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I hate writing cover letters. Itâs unbearable
bible verses to calm the anxious heart:
Isaiah 41:10 New Living Translation (NLT)
10 Donât be afraid, for I am with you. Â Â Donât be discouraged, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you. Â Â I will hold you up with my victorious right hand.
Philippians 4:6-7 New Living Translation (NLT)
6 Donât worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. 7 Then you will experience Godâs peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus.
John 14:27 New Living Translation (NLT)
27 âI am leaving you with a giftâpeace of mind and heart. And the peace I give is a gift the world cannot give. So donât be troubled or afraid.
Psalm 94:19 New Living Translation (NLT)
19 When doubts filled my mind, Â Â your comfort gave me renewed hope and cheer.
Joshua 1:9 New Living Translation (NLT)
9 This is my commandâbe strong and courageous! Do not be afraid or discouraged. For the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.â
1 Peter 5:6-7 New Living Translation (NLT)
6 So humble yourselves under the mighty power of God, and at the right time he will lift you up in honor. 7 Give all your worries and cares to God, for he cares about you.
Psalm 118:6-7 New Living Translation (NLT)
6 The Lord is for me, so I will have no fear. Â Â What can mere people do to me? 7 Yes, the Lord is for me; he will help me. Â Â I will look in triumph at those who hate me.
AMEN!đđ
I pray the person I end up with never loses their patience and gentleness with me.
''My Great Hope in Life is to Laugh as Much as I Cry.. to get My Work Done. to Try and Love Somebody,.And Have the Courage to Accept A Love Such as that in Return.'' -Maya Angelou.
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You lost her. And now she lights up the night-time sky for her new lover cause he recognized her as the moon. And you envy him. She couldâve been your moon, but you were too busy chasing the dimly lit stars.
(via buddhabrot)
I donât want to make this mistake with her. Never want to lose her.
(via brklynbreed)
YOU never Miss the Water.....
Love Black Women
Hereâs a little list of cute or silly words that you might have never heard before and would probably have some trouble to pronounce!
Ratiboiser, v : swindling someone (fam), buzzing oneâs hair
Confiscation, n.f. : confiscation
Ineptie, n.f. : nonsense (posh)
Mirobolant-e, adj : fantastic
Saperlipopette : golly (old)
Hurluberlu, n.m. : crank, weirdo
PĂŠcho, v : hooking up (fam), ex: Je lâai pĂŠcho mardi dernier! I hooked up with him/her last tuesday! NB : a) sg only, A pĂŠcho B, they donât pĂŠcho eachother ; + b) unvariableÂ
Balivernes!, n/e.f. : nonsense (old)
GoĂťtu-e, adj : tasty (posh)
Coi-te, a : stunned (rare) - pronounced Quoi
Ăbaubi-e, adj : flabbergasted
Tohu-bohu, n.m. : confusion, commotion
Balourd-e, n : clumsy, rough (fam; annoyed)
DĂŠgoter, v : getting, finding (fam)
Se coltiner, v : getting stuck with, ex: And now I have to me coltiner my little sister tonight because my parents decided to go to the cinema!
Tout azimut, e/a : everywhere, all around
Prendre la poudre dâescampette : running away
Subodorer, v : detecting, sensing
Concupiscent-e, adj : lecherous
Zinzin, a : weird, loony (nice loony, not joker loony)
Procrastiner, v : procrastine
Flagornerie, n.f. : toadying, butt-kissing
Et rebelote : same thing again, one more time
Bavarder, v : chatting
Chouette! : nice! great!
Brindille, n.f. : twig
Mille-pattes, n.m. : centipede (âone thousand legsâ)
Pouf, n.m. : ottoman seat
Vachement, adv : a lot (âcowlyâ)(fam)Â your car is vachement fast!
