I Think It Needs To Become Common Knowledge That "inability To Read Social Cues" Can Show Up As Overcompensating.

I think it needs to become common knowledge that "inability to read social cues" can show up as overcompensating.

You don't know how much misbehaviour is allowed, so you become the perfect child who never tests rules.

You don't know if someone is irritated with you, so you'll be extra generous and self-effacing.

You don't know how much is expected of you at work so you'll kill yourself in a minimum-wage job and not notice that nobody else is working like this.

"Hardworking and quiet" should be as much of an autism red flag as "ignores rules and doesn't know when to stop talking". Or why don't we just start using words to communicate so i can stop tracking everybody's eyebrow twitches, that would be great.

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1 year ago

unfortunately, given its popularity and status as a cult classic, goncharov getting a souless corporate remake was bound to happen


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1 year ago

The EU is doing a big survey for LGBTQ people who live in the EU about how it is for them right now. That's the kind of survey that's used for official reports and for laws so it's super important that it has as many people taking it as possible. You can take it in every EU language. (You can change the language in the top right corner) Share it with your friends!

https://www.lgbtiqsurvey.eu/lgbtiq

1 year ago

"The best thing we can do with power is give it away" - On the leftist critique of superhero narratives as authoritarian power fantasies:

The ongoing "Jason Todd is a cop" debate has reminded me of a brilliant brief image essay by Joey deVilla. [EDIT: I SCREWED UP! This was created in 2019 by the guy who runs the Midnighter-Core page on Facebook, and Joey just reposted it!]

So here it is, images first and the full essay text below:

"The Best Thing We Can Do With Power Is Give It Away" - On The Leftist Critique Of Superhero Narratives
"The Best Thing We Can Do With Power Is Give It Away" - On The Leftist Critique Of Superhero Narratives
"The Best Thing We Can Do With Power Is Give It Away" - On The Leftist Critique Of Superhero Narratives
"The Best Thing We Can Do With Power Is Give It Away" - On The Leftist Critique Of Superhero Narratives
"The Best Thing We Can Do With Power Is Give It Away" - On The Leftist Critique Of Superhero Narratives
"The Best Thing We Can Do With Power Is Give It Away" - On The Leftist Critique Of Superhero Narratives
"The Best Thing We Can Do With Power Is Give It Away" - On The Leftist Critique Of Superhero Narratives
"The Best Thing We Can Do With Power Is Give It Away" - On The Leftist Critique Of Superhero Narratives
"The Best Thing We Can Do With Power Is Give It Away" - On The Leftist Critique Of Superhero Narratives
"The Best Thing We Can Do With Power Is Give It Away" - On The Leftist Critique Of Superhero Narratives
"The Best Thing We Can Do With Power Is Give It Away" - On The Leftist Critique Of Superhero Narratives
"The Best Thing We Can Do With Power Is Give It Away" - On The Leftist Critique Of Superhero Narratives

"A common leftist critique of superhero comics is that they are inherently anti-collectivist, being about small groups of individuals who hold all the power, and the wisdom to wield that power. I don’t disagree with this reading. I don’t think it’s inaccurate. Superheroes are their own ruling class, the concept of the übermensch writ large. But it’s a sterile reading. It examines superhero comics as a cold text, and ignores something that I believe is fundamental, especially to superhero storytelling: the way people engage with text. Not what it says, but how it is read. The average comic reader doesn’t fantasize about being a civilian in a world of superheroes, they fantasize about being a superhero. One could charitably chalk this up to a lust for power, except for one fact… The fantasy is almost always the act of helping people. Helping the vulnerable, with no reward promised in return. Being a century into the genre, we’ve seen countless subversions and deconstructions of the story. But at its core, the superhero myth is about using the gifts you’ve been given to enrich the people around you, never asking for payment, never advancing an ulterior motive. We should (and do) spend time nitpicking these fantasies, examining their unintended consequences, their hypocrisies. But it’s worth acknowledging that the most eduring childhood fantasy of the last hundred years hasn’t been to become rich. Superheroes come from every class (don’t let the MCU fool you). The most enduring fantasy is to become powerful enough to take the weak under your own wing. To give, without needing to take. So yes, the superhero myth, as a text, isn’t collectivist. But that’s not why we keep coming back to it. That’s not why children read it. We keep coming back to it to learn one simple lesson… The best thing we can do with power IS GIVE IT AWAY." - Joey deVilla, 2021 https://www.joeydevilla.com/2021/07/04/happy-independence-day-superhero-style/

