Matched With A Girl With The Same Name… I Think She’s The One.

every time one and only starts i know i only have 12 seconds to prepare myself before *exhale* fuck with me happens and it’s never enough time

goal orientedness vs process orientedness.

this is still something people do not understand. they probably heard about it but they didn’t truly get it. so here’s a quick explanation again:

higher the te(or fe but i won’t keep saying that), lower the fi (or ti).

lower the fi, less individualistic a person is. ,

less individualistic a person is, less ocd attachment to personal values.

but still, they have values, they inherit tribe’s values. like jordan peterson. like ben shapiro. uuuu no freebies to black people ben shapiro says.  forgetting, more like ignoring all the injustice done to them in the past. acting as if the playing field was always fair. why ben shapiro does this? other than the fact he is a smol cunt? well, because he is an estj, he is a part of the capitalistic hive-mind.

for example, a very smart intp may want to be a game developer because they would imagine that would make the work fun! that’s the most important thing for an xxnp. process must be fun. they live in the moment. not in the future. all nps need dopamine to keep going. doing boring shit depresses them.

whereas a te dom can’t care less about job being fun. job is a way to make money, money is a way to marry a hot girl and buy a cool car.

dominant te also means parent si and ni and introverted perceiving functions are about the future. not the process. they can do most boring things as long as they are feeling like they are advancing towards the goal. working out, physical exercise etc included.

every step forward makes them happier, make them feel like they achieved a little something. why? because closer they get to the goal, brighter the future they are living in and thus happier they are.

xxnjs are opposite of xxnps in that regard. they can’t care less about process being fun. procrastinating is a waste of time and something depressing for them. procrastinating makes the future simulation they are living in a doomier place.

for the high ne user, goal matters too of course but not in expense of the process. the reason because, they can’t sustain their inner chemical balance without making the process fun, interesting, stimulating.

finally: tribe values are not interesting. new shit is interesting. so their personal values will deviate from norms so they can feel passionate about those values.

compilation

Filling out the “2020 Democratic Presidential Primary” entry on DoestheDogDie

to anyone out there who’s struggling with having no friends — wondering where you belong in this world, searching for a place to belong — you matter. you are so important. and you will find your people or maybe just a special person who feels like home. it may seem like your loneliness will last forever, but it won’t. it never does.

Heeeeeeeeeeellllllllp 👁

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