Chou, adj : cute (âcabbageâ, donât ask)
Peton, n.m. : foot (kiddish)
Minou, n.m. : kitty, puss (kiddish)
Nounours, n.m. : teddy bear (ours : bear)
Confiture, n.f. : jam
Margoulin, n.m. : swindler, incompetent
Moufle, n.f. : mitten
Coquecigrue, n.f. : absurdity (Pigwidgeonâs french name)
Pâtisserie, n.f. : pastry
Tapisserie, n.f. : wallpaper, tapestry
Everything God Created was Wonderfully Beautiful..Happy Sunday anyone who sees this.. :-P
photos by marina cano (previously featured) of a mother elephant using her trunk to rescue her one month old calf who, after taking a drink from a watering hole, became stuck in the mud and was unable to climb out.Â
the bond between a baby elephant and its mother has been described as the closest of any animal on earth. much like a human, a baby elephant is utterly dependent on its mother for the first two of three years of its life.
if the baby is female, she will typically remain together with her mother right into her own adulthood, and will likely never once be separate from her until the mother dies in old age. male elephants remain with their mothers until the age of sixteen (just about the age humans are ready to take off too).
(see also: elephants mourn the dead and other posts on elephant âhumanityâ)
- Take Me To Church- Are you religious?
- Work Song- Is there anyone youâd sing a love song to, romantic or platonic?
- Someone New- Do you fall in love easily?
- Almost- Do you ever dance alone to music?
- Cherry Wine- Do you have a sweet tooth?
- Nina Cried Power- Do you participate in any activist movements?
- From Eden- Do you think theres âsomething tragic about thisâ life?
- Movement- Do you perform in any way?
- Angel Of Small Death and The Codeine Scene- Any addictions?
- Like Real People Do- Have you kissed people?
- Jackie and Wilson- Do you want kids?
- Shrike- Whatâs your favorite bird?
- Dinner and Diatribes- Whatâs your favorite food?
- Momentâs Silence- What do you find beautiful about the situation youâre in now?
- Would That I- Is there anything you wish you could change about the past?
- NFWMB- Is there anything you would protect with your life?
- To Be Alone- Do you prefer other peopleâs company or your own?
- Arsonistâs Lullabye- Do you ever feel lost?
- No Plan- Do you believe in a pre-determined purpose in life?
- Sedated- What time do you go to sleep?
- As it Was- Do you go to many parks and natural places?
- In A Week- How do you want to die?
- Be- Have you changed much as a person in the last year?
- In the Woods Somewhere- Have you ever had a supernatural experience?
- My Love Will Never Die- Are you dating anyone?
- It Will Come Back- Do you like to write?
- To Noise Making- Do you like to sing?
- Talk- Whatâs your best friend like?
- Nobody- Who in your life is important to you?
- Foreignerâs God- Do you ever talk to yourself or something above?
- Sunlight- Do you prefer sunny or rainy weather, or somewhere in between?
Thanks for playing!
This post and any other later posts labeled as tips sheet come from a college website I found while searching around about jobs. Iâm bringing it to you all to save you the hassle. Enjoy!
How you conduct yourself and treat others in a business or dining setting speaks strongly of who you are as a professional. Research worldwide tips and strategies before traveling as different cultures have different protocols.
General Tips
Use titles (Mr. Ms. Dr.), not first names until instructed to do so. Â
Be on time or 5-15 minutes early. Earlier than that can be awkward and invasive. Â
Prepare for meeting, developing an agenda if you are leading. Â
Do not interrupt meeting agendas, but in a timely manner, be confident in concisely sharing on-topic ideas/opinions.
Do not get intoxicated at work functions. Â
Do not use profanity or tell off-colored jokes.
Do not engage in office gossip. Â
Bring a positive attitude and leave personal drama at home.Â
Do not air work-related frustrations via social media (e.g. These people make me sick. #ISITFRIDAYYET)Â Â
How to Approach a Group
Present yourself with confidence.
Smile and extend dominant hand.
State your name (and company).
Know how to introduce yourself (and company) in 15 to 30 seconds.
Avoid âclosedâ triads: two people facing shoulder to shoulder are likely having a private conversation. Â
Do not fold your arms or put them in your pockets.
Greetings
Hi, Hey, Yo, Whatâs up?, Whatâs going on? are not appropriate.
Hello is appropriate.
Introducing Yourself
It is your duty to introduce yourself.
Look people in the eyes and smile in order to seem confident and approachable.
Name tags should be placed high on right shoulder.
When should you introduce yourself?
When you realize someone does not recognize you.
When attending a business or social gathering.
When seated next to someone.
When person introducing you forgets your name.
