Part of the journey to becoming truly enlightened as a beta loser is trusting the women you have encountered in the past as well as those you're encountering now. As human beings we all strive to be truly seen for who and what we are. The women who have laughed at you, made fun of you, looked at you in disgust, who have blown you off...these women all truly "saw" and "see" you for what you are...a total loser. Through their disdain for you they were also providing you an invaluable bit of feedback about yourself. They were being honest. You're a loser and deserve to be rejected by all women. The women that have been kind to you or who are kind to you are being dishonest to you and doing you a disservice and are confusing you. They're doing it out of their own sense of guilt and not wanting to just be direct and black and white with you. They aren't doing it because you aren't a loser. They just don't want to personally feel bad for you being a loser and needing to point it out to you. At all times a loser on the road to enlightenment always takes the first woman described above and values her overt rejection over anything else. After all she is speaking the truth. These are the sorts of women that a loser should ultimately obsess over
When you're a beta loser, seeing her shoe soles up close like this is akin to an alpha seeing a woman naked....it just feels soooo good and it's all the intimacy in life that you should ever need. Fall in love with her shoe soles. Dream about them. Crave them. Serve them. Get off to them. Make them the center of your small universe and do anything you have to, no matter how degrading and sketchy, to see them every day in real life
From my experience and conversations with people here? All lol. ♥️and that is not remotely a problem
Just wondering, because it sure happened to me.
A beta loser's sole purpose in life is to ensure that his wife/gf/crush has all of her needs met so that she can spend more time either with her real boyfriend if she has one, or finding one if she doesn't. This means you devote all of your time to supporting her relationship or potential relationship with another man. A loser provides encouragement, emotional support, menial errand and task completion, as well as buying her hot clothes, lingerie, jewelry, stockings and heels for her to wear on her dates to maximize her potential for getting laid by the real man object of her desires (which will never be you to be clear). A loser does all of this thoughtfully and tirelessly without ever expecting acknowledgement or a reward from her. You do it because you cherish and love her even though you're just "a replaceable thing" to her....
Now that your wives/gf's/crushes are gone for the night with their friends to party with other alphas and get laid and have the time of their lives, there's no need for you to waste the night entirely...
There is much truth to this. As a beta loser who lives cuckolding from a reality based perspective rather than a fantasy based perspective, I can identify with these statements about the likely changes that will occur in your relationship over time. Maybe this isn't entirely true in some relationships but it sure has been to a large degree in my own. Particularly the part where he now calls the shots for both my wife and I. Whatever he wants, he gets. Period. Be careful what you wish for as they say.
There is so much that is misunderstood about becoming a cuckold. Many husbands and boyfriends have a fantasy about their women having sex with another man - one who is more endowed, more masculine, and more assertive. But there is much more to cuckolding when it crosses from fantasy to reality.
Here is what you need to consider:
Sex between me and your wife is a very intimate act. If you think you can remove emotions from it, you’re deluding yourself. Your wife will have feelings for me, and I will have feelings for her.
You do not get to control the sex. That is between me and your wife or girlfriend. If we want to kiss (and we do), we will kiss; once you consent to me making love to your wife, it is out of your hands.
She will look at you and your relationship differently after she is with me. She will know and intimacy from another point of view, and she will forever compare you to me (sorry, friend, but you will likely come up short).
Your wife or girlfriend will want to continue to see me. You will be jealous. Are you going to deprive her? She will resent you.
Cuckolding is not only between me and your wife; it is also between me and you. I cannot speak for all in my situation, but I derive great pleasure from dominating you through your wife. I know you do too.
Still want me to have sex with your cute wife? Great. I look forward to a meaningful relationship with you both.
I tend to give lengthy lectures on my posts but I really think there's nothing I can tell the true beta loser with this one that they don't already know well. While most are stealing co-workers shoes from under their desk long after the work day has ended, or they're making a trip to a second hand store to find the dirtiest and most well worn pair they can find....or they're even going on escort sites and begging an escort to buy her shoes ..this man right here literally won the beta Olympics no matter how much money or dignity it cost him. Again this image speaks for itself and there's absolutely nobody on my blog that doesn't see what I'm saying. If you're here and reading you just know. This beta who is clearly a loser and pathetic is our new hero
As a completely faithful and pussy free loser, I fully support my wife and her boyfriend. It is my role and my highest responsibility day to day to ensure they have the absolute best relationship possible regardless of what that means for me. He makes her happy and that's all I could ever ask for
It's Friday night and you know what that means for beta losers! Time to stay in, get comfortable, and be intimate with a pair of well worn shoes while fantasizing about your crush being ravaged like a rag doll by her real man boyfriend you can't compete with ♥️
Being beta often means accepting roles and responsibilities that others would never even consider accepting. Licking and cleaning a woman's shoes is one of those roles. She should never have to even consider cleaning her own shoes and neither should her boyfriend. This is exclusively beta loser territory and you should not only eagerly accept your role and responsibility...but also put your fullest amount of effort into completing the job, no matter what she thinks of you. It IS a reward to lock a woman's shoes.
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After my blog got deleted by Tumblr randomly I'm back! I love all things beta. I live it in my real day to day life and enjoy supporting others in their own journey to true beta loser enlightenment!
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