- Midnighter-Core, 2019

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid0bU6TrKdX6QgMLnUFk64jResHMVwiSyENASvJk7efasgZ94G4c81XJCVgGcLFPgPsl&id=594855544368212&mibextid=Nif5oz


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1 year ago

Doctor: $140,000 a year

Furry artist on Patreon: $160,000 a year

1 year ago

I miss the days when, no matter how slow your internet was, if you paused any video and let it buffer long enough, you could watch it uninterrupted

1 year ago

We failed as a society when everyone stopped wearing headphones.

1 year ago

Short explanation of what the hell the Luffy tab on top of the dashboard is:

- For some reason the tumblr marketing team decided to make a deal with Netflix to promote the new live action One Piece movie with a site wide tab, instead of like... An ad.

- The Tab started with the name Luffy, the protagonist of the series. It has now changed to Zoro. There's not explanation given but I suspect it's in the order of the One Piece rap

- The tab seems to be very broken, only showing 5-7 posts that were posted months ago. The users who's art and posts have been included were not asked permission to be used in an ad campaign.

- The disclosing of this being an ad has also been suspect, with many only finding out through word of mouth rather than the tab telling it. I'm not a lawyer but I think that's at least skirting a crime.

- The popular reccomendation is to not engage with the tab, because it'll encourage tumblr to pull more stunts like this. Their sponsors will be delighted the more you click, no matter if its out of confusion or not.

This whole thing is a mess and I hate how marketing teams are trying to bypass adblockers by making alternative ads that get people talking. The act of me posting this is what they want and I'm enraged.... Still, uh, I want to spread the info we've gathered as a community. Let me know if you find more or something is incorrect.

Ps. dont attack one piece fans, they didn't know this was gonna happen either. Please dont leave weird comments to the posts in the tab, the OPs are not involved.


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1 year ago

served my duty as an autistic artist and made a bunch of autism creature reaction images

Served My Duty As An Autistic Artist And Made A Bunch Of Autism Creature Reaction Images
Served My Duty As An Autistic Artist And Made A Bunch Of Autism Creature Reaction Images
Served My Duty As An Autistic Artist And Made A Bunch Of Autism Creature Reaction Images
Served My Duty As An Autistic Artist And Made A Bunch Of Autism Creature Reaction Images
Served My Duty As An Autistic Artist And Made A Bunch Of Autism Creature Reaction Images
Served My Duty As An Autistic Artist And Made A Bunch Of Autism Creature Reaction Images
Served My Duty As An Autistic Artist And Made A Bunch Of Autism Creature Reaction Images
Served My Duty As An Autistic Artist And Made A Bunch Of Autism Creature Reaction Images
Served My Duty As An Autistic Artist And Made A Bunch Of Autism Creature Reaction Images
Served My Duty As An Autistic Artist And Made A Bunch Of Autism Creature Reaction Images
Served My Duty As An Autistic Artist And Made A Bunch Of Autism Creature Reaction Images
Served My Duty As An Autistic Artist And Made A Bunch Of Autism Creature Reaction Images

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1 year ago

When Everything Everywhere All at Once said “The only thing I do know is that we have to be kind. Please, be kind, especially when we don’t know what’s going on" 

When the Good Place said “Why choose to be good every day when there is no guaranteed reward now or in the afterlife… I argue that we choose to be good because of our bonds with other people and our innate desire to treat them with dignity. Simply put, we are not in this alone.” 

When Jean-Paul Sartre said ”‘Hell is other people’ is only one side of the coin. The other side, which no one seems to mention, is also ‘Heaven is each other’. Hell is separateness, uncommunicability, self-centeredness, lust for power, for riches, for fame. Heaven on the other hand is very simple, and very hard: caring about your fellow beings.“


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