Muffin, That Was A Great Wine Night Last Night. Did You Get Everything Cleaned?

Muffin, that was a great wine night last night. Did you get everything cleaned?

We just love our wine night entertainment, you put on quite the show last night. Ashley loved the bells, and you showed much improvement in your posture, I can tell how hard you’ve practiced, even while “shaking that sissy ass” you were able to keep those tinkles down, even though we all noticed some tinkling when you were staring at our legs, naughty Muffin, you need to control those urges, sissy’s are to serve and entertain. I couldn’t believe the gifts that the girls got you though.

Wasn’t it nice of Ashley and Amber to get you a new plug, larger and with ball bearings inside, that will really help with “shaking that sissy ass” . It was so cute how after you got to perform your “little speech” for Nikki and the girls, let’s pull up the video “Marm I’d like to apoligize for my mistake of not informing you why I wear the peek-a-boo maid’s dress, Sissy feels that her quick triggered caged little clitty needs to be shown off so no Lady could be threatened by me" LOL you didn’t realize I’d videoed it, well honey I just had to share it with my mother and sister. The girls all loved Ashley’s idea of a "pussy free clitty” tattoo to help out you out. If you don’t behave we might need to look into it. I have a feeling you’ll be behaving and trying to control those urges though.

That new cage Sarah and Nikki got you is a delight, we might have to do a second take of your speech with the new cage.

Thrust it out, wow even today I’m still amazed at how small this cage is, and the little spikes in the head area, you better concentrate on serving. It was so funny how they tricked you into thinking you were getting your release. Sarah really made you beg, I can’t believe your up to three weeks per mistake, I loved how you were asking for two weeks and she got you to plead for three weeks that was some begging. Then you thought you had pleased all of us for that quick little squirt, she held that bag of ice to your little clitty, I knew it was small, but it all most disappeared after that LOL..Unlocked only to be put into a much smaller cage with spikes.

Don’t worry Muffin you only have to get through the next 4 weeks with no mistakes, do your chores properly here and then the weekend at each ladies house and that little squirt you’ve been craving will be yours. So you have four straight weekends with Ashley, then Amber, Nikki, and lastly your favorite Sarah. You better be on your best sissy maid behavior Muffin.

Now back to those chores, be sure to “shake that sissy ass"

Don’t ask. Tell!

The other day I spoke with my beautiful fiancé more about wife led marriage and sent her a few articles on orgasm control, motivation, male submissiveness, and assertive speaking. She understands and agreed to most of it, but doesn’t like the sound of demanding things vs asking politely.

And I understand where she is coming from. She has a loving and caring character. She also is confident public speaker and doesn’t take shit from anyone. She stands up for herself aggressively but is very kind and selfless to the people that love her.

Because she loves me so dearly, she does not like the thought of speaking to me in a demanding manner.

Of course from a submissive perspective, being demanded is a way for us to serve and please — so her demanding is actually a loving act.

It won’t be an easy concept for her to adopt. I’ve been thinking about how to approach this and decided the best way is for her to learn to just remove the question mark.

Instead of asking like:

“Honey, could you please make me a coffee?”

(hoping he gets the hint) “I’d really like a coffee right now”

“Could you do me a favour and make me a coffee please?”

Learn to tell like:

“Honey… please go make me a coffee.”

“Go make me a coffee.”

“Be a good boy and go make your wife a coffee.”

Demanding can still be said lovingly. The difference is the aura of confidence and assertiveness. The demand will create an instant response in the submissive to act. Whereas a question will instead leave him thinking.

With a demand, the following responses from him are not possible:

“Not right now babe, I’m busy playing video games.”

“Sorry can’t at the moment, this film is getting really good.”

“I was just about to leave to go see a friend.”

Any failure on him to obey her command should be met with discipline at a later time. She must assert her authority. Otherwise he will learn to not follow her orders.

There are a few reasons why telling is better than asking:

It puts her needs above his, which makes him feel submissive

It displays her authority, which makes him feel submissive

He gets a “thank you”, “good boy”, or “good job” for successfully serving her — making him feel submissive

There is no ambiguity about whether the request is needed or not

It prioritises the demand over whatever he is doing right now

She gains a bit more confidence with every successful demand

Most importantly everyone is happier. She gets what she wants, and he gets what he wants

The difference is so subtle for her, but it’s a huge change for the submissive man. With asking him in a form of a question, you’re opening up to the fact that it’s okay if he says no. By telling him he must do something, he does not get to decide if and when. He doesn’t get to say yes or no. She wants a coffee. And she has decided that he is to make it for her.

Every girl knows when she asks her man to do something in a form of a question, she is secretly demanding. If he says no to her question, she will actually get pissed off inside and mask it.

It’s her soft way of telling, but the problem is he is not a mind reader. She should just instead tell him what she wants knowing that she is in charge. Be assertive. Have confidence in your decisions and actions.

It’s best just to be assertive and tell in the first place. It puts the man into a position of service, there’s no beating around the bush, and there is no room for the word no.

I believe every woman has it in her to learn to be assertive. It just needs to be allowed to grow and flourish.

He will be happier to please you by following your orders.

– R

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