus should be finding a husband to have kids with.
·I need feminism because my brother shouldn’t be told that he needs to man up when he cries.
· I need feminism because people still ask what the victim was wearing.
·I need feminism because I shouldn’t be told that “real men” don’t get abused.
·I need feminism because I was 11 when I first noticed men looking at me and was first cat called.
·I need feminism because teenage boys are growing up expecting girls to look and act like the women in porn.
·I need feminism because we’re not allowed to wear belly/strappy tops at school because “distracts male students.”
· I need feminism because society tells men they don’t have to be the ones raising children so my dad got to opt out.
· I need feminism because when men bring up their children on their own its seen as heroic but single mums are looked down upon.
· I need feminism because patriarchy isn’t going to fuck itself.
Shalom.
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This is one of my favorite hymns!
“‘Tis So Sweet to Trust in Jesus” by Louisa M. R. Stead | The United Methodist Hymnal, No. 462
“Tis so sweet to trust in Jesus, and to take him at his word; just to rest upon his promise, and to know, "Thus saith the Lord.” Jesus, Jesus, how I trust him! How I’ve proved him o'er and o'er! Jesus, Jesus, precious Jesus! O for grace to trust him more!“
From her childhood, the call to missionary service was the guiding motivation for Louisa M. R. Stead (c. 1850-1917). Born in Dover, England, and converted at the age of nine, Stead came to the United States in 1871, living in Cincinnati. She attended a camp meeting in Urbana, Ohio, where she dedicated her life to missionary service. Ill health prevented her from serving initially. She married in 1875, and the couple had a daughter, Lily. Hymnologist Kenneth Osbeck describes a major turning point in the family’s life:
“When the child was four years of age, the family decided one day to enjoy the sunny beach at Long Island Sound, New York. While eating their picnic lunch, they suddenly heard cries of help and spotted a drowning boy in the sea. Mr. Stead charged into the water. As often happens, however, the struggling boy pulled his rescuer under water with him, and both drowned before the terrified eyes of wife and daughter. Out of her ‘why?’ struggle with God during the ensuing days glowed these meaningful words from the soul of Louisa Stead.”
The hymn, “’Tis so sweet to trust in Jesus” was inspired by this personal tragedy.
Soon after, Lousia and Lily left for the Cape Colony, South Africa, where Louisa worked as a missionary for fifteen years. She married Robert Wodehouse, a native of South Africa. Because of her health, the family found it necessary to return to the United States in 1895. Wodehouse pastored a Methodist congregation during these years until, in 1900, they returned to the mission field, this time to the Methodist mission station at Umtali, Southern Rhodesia (present day Zimbabwe).
Kenneth Osbeck records a message sent back to the United States shortly after her arrival in Southern Rhodesia: “In connection with the whole mission there are glorious possibilities, but one cannot, in the face of the peculiar difficulties, help but say, ‘Who is sufficient for these things?’ But with simple confidence and trust we may and do say, ‘Our sufficiency is of God.’”
Her daughter Lily married after their return to Africa. Louisa retired because of ill health in 1911. Lily continued to serve for many years in South Rhodesia. Her mother passed away after a long illness in 1917 at her home in Penkridge near the Mutambara Mission, fifty miles from Umtali. Following her death, it was recorded that Christians in South Rhodesia continued to sing her hymn in the local Shona language.
While the exact date of the composition is not known, sometime between 1880-1882, Lousia Stead’s hymn was first published in Songs of Triumph (1882). The Rev. Carlton R., Young, editor of The United Methodist Hymnal, describes the hymn’s content as “a series of loosely connected key evangelical words and phrases.” Indeed, the hymn is full of the language of piety common to the day in evangelical circles. Furthermore, the succession of stanzas lacks the usual progression of ideas leading to heaven that characterizes most gospel hymns.
Perhaps the hymn might be best described as a mantra on the name of Jesus. Indeed, “Jesus” is sung twenty-five times if one sings all four stanzas and the refrain. Stanza one is a simple statement of “trust in Jesus.” The singer is invited to “rest upon his promise.” Though the “promise” is not specifically articulated, it is assumed that all know that this is the promise of salvation. The stanza ends with “Thus saith the Lord” – a phrase, interestingly enough, that appears 413 times in the Old Testament in the King James Version, and is a reference to God rather than Jesus.
Stanza two continues the theme of trust, drawing upon the “cleansing blood” of Jesus. The poet demonstrates her trust as she “plung[es] … neath the healing, cleansing flood,” a possible reference to the William Cowper (1731-1800) hymn, “There is a fountain filled with blood”: “… and sinners plunge beneath that flood lose all their guilty stains.” The typology of the cleansing flood may find its biblical roots in Genesis 6-7, the account of Noah and the great flood, or perhaps the blood and water that flowed from the crucified Christ’s side (John 19:34), or even a conflation of these ideas. Cowper’s hymn was probably well known to Stead, and she referenced it in her hymn.
