The fact that some of you can call a Jew a Nazi with a full voice and zero irony is utterly depraved. Not only do you clearly know nothing about Nazis, but you have fully lost the plot. Frankly, if you are that far gone, I'm not sure you're even capable of finding it again.
The only thing holding me back from the edge these days is knowing the butch experience of adopting a trans identity is actually almost universal and not as isolating and soul crushing as it feels right now. Every day I wonder if the world will ever accept me as a woman again when I look and sound the way I do. Every day I’m recovering from the confusion and self hatred that prioritizing how others perceive my gender caused. When I think about the shitty reality of how much damage my trans identity did to my body and self image, I have to remind myself that I’m not alone. All around the world, there are other butches like me suffering silently. Some are quietly detransitioning, others are stuck with that trans identity, holding the regret at bay and pretending like its all ok. Acknowledging them and feeling compassion for them is what allows me to have compassion for myself. I have hope for myself because I have hope for all of us.
We all went through adolescence envying boys because of our crushes on straight girls, we all rejected patriarchal beauty standards, we all struggled with the rise of social media, and we all mistook puberty, mental illness, sexual trauma, and internalized lesbophobia for gender dysphoria. We walked the same path right into that doctors office asking for testosterone. Right now its hard to see this first wave of detransitioners speaking out get bullied. But I have hope that in 5 more years, this generation of young butch women will be bonding over the hair loss, the surgery regret, the deep voice, the body dysmorphia, the sexual dysfunction, and the isolation of being a medically masculinized female in today’s world. We wont care that we can’t go back in time anymore, because we’ll know we aren’t alone. The worries of our youth will be left behind, and together we’ll be able to close that chapter and go on living with purpose again.
honestly I don’t understand how people don’t see drag as offensive. like you guys know blackface is bad, yet drag queens are completely fine and encouraged? makes no sense
The only way to get rid of all the spam in the radical feminist hashtags is to report and block them. Tumblr support has been contacted by both me and many others and they have no ETA of when or how they will get rid and prevent them. Blocking them will eliminate them from showing in your home feed and and the hashtag itself. I am updating regularly.
"I'm pretty with makeup"
"I'm pretty without makeup"
Radical feminism: "It doesn't matter if you're pretty at all. You don't exist to be pretty."
"Female body hair is okay"
"Female body hair is not okay"
Radical Feminism: "Female body hair simply exists and is completely neutral. Talking about whether its 'okay' doesn't even make sense."
"Presenting THIS way makes you a man"
"Presenting THIS way makes you a woman"
Radical feminism: "Nothing about the way you present makes you a man or woman. Gender isn't real."
I love that radical feminism just removes you from so many binaries of thought. It makes them completely nonsensical. Why would I analyze whether I'm pretty when it doesn't matter either way? Why is the acceptability of my body hair even a subject of discussion? It merely exists, just like the bark on a tree. Does society sit around and debate whether a tree ought to be able to keep its bark?
I've come to realize that I've been handed a ton of "either/or" choices about who I am all my life and told to make a decision on each one. And they were all illusions! I just exist. I never had to justify the way I am or even formulate an opinion on it.
"I wish I wasn't that way" honey you're a lesbian and you have absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. You're surrounded by conversion therapy rhetoric and it's wrong. You aren't having a "genital preference" - you like women. The entire female form. You're a female homosexual. It's okay to be a lesbian.
There is nothing wrong with you. You shouldn't have to hide in order to pacify a mans ego.
Why don't "femboys" ever wanna dress like normal cute girls. Why don't they ever wanna wear Lululemon or whatever. Or H&M. Why do they only want to dress like absolute dogshit. Like the goofiest fucking anime girl caricature.
homosexual man: when i came out as gay, my loving parents suddenly became extremely abusive and distant. i was sent off to a conversion therapy camp when i was a teen and the trauma that i endured still effects me today.
lesbian woman: when i came out, the youth leader believed he could 'fix' me by systematically raping me. i ran away and was forced to engage in sex work because i had no other way to make money.
bisexual person: when i came out, i was considered to be perverted, and promiscuous. i was cut off from my family and i was no longer able to access their help. i was kicked out and have been struggling with being unhoused
straight demisexual person: i didn't feel the spark on the first date, neither did i want to have sex on the second! i'm special and oppressed!!!!!!!!!!!
put this man in jail
Call me Lark! Detrans lesbian w/ a DSD (chimerism), and 21 years old. Gender-critical. Diagnosed OCD and Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Wildlife enjoyer and proud masc lesbian.
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