Assertive Young Ladies #147

Ejaculation As A Weapon.... For Advanced FLR's

This is only for those in advanced FLR's that prefer 24/7 power exchange and strict rules. It's only for those who know beyond a doubt it's all consensual and desired.

There are some women who prefer their submissive to be obedient at all times, without the associated sub-drop that comes with ejaculation. While there are easier methods to reduce this sub-drop duration, such as having him consume his own cum, there are ways of enforcing the mindset that even after he ejaculates, he will still obey.

It is well known, that once he ejaculates, his desire to submit, obey, please, or even be touched, drop off to a minimum. He is out of sub-space and waiting in the refractory period until his sexual energy slowly recharges over the course of the next day or two.

It varies per man, because it depends on how frequently he has had releases, as well as how well teased he was before ejaculation. Generally, the less frequent he ejaculates, the quicker the refractory period recovery time.

However, for the strict domme, it is during this refractory period, in which her dominance can truly shine and his obedience can be built. It's during this period, that punishments are the most effective. After he has ejaculated, his ego is at it's strongest point, and this is why this is meant for advanced FLR's only, because it's also when his feelings can be easily hurt and he can feel neglected. He should never feel abused, and it's not okay if he does.

Therefore, it's important to establish the foundation of the FLR long before attempting this type of domination technique. Also, she should never punish him when she's angry, and should always wait until she has cooled down, so she can punish him with a clear mind.

Ejaculation is often seen as the ultimate reward for a submissive, especially after having been locked in chastity for several days or weeks. In most FLR's it is something to look forward to, but in the more advanced FLR, she can turn his greatest pleasure, into her most sinister weapon.

The use of a whip or a cane generally hurts enough even when he is fully aroused, to make him regret any disobedience or misbehavior. The pain will often take him into sub-space relatively quick and wipe his ego out, and he will be thankful for the correction. However, if she really wants punish him, she can make him regret any transgression, by performing it after ejaculating him.

After ejaculation, the pain is far more intense and not at all enjoyable. He will never want this kind of punishment to happen again, but it is the ultimate display of her dominance, that she can, and will punish him, even when he feels at his least obedient.

She can take this further, into having him perform submissive acts after ejaculation, training him that his obedience to her is never allowed to drop in eagerness, and with the threat of punishment looming, he will quickly learn to remain obedient at all times.

Ejaculation is no longer the reward it once was, and he will quickly realize obedience is his only option, that her rule is absolute, and the best he can strive for is her mercy.

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I'm in two minds about whether I want to be Jeff or whether I think he's an idiot for letting you go. Not by choice, but compulsion. It also is a little sad that even in fantasy land where you and I are together, I know that you're break up with me once I'm locked :( Would you ever keep dating a locked boy?

Poor Jeff. It was really only a matter of time. Quite the predicament for a while, though. In the end, he chased that chastity rabbit right down the hole without looking back. I take that as a sign that he definitely made the right choice.

Sadly, I don’t keep dating a guy once he’s locked. It’s nothing personal. It’s not like he’s any less worthwhile or valued as a person. It’s just that the male chastity brain doesn’t quite do it for me. If you’ve been following along at home you know that I prefer sex with women and romance with men. I like to be impressed by, enamored with and intellectually challenged by the man I date. The longer a man is in chastity the less capable he seems of these things. A chaste man tends to become servile, single-minded (on me and my happiness, sure) and docile. Humility is a good thing and very attractive as long as it’s paired with self confidence and proactivity. But the chaste man, at least when they are in a relationship with me, tends to become overly humble and submissive and completely reactive to me and my needs. The chaste man becomes infatuated with me (his keyholder) to ridiculous degrees. Maybe some women prefer to give themselves to such a man, but it just doesn’t do it for me. I just respect a man more that I can’t immediately enslave.

Don’t get me wrong. I do want you like this. I do want you chaste, servile, submissive and eternally tormented, and I would love to spend time with you in this state. I thoroughly enjoy prolonging your sexual suffering and watching you squirm. After all, I can only have one boyfriend (at a time) but I can have hundreds of adoring locked up minions. Just by the numbers, going the chaste route is your best bet at getting my affection.

Do you feel too guilty to live your fantasies? Lock him in a cage. Tell him if he fails to thank you for whatever you do to him, you'll add time. He'll thank you, and even though you know it's enforced, he'll learn to make you believe it. In fact, thanks to the cage, he'll make himself believe it, too. His gratitude will be true submission. You'll both be happier than you've ever been. And that makes it hard to feel guilty.

Karen Gillan