Curate everything.
Curate your hygiene routine, curate your clothing items, curate your home, curate your habits, curate your nutrition, curate your environment, curate your circles, curate you socials, curate the content you consume, curate your social skills, curate your financial situation, curate your emotions, curate the version of you that shows up in public, curate your hobbies, curate your knowledge.
by marina weishaupt (500px / flickr / instagram)
This weekend shall be reserved for sewing
She's so sexy ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜
Kept the shuttle place open, so you can see her work :)
This is so much better then a electric machine
Absolute beginner adult ballet series (fabulous beginning teacher)
40 piano lessons for beginners (some of the best explanations for piano I’ve ever seen)
Excellent basic crochet video series
Basic knitting (probably the best how to knit video out there)
Pre-Free Figure Skate Levels A-D guides and practice activities (each video builds up with exercises to the actual moves!)
How to draw character faces video (very funny, surprisingly instructive?)
Another drawing character faces video
Literally my favorite art pose hack
Tutorial of how to make a whole ass Stardew Valley esque farming game in Gamemaker Studios 2??
Introduction to flying small aircrafts
French/Dutch/Fishtail braiding
Playing the guitar for beginners (well paced and excellent instructor)
Playing the violin for beginners (really good practical tips mixed in)
Color theory in digital art (not of the children’s hospital variety)
Retake classes you hated but now there’s zero stakes:
Calculus 1 (full semester class)
Learn basic statistics (free textbook)
Introduction to college physics (free textbook)
Introduction to accounting (free textbook)
Learn a language:
Ancient Greek
Latin
Spanish
German
Japanese (grammar guide) (for dummies)
French
Russian (pretty good cyrillic guide!)
Links to my free sewing patterns! - big manta ray - smaller manta ray - monster friend (those monsters with horns I’ve been making lately, but without horns) - pie slice - Fred, the Fish of Minimal Effort - tiny cat (aka Jiji) - mini mothman - whale shark/donut whale shark - juggling frog/toad (aka my smallest, simplest frog pattern of the three I’ve made) - large frog - tiny hedgehog - minecraft bee - minecraft zombie - blorbo - Strawberry Hearts quilt pattern - starfish - little octopus - canvas tote - basic bat and ghost - mini mushroom friends Tutorials: - flannel baby blanket tutorial - tomato pattern design walkthrough (how I design the pattern, not a link to the pattern itself)
The only thing my brain seems capable of is rereading the series that dominated my childhood and largely shaped who I am. Mostly because I've read it like 20 times and I don't have to think, just remember.
~With scheduled breaks in a dark room to avoid sensory overload as prescribed
And I'm not mad about it. It's one of the lights right now, I have time to spend my days reading these books.
So many of my characteristics make sense
(via the author, at the Ex Bird place)
note: credits go to (ofc) the original artists + compilers
emotional sad
last time together
waiting for the one who doesn't come
pov. heartbroken mermaid
slowly losing grip on reality
fight scenes
instrumental music for writing and fighting
you call it revenge, i call it returning a favour
all thrones come at a cost
comfort
a hogwarts comfort
you're studying with the dead poets society
and suddenly, we were strangers again
before sunrise
tension
realising we're living in a dystopian reality
you built an empire on the streets of birmingham in the 1920s
a little more dark academia
fine, make me your villain (darkling)
pleasingly dancing for your hot enemy in a private room
cool
it's 1998 and you're drifting through tokyo
among all the stars and infinite galaxies, how lucky am i to have met you
we're just used to this already (honkai star rail)
the playlist finds the cool kids
it's an old money summer at your house in europe
all my demons dance through the nighttime
office wave 1986
lost nostalgic
maybe in another life
what it feels like to be a memory
it's summer again, the days are blurring and the nights are sleepless
calm
lost in space
you exist for a reason (dreamcore)
a dreamlike peace
quiet autumn days
the calm before the storm
time periods
"it was not your fault but mine" greek mythology playlist
1920s
1940s
1950s
1970s (marauders)
1980s
1990s (supermodel)
You know what, since I'm thinking about it anyways, let's talk formalwear accessories. Most of these are traditionally menswear but a bit of gender fuckery is good for the soul, and frankly most of these are about making your mass-produced clothing fit and lay properly without having to go to the tailor.
Shirt stays: these go around your thighs to hold your shirt down, so that it stays smooth and tucked in. They're usually elastic, with 1-3 clips, and if you wear skirts frequently this is a GREAT way to make sure your top doesn't ride up. The clips will be visible if you're wearing something tight, so loose pants or skirts are where these do best. There's also an insane version that clips to your socks, but that is for lunatics. If you wanted, you could also use one of these clips to hold up thigh-highs.
These do a great job of smoothing and narrowing the waist area by keeping your shirt from bunching there.
Sleeve garters: usually metal, leather, elastic, or silk. These are usually worn with button-down shirts to adjust where your cuff falls on the wrist or hand. They're properly worn on the upper arm, and you pull the fabric of the sleeve above the garter until you cuff is where you want it. Because this creates a puff of sleeve at the bicep, it also broadens the appearance of the shoulders. It's great if you're working with your hands or if your sleeves are often too long for your preference.
Waistband clip or belt adjustment clip/buttons
Three different ways of tightening the waistband of a pair of pants or a skirt. You're not going to get more than an inch or so tighter without weird bunching, and for most of these you'd want them to be hidden under a shirt or jacket, but they do the job if that's something you're having issues with.
Collar pins: There are so many fun ones out there, both with and without chains. They're not terribly practical, though the slight weight may help keep your collar where you want it. Also consider collar tips, which pin (surprise) to the very tips of your collar points.
Sweater clips/guards: meant to hold your sweater or cardigan mostly closed. Great if your cardigan doesn't button, or if you don't like it to be buttoned all the way.
There's tons of other stuff out there like this--etsy is a great place to find this stuff. A lot of these are old solutions to the very modern problem of mass-maufactured clothes not being as one-size-fits-all as advertised, but they're also a fun way to put a bit of personality into businesswear.
I don't want quick and easy.
I will wait for a love that moves mountains. One that I would go to the end of the world for.
A love that I would've gone to war for in earlier times.
Hold each other in silence and stillness. Ankor eachother down in hail storms. Dig eachother out of snowstorms.
A love that is fierce and passionate. But gentle and caring.
For you, I'll wait.
Until then, I will love myself.