When it is a friend of a friend whom you are talking to.
Introducing Others
Use proper titles when introducing others.
Omit titles when introducing people of same rank and position.
Never introduce a co-worker/superior by first name.
Introduce person lowest on the totem pole to the one highest.
The name of the person of greater authority is spoken first.
This means you look at the most âimportant personâ and say, âMs. Important, I would like to introduce you to Mr. Student, an intern in our IT department. Mr. Student, this is Mr. Important, the director of technical marketing.â
When dealing with people outside the company, clients are more important than company employees, and hiring managers are more important than job seekers.
If you are seated while being introduced, stand to shake hands.
Have a firm handshake, but avoid death grips.
Tell something about the person whom you introduce.
During the Conservation
Learn how to make small talk.
Be current on domestic and international events. If youâre not and the topic is brought up, say something along the lines of âIâm not familiar with the topic but I would enjoy learning more about it.â
Know what events impact your company or clientâs.
Ask questions that focus on other person, not you.
Do not interrupt and/or finish peopleâs sentences.
Avoid conversations about health or diet habits, cost of things, personal life, gossip, off-color jokes and controversial issues.
Donât gaze around room in a conversationâitâs rude and makes other person feel insignificant.
Do not touch others unless you know them well.
Ending a Conversation
Do not just walk away if you see someone more interestingâ ALWAYS make a closing statement before moving on:Â Â
âPlease excuse me. It was nice talking with you.â
âIt was really a pleasure to meet you. I look forward to seeing you again soon.â
âI enjoyed talking with you. I hope to see you soon.â
Summarize, âOh, it looks like you have a fascinating job and I wish you good luck on your project.â
If graceful disengagement doesnât work, be more direct: âI see it is really getting late and I really must go,â then back up physically. As a last result, say a parting statement while you are shaking hands and saying good-bye.
Business Cards
Always have enough and carry in a case.
Should not be wrinkled, written on, outdated or dirty.
Present the card with the print facing the recipient.
Your name should be the largest print on the card.
Donât write on business cards in front of others.
Donât exchange business cards while dining.
Never pass them out like you are dealing cards.
It is polite to comment on card before putting it away rather than immediately stashing it in a pocket without looking at it
If someone offers you their business card, offer yours in return
Before offering your business card, first say, âMay I give you my card?â
Do not force your card on anyone or offer it too early in a conversation
Let senior executives ask for your card. Do not offer it to them.
Meetings/Networking EventsÂ
 It is polite to offer to pay if asked to a lunch/dinner meeting. However, whoever extends the invitation typically pays.Â
Know why you are attending and who you want to meet.Â
Bring business cards; Remember you represent your company.Â
Do not carry a bag or notebook that fills your hands.Â
Step to the right when you enter room, pausing to first observe.
Greet hosts first, if possible but do not monopolize their time.Â
Introduce yourself to others, not just talking to people you know.
 Do not immediately head for the bar or food; donât go hungry.
 Avoid foods that are messy or canât be eaten in one bite.Â
Hold food or drink in left hand to leave right hand open.Â
Write a thank-you note within 24 hours.Â
Work Relationships:Â
Co-workers
Cooperate and develop a relationship of mutual support.
Focus on positive qualities and potential of co-workers (strengths, not weaknesses).Â
Be friendly, but do not join a clique.
Spend time observing how people act, who performs well and who takes a positive view toward the job and organization.Â
Beware of the gripers and avoid office gossip.Â
Do not talk about co-workers behind their backs.Â
Voice concerns, challenges and accomplishments.
 Remember that a peer may someday be your boss or you his.Â
 Be nice, polite and friendly to everyone, including individuals who work outside of your department.Â
Observe organizationâs gift giving policy and be discreet when exchanging gifts if only exchanging with a few coworkers. Work Relationships:Â
SupervisorsÂ
 Approach tasks with a willing attitude.Â
Enthusiastically complete âgruntâ assignments.Â
Demonstrate poise and maturity in everything you do.Â
Ensure quality work is completed on-time.Â
Supervisors are your ally, not your enemy.Â
Supervisors train and develop; they arenât best friends.
 Do not ask supervisor for personal and financial advice.Â
 Cell PhonesÂ
 Turn your phone off during meetings.Â
Invest in a watch so you donât check phone for time.
