Dangerousangleofadream - Femdom

Hello I'm Derek a 50 year old submissive and I'm getting married and we both are new to this lifestyle of FLR and she wants to control my masturbation problem and we can't find a chastity that works for me the mainstream ball trap devices doesn't work for me what's your advice on a truly inescapable chastity sir

Hello Derek. Feel free to message me privately if you like. I wear a piercing secured MaleChastityNow (MCN) device. We found a piercing shop at the Association of Professional Piercers website, and read through Elayne Angel’s The Piercing Bible website and book.

I was pierced in 2014 with an 10ga needle and immediately stretched to 8ga. I healed in 8ga jewelry and stretched to 4ga. The thicker jewelry feels better. I was too shy to say I’m using it for chastity, but I did say I wanted to stretch to heavier gauges, so the piercer set it further back.

If you like ball-traps but find them too easy to pull out, get a Contender. @female-led-couple has an active OnlyFans as well as some content here. She got him pierced and fitted in a Contender.

Small changes in base ring diameter and angle can make a big difference in comfort.

If you want a shaft-only device, get a GlansArmor2. That’s what I’ve been wearing most often.

This year there’s a “no piercing” option: it’s a glans-ring which traps you inside. That way you don’t need to be pierced. But I like my piercing, the commitment it represented to my wife, and the safe healthy method for security.

Mark at MCN uses 316 stainless steel and gives it a jewelry grade polish. He also uses narrower cage rods, which make for a lighter device. It’s about 56% lighter than his competitors.

As of 2020, he started offering a proprietary keyed fastener. The screws are custom made for his company, and are the best quality and security. The PA mount has the screw countersunk. There’s no way to loosen it without the keyed bit, and a driver to get some torque. The MCN Lock System is very secure.

I’ve worn MaleChastityNow cages for 13 weeks straight without removal, and for over 180 weeks so far. I have bought dozens of other devices. But I’m in my “dream home” now.

Good luck on your journey. Share it with your wife. Try to let her lead. Play safe and sane.

All the best to you both.

Contrasts story ©2024 Julanni O art Contrast ©2024 PrincessHinami

Indeed, the contrasts are startling.

But for your head, you are completely encased in skin-tight latex, all black to contrast the light reflecting off its gleaming surface. And by contrast, she wears no latex. In fact, her pale skin is completely on display; she is wearing nothing more than the smile upon her face, a smile that's meant to lull you into relaxing, thinking you might be safe with her. In fact, she smiles because she knows she has you under her control, and you, by contrast, have no control whatsoever.

Your freedom is a thing of the past, your latex-clad arms and hands are held helplessly behind you in sturdy leather cuffs, a chain tethering them up to the special rubber collar, preventing you from wiggling them around to any different position. By contrast, her hands are free, and she is completely free to do with them whatever she wants. And at this very moment, her fingers are playfully testing the elasticity of your snug synthetic second skin as she teases your breast with her touch and tenderly pinches the nipple beneath the shiny surface, smiling a bit more as you react with a moan, proving a certain level of effectiveness in her practically effortless actions.

Your mouth is filled with the last pair of panties you were allowed to wear, humiliating you with their presence and their flavor, while strips of adhesive tape seal your lips, preventing you from ejecting the offending undergarment and helping to rob you of your words, crippling your ability to communicate. There is no begging for mercy now. But by contrast, her lips are free, her mouth casually telling you how pleased she is to have you under her complete control, how pretty you are when you are so helpless and vulnerable, and she smiles more broadly as she whispers to you as one lover to another about the diabolical torments she has planned for you, and how, this time, you will find escape impossible.

Yes, I see all these contrasts, and I also know you have been unaware of my presence behind you. I have been enjoying how focused you are upon your blonde mistress as you are so highly concerned with your very near future. You notice the casually cruel woman glance over your shoulder, grin slightly wider, then look you in the eye again. That's when you get the idea the two of you might not be alone, and you turn your head, looking back to find me standing there, smiling and nodding at the bare skinned blonde. Not having formally met her, I don't know who she is, but I approve of how she handles you in this moment.

I smile at you, pointing out one last contrast. This is your castle, your property, the realm you own. And now, by contrast, it owns you, as you shall now be the imprisoned property of your own dungeon, your frustrated moans of sensual need now belonging to this blonde woman, as much as your screams of agony will be owned, entrapped behind the gag. I nod to her in approval, then turn to you again and smile that I will see you after her month of keeping you in her cruel care. Then it's my turn.

How many people will have their month of owning the now-powerless princess who so cruelly treated them in the past? How many months will bleed into the next, when you will be passed along to the next person seeking their retribution? As you think of all the people you have wronged, you worry this could take years. Perhaps, when you wore the crown, you should have planted seeds of kindness and empathy, and you would now be reaping a more pleasant harvest.

Isn't karma a bitch?