How do you feel about chastity play where he can cum but only while locked? I saw an estim cage on amazon and a painful erectionless touchless orgasm seems like a cruel twist.
I like it! Have you seen those wands they use on sheep to shock them into ejaculating for breeding purposes? I once saw an ad for a fertility clinic that claimed to use them on men with extreme cases of impotence to get that sperm and make a baby. Since then I’ve wondered…
As an aside, my chastity play doesn’t usually involve extreme BDSM. I do have some posts on bondage coming up but I’m generally hands off when it comes to the whips and floggers and the clamps and the spikes. I’m just not a physically violent person so I just don’t have it in me to break a sweat breaking someone’s skin.
Electrics are cool, though. They are as much about pleasure as pain anyway. I adore the DreamLover 2000!
Threats make the tummies of naughty brats flutter. Erotic threats are magic words that rattle the mind and set intimate places tingling.
An expert disciplinarian understands the psychology of subtle threats. In healthy kinky relationships, threats are not acts of intimidation, but a way to reciprocate when one partner wants attention and acts up to get it.
The most extreme kind of response is physical discipline, but if that was the only way a disciplinarian could respond, they'd be no fun to play with at all. There'd be no ambiguity, so sense of dancing close to the tripwire. No way to enjoy the erotic tension of pushing boundaries and wondering if you've gone too far.
If any provocation was immediately and invariably followed by a spanking, there'd be little space for the emotional and psychological enjoyment or discipline - and that would be no fun at all.
So, good disciplinarians enjoy a more subtle, progressive approach. When misbehaviour is noticed, it's far better that the consequences are foreshadowed. Think of this as a stairway with four steps.
The first step is the Verbal Warning. The disciplinarian recognises their charge's attempt to grab their attention, and cautions them that kind of behaviour will earn them a sore bottom. The threat is left hanging in the air.
The second step is Foreshadowing - where the brat is made to imagine the consequences of continued misbehaviour. They might be told: "You're choosing not to listen, and I'm losing patience. What happens when I lose patience?" And the brat will be made to explain in detail what the consequences of naughtiness really are. But still, their bum remains unsmacked.
The third step is The Brink. The brat will be sent to fetch the implement that will be used to spank them. They might be made to take off and hand over their panties, or change into a customary spanking outfit, like their pyjamas.
There might be a physical demonstration, with the spanking implement smacked against the spanker's palm, swished through the air, or whacked against a cushion. This theatrical performance should leave the naughty one in no doubt what's in store, but it need not automatically be followed by a spanking. Just like orgasms and edging, it's more effective to leave them teetering on the brink, buzzing with anticipation.
The final stage is, of course, the spanking itself. But this doesn't need to occur immediately. It might happen in a few hours, or at bedtime, or tomorrow, or whenever the recipient is least expecting it.
Remember what makes threats erotic and arousing is their inherent unpredictability. A brat should never truly know how close they are to a sore bottom - that's for their disciplinarian to decide. Threats make brats wet, and the best spankings come as a shocking surprise.
@i-control-sluts-betas-cuckqueans, my pathetic worm doesn't deserve to squirt near any woman!
Review #1 - from Alicia I still love this shock-collar for Husband training. I have truly seen a positive attitude change in him. We all have times our significant other irritates us, but most Women don’t know how to stop it. Example, I was reading my book, and my Husband kept pestering me. I just looked up and turned on the Zapper. Then I told him to vacuum the upstairs, and not interrupt me until I summoned him.
Once I finished reading I gave him an extra good zap to summon him to get me a glass of white wine. Now if you had known my man years ago, you would not believe how responsive he is to my needs and desires.
Review #2 - from Christine After purchasing this we made a rule that my husband would put the zapper around his scrotum just above his balls any time I ask him. It’s also is great on date night. Now when I need the pool scrubbed, I just ask him to put on the zapper. Once it is on, he works hard without any complaints. Then I might get him too clean the stairs. Once he is finished I get him to give me a shoulder and neck massage. I make him wear it 24x7. Even when he is in office. Believe it or not, its an amazing training device for husbands.
Review #3 - from Jenny We recently started using a remote shock puppy collar on my husband’s balls to ensure obedience. This particular model has six shock levels plus a vibrating signal. It’s amazing how effective it has been.
Since we started our FLR, we had a rule that if I called him or gave him an order he must drop whatever he is doing and come to me or do what I told him to do. This used to work according to his mood, and while I of course had the right to punish him, I didn’t do it regularly because I’m lazy. Now I call him using the vibrating feature and he knows that if he doesn’t come immediately (or if he doesn’t obey an order immediately) his nuts will get zapped. He is so responsive and so fast now! When we go out I always make him wear the fully recharged zapper and he behaves like a gentleman, since he knows that I keep the remote with me at all times and that I’m not afraid to use (frankly, I like to use it – hahaha!).
My sweet husband never argues with me anymore and shows proper respect at all times. Even when the zapper is not on, he knows that he will be wearing it before he goes to bed every night. That is a ritual we have since we got the device. Every night he asks me if I am happy with his behavior for the day. If I’m not, I give him shocks of varying intensity and duration depending on the infractions. I love to see the look on his face when he asks the question, especially on those days when he knows he’s been a bad boy, which are now becoming rare. I recommend this gadget to all dominant wives. You will never let any misbehavior go unpunished and he will become a new man, one you will like a lot!
Review #4 - from Me I instructed My husband to buy one of these Remote Shock Puppy for Me several months ago. Once this shock trainer arrived, I looked it over and ordered him to attach it to a locking bondage belt that I secured around his balls. I immediately started experimenting with the shock settings on this wicked little device. It has 16 levels of shock intensity. I discovered that level 3 or 4 are good to get his immediate attention or to summon him to My presence. I use levels 5 to 7 as for punishment for minor infractions, while higher levels are reserved for more severe discipline. Usually anything above level 8 is sufficient to drop him to his knees. I don’t think I have inflicted anything higher than level 11 on him which makes him beg for mercy! I keep My slave in his “shock trainer belt” nearly all the time (except when bathing and so forth).
I really enjoy that I am able to discipline (shock) him when we are out in public like at a restaurant, shopping mall, and so forth. I usually shock him whenever I see is his attention wander from me, or he dares to glace a little too long at another woman.
Queens & Ladies, take My advice and buy one of these shock trainers for your slave/husband. Using this shock trainer combined with the male chastity device of your choice will keep him under your complete control and help make living with him a real pleasure for you 24x7..!
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