 Avoid answering in restaurants. If expecting important call, let those you are dining with know, and leave table to answer.Â
In public, be aware of voice volume and move at least two arm lengths away from those around you (or out of the room).Â
The people you are with should take precedence over calls.Â
If you expect a call that canât be postponed, alert your companions ahead of time.
Public phone conversations are not private.Â
Email EtiquetteÂ
 Craft a compelling subject line.Â
Treat email like a business letter; always be professional.Â
Keep it short and simple.Â
Use proper spelling, grammar and punctuation.Â
Never send an email when youâre angry.
 Email is NOT confidential and can be forwarded.Â
Read it and check your spelling before sending it.Â
Confirm attachment you intended to attach is attached.
 Answer an email within 24 hours.Â
 General Dining EtiquetteÂ
Do not order foods that are eaten with your hands.
 Pass food from left to right (counterclockwise).Â
If asked for the salt or pepper, pass both.Â
 Never season food before tasting it.Â
 Food is served from the left, dishes removed from the right.Â
Butters, spreads or dips should be transferred to your serving dish before spreading or eating.Â
Do not ask for a âto-go boxâ unless it is an informal situation. Â
For hard to scoop items, use bread, not your finger, to push items onto fork. Â
If hot food is burning mouth, discretely drink something cool.
 Napkins belong in your lap.Â
If you leave table, loosely fold your napkin (do NOT refold your napkin or wad it up) and place it beside your dinner plate.Â
Meeting materials or briefcases should be left under your chair until it is time to discuss business. Â
Do not ask to taste or offer to let others taste your food.Â
Do not blow nose at the table. Politely excuse yourself.Â
Casual Dining ExceptionsÂ
 You may order foods that are eaten with your hands.Â
 When sharing chips and salsa, you donât have to transfer salsa to your plate, but do not double dip. Â
Leaving a TipÂ
 Fifteen to 20 percent of the bill total is customary, but for exemplary service, a greater percentage is accepted.Â
For poor service, ask to speak to the manager; still tip.Â
Place Setting TipsÂ
 General rule: use silverware from outside in as meal progresses.Â
When finished, do not push plate away. Instead place fork and knife across the center of the plate, handles to the right.
Between bites, your fork and knife are placed on the plate, handles to the right, not touching the table.Â
1. Napkin
2. Salad Fork
3. Dinner fork
4. Dessert Utensil
5. Dinner Plate
6. Dinner Knife
7. Teaspoon
8. Bread Plate
9. Bitter Knife
10. Water glass
11. Wine Glass
Become The Player & NOT the Spectator of Your Life
Don't waste your life being a passive watcher of things that you could be doing yourself! In life you must learn to be resourceful and build a drive force that can allow you to be involved in the field rather than to be an observant from afar. Get out of the stands and back on the field, be a part of the game, where the action is, where you get to hit, to score, to win.
⢠Average people use the tools they have at hand as a form of excapism from their reality, great people utilize the tools they have at hand in a resourceful manner to improve their quality of life.
⢠Average people use social media as a form of distraction, great people use it for business purposes.
⢠Average people become complacent with the routines and people/places they have grown accustomed to because they fear change, great people embrace change and allow themselves to get out of their comfort zones to constantly try new things.
⢠Average people are followers of the crowds, trends, other people's behaviour, lack the capacity to think for themselves. Great people are leaders, trend setters who don't rely on the approval of others to feel secure in themselves and do what's best for them.
⢠Average people seek comfort, even if that same comfort keeps them stagnated in the same mediocre place, great people learn to thrive in their discomfort because they know that growth can only occur when one pushes oneself our of the boundaries of what we have previously been accustomed to.
⢠Average people are ok with doing the bare minimum to get by, great people are allergic to mediocrity, complacency and the possibility of succumbing to reaching their maximum potential, they give their best to whatever it is the do or they simply don't do it at all!
⢠Great people have and seek for vitality, average people numb themselves down with cheap entertainment, fast/unhealthy foods, unhealthy comfort habits and a lack of vision for themselves and their lives.
Do you want to be an spectator or a player in your own life, to be average and mediocre or an over achiever and successful person? The choice and the power to choose that is yours.