True story, recent...
I was coming back home for a break on a plane yesterday. Before boarding I had noticed (it was kind of impossible not to) this Goddess with short leather pants exposing magnificent creamy white legs in clear heeled flesh-pink boots with matching pink socks. I had to pick my jaw up off the floor the first time I looked at (and drooled over) her.
I tried to talk to her two times on the plane, but her response was pure ice-bitch both times. The second time she cut me down to size in front of other passengers and a stewardess. I walked back to my seat like a humiliated dog with my tail between my legs. I stared at her boots (all I could see from my seat) and tried (unsuccessfully) to imagine being a real stud who was good enough to fuck her.
I was walking in town after and two beautiful women were walking down the stairs from the train to the street. One in a tight tube top exposing her perfect midriff and tight against magnificent breasts, the other in skin tight white see through jeans and a low cut top. Total power and perfection. They were taking selfies, posing and primping on the stairs, no doubt tormenting their many social media orbiters with what they can never EVER have.
As I looked trance-like, the tube top girl gave me a look of total rejection, disgust and contempt, while the tight jeans girl called me out verbally.
Later I relived their collective contempt as I orgasmed with my girlfriend. My first sex in three months. My first orgasm in three months.
I remember, just now, some exercises a bitchy girl I know had told me to do several months back, that I tried, and failed, to do. They involved a hands free orgasm where I clasped my hands behind my back, imagined ridicule from women who had rejected me across the years, and came hands free to my humiliation. Even though I was not able to complete the exercises after several attempts upon her order; it appears her goal of having me only able to achieve orgasm to humiliation by SUPERIOR WOMEN like her has been realized. I admit I had been going down that road for a while, but had, for the most part, fought it off -till she arrived on the scene. Now I cannot orgasm without some measure of humiliation.
I see sexy, powerful women, and all I want to do is serve them. My sex drive is for the most part subjugated. Or connected to service.
But I am not unhappy with this turn of events. And it doesn't necessarily make me feel like a loser, either.
I just feel like beautiful women are superior to me. Period. They do not want me. They never have. They never will, unless it is as friends.
BUT I still WANT THEM. Bad. So I need to put up with any mistreatment they wish to give me, if I wish to play ANY role in their lives.
That's just what real life as an inferior doormat to hot girls I want but can never have, is....
Hello I'm Derek a 50 year old submissive and I'm getting married and we both are new to this lifestyle of FLR and she wants to control my masturbation problem and we can't find a chastity that works for me the mainstream ball trap devices doesn't work for me what's your advice on a truly inescapable chastity sir
Hello Derek. Feel free to message me privately if you like. I wear a piercing secured MaleChastityNow (MCN) device. We found a piercing shop at the Association of Professional Piercers website, and read through Elayne Angel’s The Piercing Bible website and book.
I was pierced in 2014 with an 10ga needle and immediately stretched to 8ga. I healed in 8ga jewelry and stretched to 4ga. The thicker jewelry feels better. I was too shy to say I’m using it for chastity, but I did say I wanted to stretch to heavier gauges, so the piercer set it further back.
If you like ball-traps but find them too easy to pull out, get a Contender. @female-led-couple has an active OnlyFans as well as some content here. She got him pierced and fitted in a Contender.
Small changes in base ring diameter and angle can make a big difference in comfort.
If you want a shaft-only device, get a GlansArmor2. That’s what I’ve been wearing most often.
This year there’s a “no piercing” option: it’s a glans-ring which traps you inside. That way you don’t need to be pierced. But I like my piercing, the commitment it represented to my wife, and the safe healthy method for security.
Mark at MCN uses 316 stainless steel and gives it a jewelry grade polish. He also uses narrower cage rods, which make for a lighter device. It’s about 56% lighter than his competitors.
As of 2020, he started offering a proprietary keyed fastener. The screws are custom made for his company, and are the best quality and security. The PA mount has the screw countersunk. There’s no way to loosen it without the keyed bit, and a driver to get some torque. The MCN Lock System is very secure.
I’ve worn MaleChastityNow cages for 13 weeks straight without removal, and for over 180 weeks so far. I have bought dozens of other devices. But I’m in my “dream home” now.
Good luck on your journey. Share it with your wife. Try to let her lead. Play safe and sane.
All the best to you both.
FD Clinic
A forced orgasm through a metal chastity cage isn't very satisfying for you, no. But knowing there is no real NEED for me to ever unlock you, that I can do whatever I want to you, well. It's pretty fucking satisfying for me.
I decided to try out some blindfold contact lenses I got in the mail, learn some nice lessons in the process.
I ordered from 2 different suppliers (found via reddit) both of which provided the same product, and were shipping from China. This makes me believe they're the same company. Same day order was placed, tracked and arrived on the same day, same courier.
For simplicity, we'll use TTDEye as our reference (because it had much better packaging and bonus items).
For the ones I ordered, the contacts, obscure vision, they do not blind you. That being said, the black or white ones are essentially blinding you. You can see faint outlines, and strong sources of light, that's it. The colorized versions however only applied a filter, which corrected itself after both contacts were in and waiting 15 minutes. I was extremely disappointed until I tried the white/black ones.
That being said, I still would recommend them. They're a great starting point and a great way to learn how to use them prior to using the hard-core ones. Picture not being able to see, and being a first time user, trying to remove contacts lenses.
Yeah, didn't think so.
I am a first time user, with 0 previous experience with contact lenses. The lenses arrived and gave me full confidence in their quality. I've included a picture of the package.
Once in, the contacts are easy to move and adjust. Overall really impressed.
If you're looking for the official ones, I've also included that link :)
Happy kink :)
Official blindfold contacts are from:
Starter contact lenses:
Chicks before dicks! It's like "Bros before hos" but we mean it literally and enforce it with chastity. Now get on your knees, where you belong.
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