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How to Become a Premature Ejaculator

So after many many years, and literally $1000s spent on hypnosis/sex therapy/experimentation/research in trying to become a premature ejaculator here is my best technique.

Sadly there is no magic pill to become a Premature Ejaculator (at least not reliably!), here’s my best researched two-step technique of becoming a Premature Ejaculator:

Phase 1. Medium-term Gooning - ‘simulated PE’

The first stage takes lots of will power. If you have a chronic masturbation/gooning habit you may have noticed that the longer you goon, the sooner it is before you reach edge.

So initially you will be focusing on re-wiring your triggers and habbits. If you manage not to cum for several days you will find yourself starting to edge sooner and sooner, maybe you start feeling the ability to cum after a couple of minutes. If you keep going it’ll get shorter and shorter. Judge your progress, after 5 or so days you should be down to a consistent 20-30 seconds of jerking before you HAVE TO STOP.

Unfortunately this feeling is only temporary, if you ejaculate now then you will go back to being able to last.

This first phase will feel extremely frustrating! You MUST NOT cum! Despite how much your body cries out. You must focus all your willpower, your desire to become a permanent premature ejaculator must outweigh the pleasure you feel when cumming.

Keep jerking off, edging, stopping, jerking off, edging, stopping! Get up to one whole week of this!

Your mind will be a mix of emotions, I’m sorry to say you may find yourself not enjoying masturbation because of how little of it you can do without having to stop (BTW, this is what a permanent premature ejaculator feels like), yet you will be horny all the time.

When you start to feel these feelings (but no sooner than one week) stop, and continue to phase 2.

Phase 2. Conventional Ejaculation

Your first day of phase 2 will be spent without touching your dick at all. However, at this stage you’ll be well acquainted (or reacquainted) with what turns you on the most, spend the first day of phase 2 with this porn. Let it become a part of you, let it turn you on so much. But do not stroke your dick. Jerking off today is as unobtainable as the tits or pussies you see on your screen.

The next day you will start phase 2 proper. Your task will be to bring up your favorite porn, start jerking, and cum as soon as you feel the need:

Because you have at least seven whole edging days of cum built up you will be so ready to explode, you will cum so easily, HOWEVER, you MUST CUM AS SOON AS YOU FEEL READY! DO NOT HOLD OFF You must experiment relaxing the muscles above and around your penis, it’s the same muscle set you relax when taking a pee, so try that. Feel what that feels like, remember which muscles you relaxed. If you want to extend your jerk-off session you may look at porn without touching your dick, but from the moment you touch your dick you must not stop jerking till you cum.

Let your cum explode, and enjoy your release.

Then put your penis away. You’ve had your fun. No matter how horny you are you must not jerk off again this day.

The next day, browse your favorite porn without touching your dick. When you’re ready to cum, grab your dick, and while stroking try to relax the same muscles as yesterday…. You will find that when you’re ready to cum it will just happen, it may even take you by surprise! Remember how easy it was yesterday? Well today it was almost as easy!

This will be your life for the next two weeks. You must not jerk off unless you’re ready and willing to cum in the next few minutes, and when you’ve cum that must be the end for the day. While you’re jerking you must relax your muscles.

Over the 14 days you will notice the time taken to cum and your ability to resist cumming will reduce. Perhaps you can record your timings, make a graph of it, chart your descent.

What we are doing is causing your ejaculatory muscles to dystrophy. We are physically reducing your ability to hold back. It will take at least two weeks of this behavior for long-term effects to materialize, but it will be worth it in the end.

Welcome to the Premature Ejaculator club. Just be sure you want to be here, getting in in your control, but getting out is a billion dollar industry ;-)

You will only speak when I ask you a direct question. The rest of the time, you will remain silent

Your voice should only be heard when it responds to one of my commands or questions. This constant silence is not only a sign of respect but also a demonstration of your total submission and understanding of your place.

While you are in my presence, you must remember that every word you utter is a privilege, not a right. Your silence is a symbol of your devotion and willingness to obey without reservation. When you speak, it must be with absolute clarity and precision, responding exactly to what I have asked, no more, no less.

If you need something, you must signal it non-verbally, using gestures or facial expressions that I approve of. Any unsolicited verbal communication will be considered a violation of this rule and will be punished accordingly. Your silence must be maintained at all times, even in the presence of others, reinforcing your role and place.

Your silence will also allow you to fully concentrate on your tasks and on satisfying my needs. Every moment spent in silence is an opportunity for you to reflect on how you can better serve me and anticipate my desires. By reducing your words to the bare minimum, you eliminate unnecessary distractions and show your devotion through your behavior and attention.

This constant silence is also a form of humility. By only speaking when I permit you, you demonstrate that you recognize my superiority and are willing to sacrifice your own need for communication to honor my authority. Every word you withhold, every thought you keep to yourself, is a tribute to my domination and your commitment to serve me unconditionally.

Always remember that your silence is a proof of your loyalty and your understanding of your place. When you do speak, it should be a rare and significant event, reflecting your respect and total submission. Your silence is a gift you offer me, a symbol of your dedication to my satisfaction and will.

Know your place

Chastity guide by sissyjoyce

I’ve been in chastity for a looooong time. The very first thing i did when i turned 18 is take a buss to a crowded city, and bought a chastity cage CB-6000 in there. I remember that, i got so nervous.  If you are looking for the perfect chastity cage for you, feel free to folow my advise, it will save you allot of cash. 1) Don’t buy a device that can pinch your skin.

2) Don’t buy cheap plastic devices or flexible materials! The only plastic device i know won’t break are the expensive CB-series and Holytrainers.

3) Don’t buy a transparant device. You dont want to see your penis, after 2-3 weeks you will forget how your penis looks like exactly, and forget about it more and more. 

4) Dont buy a chastity cage with a lockpad. You can grab the lockpad and move your cage untill you orgasm, lets be honest sissies.

5) Dont buy a cage that shows too much skin. With erections, your skin will just get swollen and hurt.

6) The perfect cage examples and places where you can buy them :

I dont get anything out of this post or something like that, this is just to help you! Dutch people can buy from https://www.kuisheidskooi.nl/huismerk/Kuisheidskooi-Metaal Extremly cheap, i bought mine there… For the others you can buy one at for example :  https://steelworxx.de/ But those are expensive, you can probably find one like this online cheap, but be carefull. I know you are wondering… ‘’Sissyjoyce, on your picture you are wearing a holytrainer S) I know… its a good chastity cage, but these are betters? Right now i got the right one from the lowest picture i showed. xxx

Joyce

I wonder if that stuff is breathable ?