on the one hand i dread pride month. on the other hand, i suspect the events of this june will contain some godhonest protests from the LGB. There are so many groups that have appeared since I joined this fight in 2021 who are fighting for us, who are willing to march and pay for our visibility against big brands, big pharma, youth culture, and respective governments. the tide is turning. The pendulum is swinging. We can make pride matter this year.
I love opening up this website first thing like the morning paper and immediately seeing multiple posts like "how to get rid of the evil clown on the dashboard". like oh is this what we're doing today
these are the capybaras of trans exclusionary indoctrination. reblog at ur own risk
if you’re going to make these assumptions that non-asexual people are “sex-happy,” have sex frequently or at all, have uncomplicated relationships to sex, are sexually attracted to strangers or other people they don’t have a strong bond with, etc., then you have to accept that there are TONS of people who fit your definition of asexual who are not part of any identifiable asexual community, who may not ever identify as asexual, who do not necessarily agree with any theories, politics, or systems of identification developed by asexual communities, but whose feelings and ways of relating to sexuality are just as valid as yours, and you have no way of knowing who they are. and when you assume that someone must not be one of these people, must embody every expectation you have about non-asexual people, solely because they do not identify as asexual, you are making very invasive and inappropriate assumptions about another person’s personal, private sexual feelings and that is not okay. and in particular when you do this to lgbt people, women, people of color, and especially people at the intersections of those groups, you are reinforcing ideas about their relationships to sexuality that play a significant role in their oppression.
Just thinking about the recent Her app homophobic meltdown and that poll that was going around showing that most radblr lesbians are single... It might actually be time to build something like the radblr dating service that was joked about in the comments of that poll. Like its funny as a joke, but the more this goes on the more it feels genuinely needed. Even just adding a “open to ___” (flirting dating etc) role on some of these existing discords could work. Like we can’t just openly post thirst traps to each other on tumblr without fear of doxxing. But yeah, Im just worried that most of us have become kinda apathetic about the State of Things and don’t wanna try. Maybe a good chunk of it is just being comfortable alone? I don’t even know if I would use such a thing but I think it might need to exist
Apollonia Saintclair
Full Moon Fever
Watching women fight in MMA is always slightly ridiculous when you know any average male fighter would wipe the floor with them in seconds.
To give the least insane argument against this, Ambiance nice. Sometimes you can legitimately love the sensations of silk on your skin and soft flickering natural light while reading. Now the line for me would be how comfortable you actually are. The second you are wearing pore clogging gloop on your face or a weird ass ‘sexy’ pose, yeah thats just for the image. but yes I would much rather enjoy a wonderful meal in a fancy candlelit restaurant than inside a waffle house. Even if it was the same exact meal.
I feel like "romanticize your life" actually means "perform for an imaginary voyeur." Men don't do this shit.
Lovely, I spent at least an hour bathing in the moonlight. But my boyfriend accidentally drank most of my moon water this morning while i was sleeping.
How was your Pink Moon last night witches?