She’s Making Sure It’s Constantly Being Used!

Sissy you’re crying from your eyes and your lil clitty.  You could join us if you could stop your lil clitty from crying like that.  I guess you enjoy holding that tray with our wine.  

You’d think that the spikes in that cage would help her control that leaky little clitty.  

THE BEAUTY OF DOMINANCE

Owning a submissive, can be one of the most beautiful things a woman can ever own.  There is so much potential in owning a submissive male.  I say own, within the context of love being the foundation. It’s not a forced ownership, since he wants to be owned, but make no mistake, the true power really does lie in her capable hands. Once a submissive goes down the road of being owned, he feels like he belongs to her. She feels like he is her personal property.  This is a bond between them, that only deepens in time.

It really does get to a point where, a submissive male wouldn’t want to be anywhere else than under her complete control. He trusts and loves her so completely, that he surrenders to her in love. He knows any other way to be in life, pales in comparison compared to being totally devoted to her. He dares not disobey, even if disobedience is easy, or even if, he can get away with it without her noticing. A true submissive, will obey for the sake of obeying her. He will have no second thoughts about it, his ego is completely hers to mold. He has become loyal to her authority, and her as a person.

This is why it’s so incredibly important that she understands her power, and does not use it to abuse him. Because she can, easily, abuse him, and many submissive’s will take that abuse for a while, when they should be standing up and saying no. The fault always lies with the abuser, it is her responsibility, and a submissive, should know, that it’s always okay to stand up and say no, when he feels abused. She needs to respect that for the sake of a healthy relationship. She also needs to respect that for the sake of her loving submissive, and to always have an optimal level of willing submission from him at all times. The sheer level of submission that can come from his is on par with bliss.

Once in control, all trust issues disappear, she never has to worry about what he thinks of her, and most importantly, he is always desiring her. She never has to have body insecurity issues, because his tongue is eager to be used at all times of the day, any time she wants to use it.  Any where she wants to use. For as long as she wants to use it.   This eliminates any kind of guilt she has ever had about sex.  It helps her establish her own sexual desire, and to always please herself when she feels the urge.  It’s total freedom of female sexuality and expression. 

She gets to wear anything she wants, around the house, or out of the house, often, acting single, while keeping her submissive as her owned monogamous pet. She can choose monogamy too, the choice is hers. She understands that he gets no say in her sex life, ever, unless she gives him a say. But, she gets total say in his sex life. He may never even get an erection without her permission. He may never touch his penis ever again without her permission. Or he may be tied down any time the cage comes off, if it comes off. 

His ass is hers to smack, spank, or enjoy with a strap-on, anytime. He gets no say in that either. His body is her amusement park, and the sheer joy that she can have exploring his body, even with just her hands and nails, while he squirms can be a delight few women have ever known. She also gets to dress him however she wants to dress him.  Many women love feminizing a male because it turns him into one of her accessories, in the same way she once played with dolls. It’s incredibly fun to dress a submissive up and put her personal touch on him, and always have him wearing what she wants. He is hers to own, and he will look owned by her. He gets no say in that, except in vanilla situations that may call for a more masculine look. 

But the most interesting part about it, is that vanilla life becomes the play, it is no longer the serious formal identity it used to be, for either of you. You are dominant and submissive, that’s who you really are, and even in the vanilla world, there is that knowing of who owns who. Her ownership of him will always be the forefront of his world, and it will always be her expectation, that he is at her feet on demand, at any time.

The beauty of dominance is that expectation. The expectation that he will endure any and all kinds of sexual tease, that he will give up all sexual rights of his body, and be hers entirely. He accepts her as the authority and as the key to his sex life, and may remain without sexual release for weeks or months or years. His sacrifice is never ignored by her, but accepted with love, and enforced with her power and dominance. She will make sure that he always honors his submission to her by remaining strict. 

The beauty of dominance means she never has a worry, fear or doubt about him ever again. This will cause a huge surge in her own confidence as a woman, if she hasn’t discovered her dominance before. Once she has that confidence, she is geared to live the best life she can possibly live, with her submissive loyally at her side, supportive of her decisions, and always helping her succeed. In return, she is his structure in life, she is the missing piece of the puzzle he has always needed, the purpose he has always longed for. That’s the beauty of dominance.

Teach Him!