Stanza three stresses that one should die to “sin and self” by “simply taking life and rest, and joy and peace” in Jesus. Stanza four is a personal witness by the author that she is “so glad I learned to trust thee.” The final stanza concludes with a fleeting eschatological reference, “thou art with me, wilt be with me to the end.” Though this reference to heaven is not as pronounced as one would often find in similar gospel hymns of this era, especially in Fanny Crosby. Referencing heaven in some way is virtually obligatory in this theological context.
The refrain establishes the Jesus mantra, singing his name five times, the last strengthened by adding the qualifying, “precious Jesus.” Though the singer has “proved him o’er and o’er,” the prayer is for “grace to trust him more.”
C. Michael Hawn is University Distinguished Professor of Church Music, Perkins School of Theology, SMU.
Attribution: Photo (The old red books or red worship songbooks in church) courtesy of Wirestock at: https://www.freepik.com/ijeab
Those who bring sunshine to the lives of others cannot keep it from themselves.
J.M. Barrie (via wordsnquotes)
Yassss. Be a Blessing, and Be Blessed Too.
Thank you High King. I need it.
God is saying to you today.. You have My favor.
I don’t tend to see Christians talk about this much, or in a very nuanced way, and I think it’s worth talking about. and that is that suppression and surrender are two different things.
suppression is the refusal to acknowledge feelings you’d rather not feel. it’s stuffing them down out of shame or guilt, or the belief that you’re not “supposed” to feel them, in favour of pretending that you don’t experience them at all. suppressing anger, for example, leads to long-term bitterness, grudges, and burn-out from pretending you’re a happy peppy optimistic Christian all the dang time. it is deeply unhealthy.
surrender is the active, honest acknowledgment of your feelings, desires, and temptations, without attaching undue shame to them, and then bringing them to the feet of Jesus and choosing to live by His Word anyway. it is not a dismissal of feelings but the very act of bringing them to light so He may show you what to do about them.
surrendering to God’s way does not mean shoving feelings of anger or bitterness or anxiety into a dark crevice, or acting like you can brush off years of pain in a moment.
surrender is telling God you are hurt, letting yourself feel the pain of being wronged so that your pain may be healed by Christ’s tenderness and love.
surrender is telling Him you are anxious, you are desperately frightened, and letting Him be present in your trembling, letting Him be peace and steadiness and unconditional love while you breathe and count and grounding-technique through the wave of panic.
surrender is allowing yourself to say you did not deserve the abuse, you will not stand for abuse, you will not return to your abusers, and working day by day to forgive your abusers and pray for them anyway.
surrender is telling Jesus you are sorely tempted- to cheat on the exam, to cheat on your partner, to objectify your cute coworker, to talk shit about your boss- and allowing Him to lead you away from acting on it and into doing the right thing anyway.
surrender is the exact opposite of suppression.
I so often see this message online, explicitly and implicitly, that whatever you’re feeling is valid– and it is!– but then it just… stops there. if you’re angry, good, stay angry. you shouldn’t have to forgive anyone. you shouldn’t have to treat people with dignity if you don’t like them. nobody has the right to tell you to act in a way that doesn’t completely indulge your feelings. treat yourself. you do you.
I disagree. indulgence may seem like the right fix because it’s surely the polar opposite of suppression. but being a slave to your thoughts and emotions is no better than being a slave to shame. it is good to express anger. it is also good to place limits on your anger so you express it in healthy ways. it is okay to have a mental illness. it is also important to not let that illness define your very being, to remember you are more, to fight for recovery. it is completely normal to be tempted in a thousand ways. it is important to resist temptation and seek to do the right thing, and run to the grace and overwhelming love of God when you don’t.
true freedom in Christ comes when you are open with Him about all you are, and willing to let Him lead you through the maze. true freedom makes room for limits and boundaries, ones that will help you grow and flourish.
Happy Easter holidays....
May you All find Solemn Peace...
(amid the blue bells maybe)
Bluebells by DEF 357
GOOD THINGS ARE COMING!
🍂🍃 Time And Seasons, are God's.
in case you needed to hear this today:
🌷 it will get better, even though it feels like u will feel this way forever.
🌼 there are people who found you beautiful or radiant and you never knew it.
🌻 you have survived all your worst days.
💛 bad days are always temporary.
🌹you’re not behind. trust the timing of your life.
🌱 you are growing through this.
🌻 right now, you’re exactly where you are meant to be.
⛅️ every day is a new chance to start again.
🌸 it’s never too late to change, it’s not a race.
🌼 take things one day at a time. you will get there.
Everything God Created was Wonderfully Beautiful..Happy Sunday anyone who sees this.. :-P
photos by marina cano (previously featured) of a mother elephant using her trunk to rescue her one month old calf who, after taking a drink from a watering hole, became stuck in the mud and was unable to climb out.
the bond between a baby elephant and its mother has been described as the closest of any animal on earth. much like a human, a baby elephant is utterly dependent on its mother for the first two of three years of its life.
if the baby is female, she will typically remain together with her mother right into her own adulthood, and will likely never once be separate from her until the mother dies in old age. male elephants remain with their mothers until the age of sixteen (just about the age humans are ready to take off too).
(see also: elephants mourn the dead and other posts on elephant “humanity”)