Which pan flag is the right one please I don't want to mess it up
THIS is the real pansexual flag we've been using for years:
bright pink, yellow, and blue stripes. this is the actual one.
THIS however, is made by mspec lesbian exclusionists and purity culture obsessed twt users:
dont use this or any other "new" pan flag they try to fucking make. its not our flag. its never been our fucking flag. as a pansexual i fucking hate everyone who uses this or tries to get content creators to support this. fuck exclusionists.
I don’t know who this is, but he’s made my day.
I know that I'm a very small blog and therefore this will probably not reach many people, and even less those who need it the most, but I wanna say it anyway.
It's generally seen as a bad thing when someone "can't decide" what their orientation, be it sexual or romantic, is. Other people, both straight and members of the LGBTQA+ community, tend to label these people as "fake" and "attention seeking snowflakes". And it might be true that some of them are like that, and they are assholes for turning being LGBTQA+ into something... meaningless. But the majority of us, we just don't know the terminology, we're just finding it out as we grow and realising some terms fit us better than the ones we thought before.
When I first came out, I genuinely thought I was bisexual. I only knew the most "basic" sexualities. About a year passed and I discovered there was something called pansexuality, and as I read into it, I realised the description fit me much better than bisexuality. Around the same, however, I started realising that it still wasn't as simple. Off I went, not really thinking about it, but looking around to find out more. That's when I discovered the Ace spectrum, and the difference between sexual and romantic orientation. I chose the term demisexual and turned pansexual into panromantic, thinking that was it. Oh, but it wasn't, although it was very very close. Some months later, I stumbled upon an Instagram account that explained the different types of asexuality. And there was one that caught my eye - Gray-A. Similar to demisexuality, but not the same. That's where I'm at now. Panromantic Gray-A. But who knows, maybe as time passes, I'll find an even better suiting term.
What I'm trying to say is, orientations are incredibly complex. And only now are we finding words to describe them. Of course some people will need more time to figure themselves out, trying out different names. I don't see a single reason to shame us for not being sure about ourselves. After all, this kind of thing is the business of only the person it's about. It's no different then figuring out what your dream career is. You might try being a tour guide, a barista, an IT person, only to realise that all you ever wanted was to be an artist. And no one will shame you for trying out different things, they will usually praise you.
If you are struggling to find yourself a label, it's okay. You might not find it now simply because it doesn't exist yet. And that's. Totally fine.
And to you, who put us down: leave us the fuck alone.
Romics 2018 sketch Kacchako / Tododeku Me as Bakugou @kinnme as Todoroki 💥💥💥
I Even Like His Shocking Pickup Lines by kirishimaunbreakable
“You’re just so.. so..” Hard to look away from, didn’t sound like something Shinsou wanted to say out loud.
“Irresistible?”
“Infuriating.”
But he’s not and Shinsou hates it. Until he doesn’t.
Words: 3422, Chapters: 1/?, Language: English
Fandoms: 僕のヒーローアカデミア | Boku no Hero Academia | My Hero Academia
Rating: Not Rated
Warnings: Creator Chose Not To Use Archive Warnings
Categories: M/M
Characters: Kaminari Denki, Shinsou Hitoshi, Kirishima Eijirou, Sero Hanta, Ashido Mina, Bakugou Katsuki, Aizawa Shouta | Eraserhead, Yamada Hizashi | Present Mic, Eri
Relationships: Kaminari Denki/Shinsou Hitoshi, Minor or Background Relationship(s), Bakugou Katsuki/Kirishima Eijirou, Aizawa Shouta | Eraserhead/Yamada Hizashi | Present Mic
Additional Tags: Shinsou is in class 2-B, Enemies to Friends to Lovers, Sexual orientation discovery, Kaminari Denki is a Dork, Shinsou Hitoshi is Bad at Feelings, Kaminari Denki Can’t Flirt With People He Actually Likes
Read Here: http://archiveofourown.org/works/20813198
I don't remember what fanfic is this from and at this point I'm too afraid to ask
Update ~
Fic - "Numb" by Dazeful on ao3
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|Daniel|
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i made a meme to express how i feel right now
hey.
you have staying power in people’s lives. I’ll say it again: you have staying power in people’s lives.
you exist. you have a presence in your best friend’s life. you have impacted their life. you exist to them regardless of whether or not you’re in contact with them at this very second. in the course of their day, they will see things that can (and have) reminded them of you. they think about you. they miss you when you’re not there.
you’re not a nebulous creature that has no sway in another person’s life. no, my treasure, you are a person who is full of personality, light, love and interests shared in common with the people you most care about.
I know what you feel, but I promise you.
You matter, objectively, to the people who love you. They’re not going to forget about you. You are not disposable.