One very interesting aspect of a FLR, and in particular, of submissive males, is that they are eager to please. Submissive males want to please, it makes them feel good to give pleasure.  Especially sexual pleasure, but it doesn’t have to be sexual. They will happily clean the bathroom just to be told they’re a good boy, and win approval or brownie points toward a possible release from chastity. However, most submissives males, while eager to please, are quite clueless on how to go about it. They want to please her their way, in any way they know how. A smart submissive understands he must not only be eager to please, but also, eager to learn. 

Lets face it, most males in general, are terrible at eating pussy. If she isn’t on her back shuddering, and grabbing his hair and pulling him closer, moaning while she does it, he’s not doing a good enough job. As his dominant, never be afraid to speak up about it from the get go. Tell him exactly how you want him to improve, tell him what techniques work and also tell him to be creative.  When you don’t know what’s coming, sometimes that can bring very intense orgasms. So a sudden change in tongue pattern, or a finger at the right time can make all the difference in the world.

Remember that his orgasms depend upon the quality of your orgasms, so he has every incentive to please you the right way. Give him lots of opportunities to practice, that’s the beauty of having a submissive in the first place, he’s always ready and eager for you. You can quickly teach him to be an oral expert, even if it was an awkward road to getting there, submissives learn quickly if you’re dedicated to teaching them. Before long all you will have to do is lay back and relax while he goes to town, and that’s how it should be. Your pleasure should always be his only focus, that’s just the nature of the relationship. 

Don’t just stop at oral though, and especially not at just eating pussy. Keep him chaste long enough, and any inhibitions he ever had about eating ass will disappear like they never existed in the first place. Of course, be healthy about it, but not shy!  Teach him how to best perform oral on both areas simultaneously, so that when you’re in the midst of cumming, your back door is being pleasured as well, sending you to new heights of orgasmic bliss. Then you can have him orally service you anywhere, any time you please, and be an expert at it. 

But don’t just stop there, teach him so much more, teach him, how to give you massages, feet, back, sensual, soft, with / without oil... Whatever it is you prefer. With tongue, without tongue. Hands only, or tongue only... You get to customize how  and what he learns. Teach him to pamper you. Teach him what lotions do, moisturizers, and creams. Teach him to shave you, paint your nails, give you a pedicure. Teach him that your femininity is his priority. And don’t let him ever avoid your period, show him everything about it, teach him how to use a tampon, show him the blood. Get him so comfortable with your period that he never shys away when you talk about it. So that, he can provide you emotional and physical support when you tell him you’re on it. Even to the point where, he knows your cycle as good as you do, and anticipates the little things before it even starts. Teach him everything about you, he’s your submissive, you are his priority, so don’t ever let him get away with slacking off, or avoiding one thing but not another. Teach him so much, that, he is your rock, your confidant, your safe haven, your support, your security, your trust, and your love. Then be all those things for him, because you value his submission to you, and cherish the gift that it is.

The Strap On

One of the biggest kinks in a FLR is the strap on. There are many reasons why they’re so common and popular. They benefit both partners equally in different ways making it the perfect sex toy to have in your kinky collection.  However it goes beyond simply being a sex toy, as a strap on can have huge psychological effects as well as physical.  It can really enhance the D/s dynamic because its the perfect tool for role reversal. 

When a strap on is combined with chastity, some real magic can happen between partners.  The longer he is chaste, the more likely he is to crave some sort of anal play, as his prostate gets bigger and more sensitive, craving any kind of stimulation. Even if he doesn’t crave anal play, it is actually healthy for him to have the prostate stimulated, during long lock ups, so it’s for his own good anyway!  This is why a strap on can be so much fun.  He either craves it, or it is humiliating to him, or both!  

This is perfect for a domme as well, as she gets to discover the power of having a penis between her legs, and his moans of pleasure or discomfort, as she begins to thrust into him. This alone, can be an extremely high level of power exchange and very erotic for her. She can take him with her strap on until he is whimpering horny and deep in sub space. There are no concerns about him cumming from the strap on, because this generally requires a lot of time and concentrated effort and technique to achieve. It is possible, if that is what she wants, but she has full control over that. Leaving him horny, makes for an eager tongue after she is finished taking him with the strap on. A tongue in which, she is equally eager for!

The strap on is much more fun than simply just bending him over, there are many ways in which a strap on can be used, which can make it a symbol of her dominance over him.  Often, a strap on is bigger than his penis, and she can tease him about that, saying her cock is bigger than his, while taking him with it.  Or for even more fun, she could allow him to wear it over his cage, and allow him to have intercourse with her using it. Since its bigger than his own penis, she can tease and say how much better it feels.

