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Assertive Young Ladies #93

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From Ms Viola's Voltaireine

Blake Lively

the Guardian

Why I ditched my therapist to hire a dominatrix instead

My dominatrix life coach isn’t afraid to hurt my feelings – she’s brutally honest and has no time for my excuses

THIS right there best represents MY kink as a Dominant.

I am not a Dominant because I can top a sub and use torture implements. I am a Dominant because I have forward drive, a constant sense of direction. I observe, analyse and problem-solve nonstop; I take notes and utilize them. I am a scientist and a hunter. Sure, that's the energy I have with sex, but it goes far beyond that. Ultimately, I don't want my Dominance to be a sexy weekend party, a distraction, an escape from life. I love when it is part of a real life improvement, pushing through limits in order to live a better, deeper, more authentic life. It's not a sexy game to me. It is an inspiration and drive to always be more real.

She sure does like to lure me in and then twist the ending!