this is from some awful TRA ‘guide’ on how to spot terfs and why terfs are bad
there’s many things wrong with this whole ‘guide’, but one thing i found so stupid is them saying calling yourself an “adult human female” is a dog whistle or a sign of bigotry or whatever
because “adult human female” is…quite literally the definition of woman. like in almost every dictionary that is the exact definition of woman. calling yourself a woman is a bigoted terf dog whistle that is deserving of condemnation, apparently 🫠
A lot of people on Tik Tok have migrated over to the Chinese app RedNote, and the Chinese users are so fucking funny about it. I saw one comment that was like "Welcome, I was the Chinese citizen assigned to spy on your data, I missed you"
Gender non conforming kids do not need fixed. Not by conservatives telling them they should fit the gender role society attached to their sex. And not by liberals telling them they need to go on puberty blockers so they can transition to the other gender/sex. Literally just leave them alone
Conservatives having a normal one
It’s suffocating, how gender ideology has made me feel like it’s not safe to be openly lesbian.
Lesbians in gender ideology are put under the microscope. It feels like as soon as they find out a woman is a lesbian, anything she says can be grounds for the feared “TERF” accusations. Because to gender ideologues, lesbianism is inherently “terfy” because it is inherently male-exclusionary. Lesbians are automatically looked at with suspicion that we might be “terfs”, and it’s on us to break our backs proving otherwise.
I feel like if I’m talking to somebody who I know believes in gender ideology, I can’t mention I’m gay even if it’s relevant. Because I know that’s enough to alert them to keep me under close watch.
It’s frustrating, because they claim to be allies to gay people—sometimes they even claim to be gay themselves. But when confronted with true homosexuality, they see it as a threat, and they make sure we know that.
And I’m sure this is why so many lesbians seem to end up leaving gender ideology behind. Because it gets exhausting feeling like you either need to stay closeted, or constantly prove yourself to not be like those “cis” lesbians. And no proof will ever be enough, because your sexuality itself is enough for them to hate you.
Ya know how we have symbols for autism and ADHD (infinity symbol and butterfly) I haven't seen one for NPD and I think it should be daffodils (you probably know why)
Can’t have shit without TiMs whining abt ‘transmisogyny’.
God, would be nice if that actually fucking existed, wouldn’t it?
oh to live in an all female community
"you can't find me annoying or the conservatives win!" is an opinion a disturbing number of people have
honestly I don’t understand how people don’t see drag as offensive. like you guys know blackface is bad, yet drag queens are completely fine and encouraged? makes no sense
Call me Lark! Detrans lesbian w/ a DSD (chimerism), and 21 years old. Gender-critical. Diagnosed OCD and Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Wildlife enjoyer and proud masc lesbian.
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