She could even go so far as to name her cock, and have her sub respect it, by cleaning it after use. Or sucking it to lube it up. Just looking down into his eyes can give both partners a power exchange rush that creates a strong erotic charge.  She can also make him practice his sucking techniques, if she plans on bringing other males into the relationship at some point. Once she has named her strap on, her submissive will have to worship it in the same way he worships her body, because it’s her cock. The psychological effects this can have, can send him deep into subspace, and she can keep him there. 

The strap on can also come in very handy as a punishment. Sometimes a submissive just needs a good hard strap on session, ordering him to get the strap on, and bend over on command, can be a powerful technique. Taking him with it often, even when he’s not in the mood, will help him adjust his behavior to understand, it’s not his bum, it’s hers. His resistance to it, will soon drop away, and the strap on will become a symbol of her power. 

Perhaps eventually, it may be the only way he is allowed to cum.  This can be common if she likes to feminize him, he can literally become the female in the relationship, and cum from anal only, while still caged. There’s so many possibilities with the strap on, including attachments that can provide her stimulation while using it making it even more fun.  It’s just one more tool in the femdom box, that she can use to completely dominate and own her submissive in all the ways she’s always wanted.  It is all about her, after all.

You’re gonna be begging for mercy by the time I finish with you. You’ll wish you’d never come whining to me!

Never question my authority !!!!

It was the end of a very long month that you'd spent self-locked in chastity trying to push yourself. Previously you'd only lasted a week but now, after 31 days in the cage you were satisfied with your record and looked forward to the mind blowing orgasm waiting once you got home from work.

Then she sat down opposite you. You looked at her in stunned silence, that dress... those boots, she was like something out of your fantasies.

"This might sound strange but... are you in chastity? I'm usually great at spotting locked up boys and the way you squirm from the train vibrations is undeniable."

"I, uh, I..."

"Let's take that as a yes. From your age you can't have much experience, I bet you carry the keys with you don't you? Just say yes Miss if I'm right"

"Yes Miss..." You just about managed.

"I thought as much. I bet you'd like to give them to me, wouldn't you?"

"I...", she frowned at me, "Yes Miss"

I wasn't sure what possessed me, but from my wallet I quickly retrieved the keys and placed them in her open palm, before she slid them into her purse and took out a slim piece of paper.

"Good boy, I can already tell you're going to be a special one. This is my number," she handed me the paper, "wait a month, and then call me. A day sooner, or later, and I'll toss the keys away and you can stay in the cage forever."

Again I was all but speechless and could only think to say "Yes Miss" and without another word she stood up and rejoined her friends at the end of the carriage before getting off at the next stop. It looked as if my orgasm tonight, and for the foreseeable future, was cancelled...

Thought ever cross your mind?

Enjoying the jacuzzi, Dorothy told Zack to clean the table and bring more drinks. Zack has been locked 🔐 for almost three weeks. His college performance is improving as well as his physique, since his supervisor Dorothy put him on a strict diet and workout. Two days a week are for glutes exercises only. She is a butt person and everyone knows that. “I like big butts and I cannot lie”, she said sarcastically to her friend Charlotte who’s sharing the jacuzzi with her. Charlotte giggled as Zack showed up. A muscular 6’ 2 ft tall handsome man wearing nothing but a sun hat and a little pink chastity device between his legs. Despite his very muscular body, Zack wasn’t lean or shredded. His body has much fat all in the right places including his big thicc bubbly butt. No wonder he is Dorothy’s favorite. Zack didn’t expect a guest and looked a bit nervous. His cheeks turned shyly red hoping it will stop there knowing that there is always a chance for more cheeks in his body to turn red. Surely, Dorothy would never hesitate to spank him in front of her friend for the tiniest mistake.

“I’m going to dry myself and have a phone call for a little bit”, says Charlotte. Zack couldn’t resist taking a quick look at her wet feminine body walking to inside. His blue balls are about to explode. Something about knowing that the girls are aware of their power over him by just existing like the forbidden fruit makes his lust and agony doubled. They seems to be enjoying it so much, and probably it turns them on as well. However, unlike him, they have the freedom to satisfy themselves sexually.

To his shock, Zack actually knew Charlotte. As she smiled to him walking away, he realized that she is his favorite cafe’s barista. His face turned red accepting how the table has turned. He is now her servant, naked servant, with his little thing between his legs locked by her friend who controls his sex life.

