It's Really Perfect

TW! SELF HARM, DEPRESSION, BULLYING

So, I have to write that. Y'all know Wattpad, right? And maybe yall know these books 'Types of people I hate'. And then there are a few types of people. So, I read one of these and I wanna punch the person who wrote that in the face. Really. Please hear me out.

1. That one chapter was like 'People who make a club against bullying online'. Okay, some people like it and find it helpful, you don't like it. Okay. But then that person wrote something like 'If someone bullys you, they have a reason. Just like they bully you because they don't like your hairstyle. And then you go home, say to your mom that you want a new hairstyle and you get it. Then you go to school and they don't bully you'. Okay, dude. First of all, No bully don't have a reason to bully you. And to bully someone for a new hairstyle isn't a reason. Second of all, why do you have to get a new hairstyle? It's your hair, why would you only get a new one bc of these idiots? And they won't stop bully you maybe? No. Just no.

2. Another chapter, called 'People who only cut the self because they ""just"" themself' Then that dude wrote 'There I think, do you really have nothing to do? I mean, there are people (not me *cough cough*) who have ten times more worse problems and don't cut them. Who cuts themself is just a coward and too scared to murder themself. So. (I'm a little bit sociopath now...) Sorry to the people who cut themself. But. Think about it. What is false with your life? Think about it' After I read that, I really wanted to punch that person. Really. Like, just because they ""just"" (why the fuck would you write it like that dude?) they hate them, their problems aren't valid? Okay, you have it worser, but every problem is valid. Every. Problem. If you cut yourself, you need help. And not because youre weird, but because you have a problem or problems. If anyone who reads that has a problem, may it be small, my dms are open. You are valid. And the sentence with the coward and too scared to murder themself... Dude, they are not a coward and too scared. They are fucking strong to life on earth with fucking people like you. I'm so angry now.

3. It's worse, but definitely not so worse like 2 and 1. It was a long text so I won't write it all, but basically that person wrote a chapter called 'Bitches'. Yeah, I also don't like bitches who think they are better than everyone and are Karen's. But. The examples that dude wrote are.... Yeah... 'They have Instagram but not Wattpad', 'They have beautiful eyes', 'washing every day their hair', 'Are scared of balls', 'They are perfect', 'Wear make-up', 'They don't read books'. Buddy, no. Just no. If they don't like reading (I personally love reading, but I know enough people who just don't like it), why would they have Wattpad? If someone has beautiful eyes they're also not a bitch, but yeah. I wash my hair every day because I simply forget to don't wash them, and I don't really see a problem to wash yourself. Wear make up.... Guess what, your favourite movie character also wears make up in the movie, and half of your favourite female actors (and male actors) also. I understand what the person wants to say, that some people are bitchig and just act better then everyone. But the examples are... Kinda stupid. How I said before, this isn't as bad as 1 or 2, which are completely dumb chapters.

But, the person has also good chapters in that book. The person spoke about how homophobic people and racists are assholes, which is good. These chapters are problematic and I really wanna hear your opinion about it. I didn't read the whole book, but maybe I'll do it later.

I wanna say, that you are important. Your problems are valid. A bully is stupid and they often don't have a reason to bully you. And if, you are enough and shouldn't change for these idiots. You are beautiful. Wear make up, a boy, a girl, a Non-binary, every humans looks with and without make up beautiful. Read books if you want, don't if you don't. You are enough. You are loved. Don't forget it. Please. Even if some idiots like that person above says something different. I love you all.

End note: The book was German and my English is not the best, so some things are roughly translated. Sorry for that.

literally if you’re new to tumblr: reblog shit

“it wont fit my aesthetic” make a sideblog. reblog to it.

“i hate tagging” don’t tag then. reblog it anyway.

“but my likes are public” ppl here dont fucking look at your likes. they dont do anything anyway. reblog it.

“you just want attention” jokes on you, I dont make shit anymore. I’m talking about other artists.

“it’s embarrassing” tumblr is an anonymous platform. make a sideblog if you’re too cowardly

“but on twitter its fine to have lurk accounts” well they suck ass here and are assumed to be bots. reblog.

Please I feel called out don't do that that's not nice

That “child with emotionally neglective parents” feel when you grew up having teachers, artists and just grown ups in general tell you you’re mature for your age, intelligent, gifted, talented, that they wish they were more like you; but all you’d ever hear at home is that you’re lazy, selfish, heartless, retarted etc. and growing up hearing such extremely different opinions about you - extremely positive opinions from strangers in contrast to harsh criticism from your parents - has severely impacted your sense of self esteem and you feel extremely ambiguous about yourself.

One minute, feeling like if so many different people have given you the same compliments then maybe you really are a smart, talented and good person, maybe it’s all true and you are actually going to have a good, comfortable, happy life; and the next, feeling hopeless, furious and disgusted at yourself and believing everything is gonna go wrong and you’re going to end up feeling miserable your whole life for absolutely no reason other than you just feel there’s something wrong with you even though you can’t tell what it is

BTS performing Yet to Come (ft. Anderson .Paak)

bestie i hope you heal from the things you don’t share with anyone

microdosing on self care by being on tumblr and seeing posts that romanticize every tiny aspect of my life

In my school we had one year cooking, but due to covid we didn't have it very much. It was a nice subject but the food was terrible and I never learned how to crack an egg 😃

so it was actually useless lol

i am not joking we need to force teach cooking in schools. like. it is an essential thing for survival. do you know how easy it is to make things if you know even the bare bones shit about how cooking works. we need to teach teenagers how far you can take an onion and some other veggies it’’s sad that people grow up not knowing how to prepare literally anything. and i’m not talking about oh this home ed class taught me how to make chicken nuggets at home i’m talking about learning the balancing of sweetness and acidity and saltiness and bitterness and shit like that and techniques and oil temperatures and how meats cook. it needs to be taught because it’s literally not even that difficult and it matters so much

Love without Sex

I’m doing a Philosophy paper on Asexuality. Please reblog if you think Love without Sex is possible! I really need the data. Like if you think love has to have sex.

That magical moment when Loki decides that this time he will make the first move. He is the one who close the distance.

I will never stop spamming that moment...the way he rushes in, the way he leans in, the way he completely wraps his arms around Mobius...he gives himself completely in that embrace. He literally hold him against his heart 🥺

They did it on purpose I swear

The parallels between Loki and Megamind