Stunned to speak while looking at her in disbelief, Dorothy broke the silence. “What did I tell you about starting at ladies, boy!”, she said in a strict motherly tone. “I wasn’t staring ma’am I swear, I just thought she looks like… “ Zack couldn’t finish his sentence before his supervisor snapped at him, “You weren’t staring!! Are you calling me a liar young man!?”. He knew not to argue anymore. “I’m sorry that’s not what I meant ma’am” said Zack with a defeated tone, feeling so little despite his size.

“I thought I’d punish you after Charlotte leaves” said Dorothy while looking straight into his frightened eyes. “But now that you talked back, I think your punishment should be doubled. It’s time for Charlotte to learn how to spank men anyways and your big himbo butt is a good platform for education haha”, said his supervisor with a nasty smirk on her face. Zack’s balls almost got sucked into his body in disbelief. His cafe’s server is going to spank him for staring at her. He will never show his face at that cafe for sure. He wanted to beg her but he knew that, if anything, it will make it worse because his supervisor doesn’t appreciate any slight resistance. He even thought about quitting everything and leaving MDSH house, but he knows that he can’t deal with the financial consequences of that. Any MDSH member should pay for every month they stay in if they decide to leave before the end of the school year.

With a slap on his jiggly bubbly ass Dorothy sent Zack inside to apologize Charlotte before inviting her to spank him. Zack walked inside with three cheeks red, knowing it will soon be four. He saw Charlotte carrying her bag and about to put her clothes on. He didn’t know how to talk to her. He felt like he is shrinking and his little chastity is about to fall down. “H.. hello.. miss Charlotte” Zack said. “Hello big boi!” said Charlotte holding her smile while staring at his little pink chastity between his big muscular thighs. He felt so little, wishing the earth would swallow him up. “My supervisor Dorothy sent me to you to apologize for.. ahem.. starring at you. I’m so sorry. I should not do that. I should do better”. “Such a naughty boy! You should not disrespect women and stare at their bodies!” said Charlotte while still trying to hide her smile. At this moment, Zack realized that Charlotte assumed her new dominating position. From now on, she is no longer his coffee barista who tries to satisfy him and follow his orders hoping for generous tips. She knows that she is way more powerful than him, and can scold him like a horny teenager who can’t control his urges. “I know, I’m so sorry ma’am”, said Zack looking at the floor before going into an awkward silence. “Is that it big boi! Is there anything else?” she asked. “Ahem.. y.. yes.. I think my supervisor thinks I need to be.. to be punished” said Zack with a red face. “Oh yeah! And how is she going to punish you?” she asked with full enthusiasm coming from her eyes. “Usually she delays my releasing say, or spank me” he said. “Well, that explains your blue balls haha. You poor little thing! You must be in a real agony watching your sexy supervisor and all of us naked without being able to have an erection or release yourself! It must be rewarding for your self-discipline” she said staring into his defeated eyes. “Y.. yes.. it’s.. I’m becoming a better person than the douche I was in my junior year. I don’t submit to my desires, I do much better in school,and I learned how to value and respect women” said Zack. “But luckily..” he continued, “she didn’t extend my locking time”! “Aha!” Charlotte said, “So I guess you’re getting SPANKED?”. She again was resisting hiding her laughter. “Yes ma’am!” Zack said, “Would you please spank me!? Miss Dorothy said I should be spanked by both of you because I stared at you and talked back to her”.

Charlotte immediately pressed her thighs together, as she is feeling so wet. The request touched a part inside her, that hasn’t been awaken before. Here is a big muscly man she used to serve at her work, completely naked in front of her except of a pink chastity device, asking her politely to spank his sexy ass. She had no time to process her overwhelming feelings. She grabbed his hand and said, “Let’s take you back to your supervisor naughty boy for your spanking. You were never my favorite customer anyways. We don’t offer whipped cream with our latte, yet you keep demanding it. This time you’re getting a whipped ass, instead of a whipped cream. How about that Mr Zack!?” . She led Zack to the door outside like a little boy, who was caught in a trouble. Zack felt the ultimate humiliation, as he was desperately hoping that she wouldn’t remember that he was one of her cafe’s customers. Now that she brought it up, he feels like she will take a revenge on his ass, for every shitty costumer she dealt with, including him. Defeated and overwhelmed, his lips started to quiver, feeling that the little boy inside him is about to come out crying. If that how he feels right now, how will he handle the spanking and scolding, without breaking into begging and tears like a little boy!